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#1 jamejame
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I think this girl is trying to get me to ask her to prom over facebook. She's cute and all but its awkward because I know her like a friend and shes liked me for awhile. Here's the convo so far:

Me: haha you excited for prom?

Her: eh...

Me: eh?

Her: none of the people who have asked me are people i want to go with they're no fun

Me: who has asked you?

Her: tony melano, justin, a couple guys you don't know

Me: you know you don't HAVE to stay with your date at prom

Her: yeah but those are the kind of guys that would practically force me to

Me: lol just be an **** and ditch them have fun its your night not theirs

Her: all my friends have boyfriends and girlfriends....i wouldn't want to be their third wheel

Me: Dont think of it that way. There's going to be a ton of single dudes at prom looking for a girl like you to have fun with. Dont miss out just cause you dont have a date.

Her: oh well...i don't even care about prom that much...i would only go if i had someone i actually wanted to go with

Me: Who is it you want to go with?

Her: i don't know....just not the people who have asked me

Me:I'm sure someone will ask you.

Her: if not oh well waste of a dress...but it's all good

Me: brb

Am I looking too far into it or is she trying to get me to ask her? How do I end this if so because I like our friendship and I wouldn't want to reject her. Help OT!

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#2 GabuEx
Member since 2006 • 36552 Posts

I would suggest "don't ask her", but that seems like it's sufficiently obvious as to be unfair, really.

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#3 TINYOWNSYOU
Member since 2009 • 565 Posts

Do you plan on going?

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#4 Da_lil_PimP
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I don't see how you could think that she wants you to ask her to prom from that conversation.

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#5 mrmusicman247
Member since 2008 • 17601 Posts

You can ask her and still be friends.

EDIT: If, and only if, you want to go with her.

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#6 XilePrincess
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"I have to go help my mom _______, sorry. Talk to you later." And also she sounds really stupid, "I don't even care about prom but I bought a dress that is now a waste". You can always just accompany her as a friend, it doesn't have to be a date.
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#7 deactivated-5e07bdd20ced5
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you can have sex with her say u will go to prom with her and then show up with some one else*thumbs up*
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#8 entropyecho
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"I might like you better if we slept together."

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#10 jamejame
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she just asked me, fuhhhhh

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#11 TINYOWNSYOU
Member since 2009 • 565 Posts

she just asked me, fuhhhhh

jamejame

You have three options.

1. Tell her the truth

2. Make up a lie

3. Run

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#12 deactivated-5e07bdd20ced5
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[QUOTE="TINYOWNSYOU"]

[QUOTE="jamejame"]

she just asked me, fuhhhhh

You have three options.

1. Tell her the truth

2. Make up a lie

3. Run

number 4 run like the wind join the peace core and fight them whale killers
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#13 JarOfGunz
Member since 2010 • 368 Posts

Ask her to prom and say that you are going just as friends and you want to protect her from those other guys. (Saw it in movies, seems like something that would work).

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#14 o0Pwnzorz0o
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[QUOTE="kbpyrokb"][QUOTE="TINYOWNSYOU"]

[QUOTE="jamejame"]

she just asked me, fuhhhhh

You have three options.

1. Tell her the truth

2. Make up a lie

3. Run

number 4 run like the wind join the peace core and fight them whale killers

number 5 go to space and stay there for a while then come back with rare minerals, sell them to nasa... PROFIT!
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#15 thriteenthmonke
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she just asked me, fuhhhhh

jamejame
Feign death, it's the only way.
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#16 TINYOWNSYOU
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[QUOTE="TINYOWNSYOU"]

[QUOTE="jamejame"]

she just asked me, fuhhhhh

kbpyrokb

You have three options.

1. Tell her the truth

2. Make up a lie

3. Run

number 4 run like the wind join the peace core and fight them whale killers

...I don't see how this will help. Unless she's a whale killer.

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#17 kenstar1
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If you want her go get her.

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#18 kussese
Member since 2008 • 1555 Posts

she just asked me, fuhhhhh

jamejame
Just go with her. You'll make her year. Unless you're planning on going with someone else, that is.
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#19 jamejame
Member since 2005 • 10634 Posts

If you want her go get her.

kenstar1

Thats the problem I dont.

Oh and I told her I didnt want to go back to that school and that it wasnt her. It seems to have worked. I'm sure she knows it was a lie but the conversation is over :).

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#20 deactivated-5e07bdd20ced5
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[QUOTE="jamejame"]

[QUOTE="kenstar1"]

If you want her go get her.

Thats the problem I dont.

Oh and I told her I didnt want to go back to that school and that it wasnt her. It seems to have worked. I'm sure she knows it was a lie but the conversation is over :).

i hope you can live with yourself you just broke her heart*good kyle* what the hell is the matter with you, you forgot to sleep with her before you sent her packing dammit *evil kyle*.
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#21 Fundai
Member since 2010 • 6120 Posts

Go offline then post spam on their walll...

Trust me, its the only way!!!

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#22 jamejame
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[QUOTE="jamejame"]

[QUOTE="kenstar1"]

If you want her go get her.

kbpyrokb

Thats the problem I dont.

Oh and I told her I didnt want to go back to that school and that it wasnt her. It seems to have worked. I'm sure she knows it was a lie but the conversation is over :).

i hope you can live with yourself you just broke her heart*good kyle* what the hell is the matter with you, you forgot to sleep with her before you sent her packing dammit *evil kyle*.

Don't guilt trip me! What was I supposed to do?

