Has anyone ever felt this way interacting with women?

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#1 FrenchDynasty
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It seems like I'm so much better interacting with women older than I am, rather than ones my age. Yesterday I casually struck up a conversation with this woman at the library as I noticed she was reading a book from a series I'm fond of. It was just bam, I did it with no nervousness or anything. I'm capable of talking to girls my age but I'm slightly more insecure about that. The entire time I was talking with her though it just felt like the conversation was so much more smooth than I've ever had with girs in my age group. We spent a long time talking, I learned alot about her and her about me. She even said I was really handsome at one point (Gonna make my ego big lol!) and that she had a nice time talking with me. She was nicer and more approachable than any girl my age I've ever met. She was attractive too, very pretty.

She's 31 though, and I'm 19. I'm merely a kid to her still most likely... but it just so much easier to interact with her. Have you ever felt like that OT? like you just do so much easier with people older than you

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#2 Mephers
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Youre a sophisticated mature gentlemen looking for a similarly mature female, 31 is still an acceptable breeding age.

and yes, nothing wrong with that IMHO

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#3 cybrcatter
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Was she a blonde or brunette?
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#4 Fightingfan
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I can talk to anyone regarding anything I like regardless of sex, yes it is easier to talk to women who share things in common with me.

If a girl can explain to me FADCing in Street Fighter and armor canceling I must marry her :P

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#5 silentnightmere
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Its cause you kno u have no chance with her thus your nervousness is unneeded. If u make a fool of yourself u dont care shes 31.
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#6 the_plan_man
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I can talk to both just fine, so long as they're not all stuck up. :?
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#7 BPoole96
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I am the same way, which explains why I'm 22 and my gf for over a year is 36

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#8 THE_DRUGGIE
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You know what they say: The more wrinklin' the greater the crinklin'.

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#9 daveydark
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if i were you i would go ahead and grab her chest.

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#10 dracula_16
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I understand. I also get nervous around girls that are near my age. I tend to hit it off with women who are, more often than not, old enough to be my mom. Not just on a romantic level, but on a social one. I'm not interested in things like parties, concerts, drinking alchohol, doing drugs and pre-marital sex. It's hard for me to meet a girl [around my age] who isn't into one or more of those things, so when I tell them that I'm not into it, I come across as a prude. We just talk past each other. :P

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#11 fidosim
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You know what they say: The more wrinklin' the greater the crinklin'.

THE_DRUGGIE
What the hell does that mean?
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#13 Barbariser
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There's a kid in my class who talks a lot with teachers because the girls are wary of him and his... occassional movements. I myself prefer talking to girls my age than girls who are much younger or older than me.

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#14 Oleg_Huzwog
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Older ones are more desperate, and you subconciously recognize this, which is why you are able to approach them with greater confidence.

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#15 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

You know what they say: The more wrinklin' the greater the crinklin'.

fidosim

What the hell does that mean?

It's exactly what it sounds like.

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#16 VaguelyTagged
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well considering the fact that you'd already assumed yourself out of her league, the whole smoothy conversation is justified.

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#17 TheMadGamer
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Well the girl I'm currently dating is 5 years older than me and we get along great. I've dated girls younger than me and it never worked out.

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#18 metallica_fan42
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Yeah, I get what your saying. My girlfriend and her friends are hilarious at times, talking about the dumbest ****. Of course, she says the same things about myself and my hooligan friends too.
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#19 ZumaJones07
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She knows how to talk to someone like you, she's been your age before.
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#20 channtheman1
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I think the thing about women maturing sooner than men is BS, or at least that it goes both ways. I find that most women I talk to and have actual conversations are usually 5 years older than me. I'm 20 and the 18-22 age women are just immature college party girls. The exact opposite that I would call "mature."
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#21 krazykillaz
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You don't feel like you have a chance with her so you're not trying to impress her.
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#22 Sagem28
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31 is still an acceptable breeding age.

Mephers

So Romantic.

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#23 junglist101
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She's only 31 which is still young(definitely still young enough to be hot). You talk about this like your interacting with a much older woman. She's not 50...

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#24 fastesttruck
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Its cause you kno u have no chance with her thus your nervousness is unneeded. If u make a fool of yourself u dont care shes 31. silentnightmere
I'm going with your logic.
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#25 greenskittles
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... well I'm not really attracted to most 31 year olds so I find myself less nervous generally with someone who I am attracted too (ie someone my age). Suffice to say I don't really have a problem talking to hot girls but I can get a tad more nervous.

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#26 parkurtommo
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[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

You know what they say: The more wrinklin' the greater the crinklin'.

fidosim
What the hell does that mean?

obviously something very, very awful
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#27 ehhwhatever
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Has anyone thought that talking about literature maybe relaxing to a passionate woman?
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#28 zaibutzu
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Yea, it is so much easier to talk to older woman. But maybe with the fear that you have with younger woman you will enjoy it more?