Help! How do you get over a girl?

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#1 SoSadLife
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Seriously, we are not even going out. I just have this huge crush on her and I want it gone. She doesn't feel the same way. I can't avoid her as we are close friends and we see each other a lot. I just want to be myself; nice and friendly to her without having these stupid emotions coming in the way and making my life hard.

Any advice would be really appreciated!

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Get a new one from the store.
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*Waiting for someone to post that magazine cover about GS girl advice*
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lift your leg over her and mount her. done.
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#5 British_Azimio
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I'm not sure. There's this girl I met under some circumstances last May, was only around her for about 2.5 days, and to this day she's still on my mind more often than she should. This includes two suicide attempts last year either directly or partially related to her.
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#6 chrisrooR
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You stop being a little b*tch and hanging around girls who friendzone you. There are 6,000,000,000 people on the planet. I'm sure you can find a girl who's willing to touch your peter.
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#7 KHAndAnime
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You have it easy. Try getting over a 4 year relationship break-up. It's difficult, if not impossible for me. I suspect women feed on the pain.

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#8 SoSadLife
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I'm not sure. There's this girl I met under some circumstances last May, was only around her for about 2.5 days, and to this day she's still on my mind more often than she should. This includes two suicide attempts last year either directly or partially related to her.British_Azimio

omg please I don't want to end up like that!

I don't want to grow old and still think about her!

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#9 Jack-Burton
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Hang out with Wang
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#10 Blueresident87
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Maybe you can't ever fully get it over her, that happens.

Develop those feelings for a different girl, but that's tricky too because you don't want to create them just for the sake of doing so. There's no universal answer to your initial question; in order to get over a girl in that sense, you just do or you don't. Time will tell you.

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Hang out with WangJack-Burton

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#13 SoSadLife
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You stop being a little b*tch and hanging around girls who friendzone you. There are 6,000,000,000 people on the planet. I'm sure you can find a girl who's willing to touch your peter. chrisrooR

Im not even sure I can even have this girl.

She is much more cooler than I am and thats probably why I have a crush on her.

I want to be her friend, I just don't want to have feelings of intimacy towards her!

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#14 chrisrooR
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[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]You stop being a little b*tch and hanging around girls who friendzone you. There are 6,000,000,000 people on the planet. I'm sure you can find a girl who's willing to touch your peter. SoSadLife

Im not even sure I can even have this girl.

She is much more cooler than I am and thats probably why I have a crush on her.

I want to be her friend, I just don't want to have feelings of intimacy towards her!

It's not going to happen. Learn to let go of this. Take up a hobby, read a book, start working out. Stop putting this girl on a pedestal.
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#15 SoSadLife
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You have it easy. Try getting over a 4 year relationship break-up. It's difficult, if not impossible for me. I suspect women feed on the pain.

KHAndAnime

oh man this is terrible.

you're making me panic.

plz no I just want to have my life back and not think about her all the time!

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Think about her with a penis Better now?
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#17 SoSadLife
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[QUOTE="SoSadLife"]

[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]You stop being a little b*tch and hanging around girls who friendzone you. There are 6,000,000,000 people on the planet. I'm sure you can find a girl who's willing to touch your peter. chrisrooR

Im not even sure I can even have this girl.

She is much more cooler than I am and thats probably why I have a crush on her.

I want to be her friend, I just don't want to have feelings of intimacy towards her!

It's not going to happen. Learn to let go of this. Take up a hobby, read a book, start working out. Stop putting this girl on a pedestal.

Thats exactly what im trying to do! Its just not working.

I even made this a source of motivation to improve myself to match her level. Its just not happening and I stiill can't deal with these emotions of infatuation.

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#18 KnightSkull
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Build a bridge.

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#19 General_X
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[QUOTE="British_Azimio"]I'm not sure. There's this girl I met under some circumstances last May, was only around her for about 2.5 days, and to this day she's still on my mind more often than she should. This includes two suicide attempts last year either directly or partially related to her.SoSadLife

omg please I don't want to end up like that!

I don't want to grow old and still think about her!