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#23 ZumaJones07
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she's gonna hold a grudge
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#24 DumbPanda
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[QUOTE="kenstar1"]

If you want her go get her.

jamejame

Thats the problem I dont.

Oh and I told her I didnt want to go back to that school and that it wasnt her. It seems to have worked. I'm sure she knows it was a lie but the conversation is over :).

Ouch. You could've gone as friends. You've really hurt her feelings. And now all the internet know how cruel you are.

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#25 deactivated-5e07bdd20ced5
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i bet she goes to prom and throws an tomato or something at him:P

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#26 TheNewEraIcon
Member since 2009 • 12196 Posts

Just tell her you dance like you've got 2 left feet and you have a third nipple like that bad guy in James Bond. lol I joke :P

Just tell her prom isn't your thing? and then that way she won't give you any crap 8)

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#27 colibriosis
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I don't see how you could think that she wants you to ask her to prom from that conversation.

Da_lil_PimP
Exactly, she's not really implying anything in my opinion. She's just answering to your questions really...I mean, who started the conversation and who keeps hinting he likes her? Just ask her as a friend, if not, just leave it really, things can turn quite awkward if you cross the line.
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#28 jamejame
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[QUOTE="jamejame"]

[QUOTE="kenstar1"]

If you want her go get her.

DumbPanda

Thats the problem I dont.

Oh and I told her I didnt want to go back to that school and that it wasnt her. It seems to have worked. I'm sure she knows it was a lie but the conversation is over :).

Ouch. You could've gone as friends. You've really hurt her feelings. And now all the internet know how cruel you are.

How do you know I hurt her feelings? She just likes me, its not like shes crushing I don't think.

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#29 deactivated-5e07bdd20ced5
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hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!!!! lol no but really you should be just fine just ignore her till she goes away
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#30 zip0
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just ask her out, "Would you like to go with me to prom?"

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#31 Moo-Moo-Milk
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I mean... just say nah. But if you don't feel like being straight up, just say prom aint you, ask her to do something something else instead that night BUT! you make sure you bring some other friends so she doesn't make some stuff up in her head making it out to be something its not. So... simple or... time consuming. There's options.
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#32 judog1
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When in doubt, Alt+F4 can get you out of any mess. You should have just said that you were not going to Prom in the first place.
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#33 ColonelVodka
Member since 2011 • 360 Posts

That's a dick move. You shouldn't have even brought that crap up, if you didn't want to go with her. I dissaprove.

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#34 dave123321
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Just leve the city for a few months. All will blow over.
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#35 Sunsha
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You should have tested her intelligence further and just said /conversation to see if she understood. I agree with XilePrincess though...she does sound stupid. Who wastes tons of money on a dress before they're even sure if they want to go?
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#36 Martel100
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First of all, I lol everytime someone brings their girl troubles to OT. Second and more pertinently, I suggest plastic surgery. Become a woman, then you two can become BFF's and this whole prom deal likely won't even be an issue. You two can both stay home and eat peanut butter ice cream and listen to Justin Bieber.

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#37 CammiTac
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[QUOTE="DumbPanda"]

[QUOTE="jamejame"]Thats the problem I dont.

Oh and I told her I didnt want to go back to that school and that it wasnt her. It seems to have worked. I'm sure she knows it was a lie but the conversation is over :).

jamejame

Ouch. You could've gone as friends. You've really hurt her feelings. And now all the internet know how cruel you are.

How do you know I hurt her feelings? She just likes me, its not like shes crushing I don't think.

If you liked a girl, worked your way up to asking her to prom, and she said no, would your feelings be hurt?

Not that I think you should have said yes, anyway. You don't like her. Going to the prom with her would just be leading her on. And who would want a pity date, anyway? She'll be fine. I say you did the right thing.

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#38 TehFuneral
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Are you intrested in sleeping with her?

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#39 X360PS3AMD05
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lol already bought the dress? So she wants to go, fake a hernia
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#40 chaoscougar1
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[QUOTE="DumbPanda"]

[QUOTE="jamejame"]Thats the problem I dont.

Oh and I told her I didnt want to go back to that school and that it wasnt her. It seems to have worked. I'm sure she knows it was a lie but the conversation is over :).

jamejame

Ouch. You could've gone as friends. You've really hurt her feelings. And now all the internet know how cruel you are.

How do you know I hurt her feelings? She just likes me, its not like shes crushing I don't think.

the **** is the difference?

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#41 MistressMinako
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Why did you even bring up the prom if you didn't want to go with her....? She probably thought you wanted to because you brought it up!
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#42 shinian
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[QUOTE="kenstar1"]

If you want her go get her.

jamejame

Thats the problem I dont.

Join La Légion étrangère. Girls problem solved and they'll make a man out of you. Win-win situation.

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#43 lasseeb
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Just go with her...

Ur not gonna marry her.

I wish someone ask's me :(

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#44 jamejame
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Why did you even bring up the prom if you didn't want to go with her....? She probably thought you wanted to because you brought it up!MistressMinako
That is a really good point, though honestly I was just making conversation and I thought she already had a date. I didn't realize she turned down my buddy.

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#45 no_more_fayth
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She sounds like an idiot.

You could totally sleep with her.

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#46 FortuneInLies
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"I don't want to go to the prom with you"

Casanova you ain't.

Or say yes and "wham bam thank you mam" XD

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#47 LostProphetFLCL
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Why did you even bring up the prom if you didn't want to go with her....? She probably thought you wanted to because you brought it up!MistressMinako

TC must be a woman! Only a woman could lead someone on like that!:P