Accept that you will always just have a friendship if you don't make your feelings for her clear.
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#20 Allicrombie
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they are doing wonders with neuro shock therapy these dsys.
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they are doing wonders with neuro shock therapy these dsys.Allicrombie

taser to the skull works well too

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#22 SoSadLife
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[QUOTE="SoSadLife"]

[QUOTE="British_Azimio"]I'm not sure. There's this girl I met under some circumstances last May, was only around her for about 2.5 days, and to this day she's still on my mind more often than she should. This includes two suicide attempts last year either directly or partially related to her.General_X

omg please I don't want to end up like that!

I don't want to grow old and still think about her!

Accept that you will always just have a friendship if you don't make your feelings for her clear.

That would ruin so many things.

Right now im one of her close friends, and we get along fine and we even work together and get shet done. If I do that ill blow everything to hell, including my grades and self esteem.

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#23 Walternatif
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No woman,no cry!!!
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#24 deactivated-5acfa3a8bc51d
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stop trying to own her and don't listen to the voices in ya head
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#25 General_X
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[QUOTE="General_X"][QUOTE="SoSadLife"]

omg please I don't want to end up like that!

I don't want to grow old and still think about her!

SoSadLife

Accept that you will always just have a friendship if you don't make your feelings for her clear.

That would ruin so many things.

Right now im one of her close friends, and we get along fine and we even work together and get shet done. If I do that ill blow everything to hell, including my grades and self esteem.

If that's the case then you HAVE to come to terms with your friendship being just that and nothing more and attempt to set your sights on someone else.
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#26 wis3boi
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No woman,no cry!!!Walternatif

wat

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#27 worlock77
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Goddamn son, grow a pair.

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#28 DirigiblePlums
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Hate to break it to you TC, but once you're caught on the pheromone fishing pole, you ain't getting off the hook so easy.

 

 

Learn a skill if you haven't already.

 

Pick up a paint brush.

 

Learn guitar or Jijutsu.

 

Anything intense that will focus 95% of your thoughts. 

 

Give it three months and you'll be a free man again. Also, it is imperative that you think about other women along the process.

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#29 Fightingfan
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Shut down all contact with her.
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#30 Boddicker
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Cut off the friendship.

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#31 Rattlesnake_8
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Find a new one.
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#32 soulless4now
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Listen to My Chemical Romance. 

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#33 DirigiblePlums
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Goddamn son, grow a pair.

worlock77
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#34 marioandlinkfan
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sleep with another girl.

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#35 Iceozo
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You have it easy. Try getting over a 4 year relationship break-up. It's difficult, if not impossible for me. I suspect women feed on the pain.

KHAndAnime



Jeez man, that's awful. Sorry to hear that. 

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Start lifting some weight, get a tan, new haircut, some nice clothes and have her chase you! :cool:

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#37 punkpunker
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happen to me all the time, just look for another girl basically.

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#39 sukraj
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No woman,no cry!!!Walternatif

me chana no cry innit boss

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#40 Angie7F
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find a new girl? 

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#41 007kt
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ok sad life how old are you?:cool:

my suggestion will be based on your age

if your 12 or 13 god may help you then no offence :P

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#42 007kt
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by the way can anybody tell me please how to add gif or photo  (attached) everytime while posting msg

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#43 Kats_RK
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Shut down all contact with her. Fightingfan

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#44 megam
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Have you told her how you feel? Have you made any sort of move? If you have and she rejected you, stop hanging out with her. It's really not worth it. She's probably just using you for all the relationship stuff (e.g. complaining, whining, shopping, hanging out, etc.) her boyfriend doesn't want to do.
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#45 zenogandia
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You're a man. Stop being a wuss. There are million of fishes on the sand, get up and go find another one.

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#46 johnd13
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"]Shut down all contact with her. Kats_RK

Yeah. Since you obviously can' t handle being around her, that' s the best you can do.

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#47 The_Lipscomb
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If you honestly want that.. Might have to drop her as a friend.

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#48 xscrapzx
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Watch porn and know that there are other women out there for you

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#49 darkmark91
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There is no other way.

insanity-wolf-she-put-you-in-the-friend-

 

Lol jk :P 

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#50 SoSadLife
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ok sad life how old are you?:cool:

my suggestion will be based on your age

if your 12 or 13 god may help you then no offence :P

007kt

I'm 19

She is also 19

We were born in the same month, more reasons for me to like her!

Oh God please let me stop thinking about her! I can't focus on anything!