Ever had an ex contact you after a long time?

A few hours ago I had a really weird conversation with an ex. I haven't had any contact with her for 3 years and out of nowhere today she told me she had a dream about me, and she'd contacted me to say she was sorry for what had happened all those years ago.

It's just weird because of the situation her and I were in, and that there was no real reason why we should have broken up beyond her "selfish needs" (which I won't go into). At the time I didn't blame her (although I was upset) and now I still don't. I just think 3 years is a pretty long time to randomly get into contact with someone, especially over a dream, and considering there was never any real "blame". It was quite surreal and I just don't know what to make of it.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

Nah, I don't have any contacts outside of my House :)

It happened a few times, I guess I leave a lasting impression...

Ive once came back together with an ex after 4 years... it was fairly akward,and in the end it did not last long.

And a few times one of two of them decided to contact me again for conversations and things like that...

I must admit that I do not really like it, it feels odd... It is hard to know how to act when you meet someone you once had a relationship with.

Well i broke up with my ex and after a few months she contacted me and wanted us to at least stay in contact and ironically we became real good friends after a few months similar to how it sorta was before we started to date in the first place.

However, I still do have feelings for her and it gets hard at times but oh well, can't really runaway now because she pretty much said she's not letting me go.:P ... Even after having some "fun" after we got rather tipsy last summer.:P

Well i broke up with my ex and after a few months she contacted me and wanted us to at least stay in contact and ironically we became real good friends after a few months similar to how it sorta was before we started to date in the first place.

However, I still do have feelings for her and it gets hard at times but oh well, can't really runaway now because she pretty much said she's not letting me go.:P ... Even after having some "fun" after we got rather tipsy last summer.:P

sanim02

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about an hour and 10 minutes ago.

pretty awkward talking to someone who thinks they know you and they havent talked to you in 2 and a half years.

i have had this happen not just once but twice. the first one, I will never care about..the crap she pulled and then 3 years later calls to try and say sorry..Nope never worked. second one came to my door after a year of no talking..to apologize. So i been in that boat man..feels weird.

I've run into one of my ex's before. But since my last split I havent spoken to her for nearly 4 months.

my high school love contacted me after a few years of not talking to one another. it was weird, but nice at the same time. we were together for a little over 2 years, and when we split up it crushed me inside. now i'm married, and have a great life, and so does she. she asked for us (spouses included) to get together for dinner or something, but i said no. i don't have feelings for her, but i just didn't see the point in trying to re-make a friendship together. she was my first, and i was her first. well things like that would just make a friendship very awkward. i can picture my wife sitting there thinking 'so this was my husbands first love', and although my wife would not have any problem with an occasional get together ( she's far from the jealous type) i just couldn't do that to her. my ex understood, but to this day she will occasionally give me a call to see how things are going. it's kinda weird because after all this time i have never been the one to try and reconnect with her. i've moved on, and once lovers ( regardless if it's High School love or not) it would just be odd to try and have a friendship. well that's my story...

no i haven't..

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Well i broke up with my ex and after a few months she contacted me and wanted us to at least stay in contact and ironically we became real good friends after a few months similar to how it sorta was before we started to date in the first place.

However, I still do have feelings for her and it gets hard at times but oh well, can't really runaway now because she pretty much said she's not letting me go.:P ... Even after having some "fun" after we got rather tipsy last summer.:P

locopatho

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:lol:

I've had an ex contact me before, and it was pretty much the same thing as TC's story. We broke up, nothing I did, infact she didn't even tell me we broke up, she just wouldn't answer my phone calls, and then her friend told me. Few years later, she sends me an IM and we started talking, we almost got back together, then she played the "I want to wait until my grades are better to date you." game and then ended up dating someone else instead. That's when I basically said screw you (except in a different phrase) and kept away.

Interestingly enough, she has tried to contact me after that, too.

All the time. Especially relationships that ended oddly, such as both of us just stopped communicating one day. Those always come back and ask what happened about a year or two later.

But being a decent person in general, it is inevitable that after a cruddy relationship my ex's come back to someone that was actually nice. Trick is to just stay strong. What's done is done.

Yeah... he added me to Facebook a few months ago... I haven't seen him since he graduated from HS which was like 5 years ago... Told me he missed me and wanted to talk to me for so long... I told him he must haven't missed me that much, my house and cell number has been the same since then.. MistressMinako

[QUOTE="sanim02"]

Well i broke up with my ex and after a few months she contacted me and wanted us to at least stay in contact and ironically we became real good friends after a few months similar to how it sorta was before we started to date in the first place.

However, I still do have feelings for her and it gets hard at times but oh well, can't really runaway now because she pretty much said she's not letting me go.:P ... Even after having some "fun" after we got rather tipsy last summer.:P

locopatho

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Actually no, I've never meant that much to anyone before.

This just happen two days ago to be precise; It's been a few years and I wasn't expecting it but he gave me a genuine apology(something very rare from a guy to me) for playing with my emotions many years ago. That really put a smile on my face even though I still gave him a little attitude about it--i'm very proud of him for manning up and reaching out to me for that. I'm actually considering doing the same but I wouldn't even know where to begin with all the people I'd have to get in touch with and i'm a little too set in my ways at the moment.

A few years ago a girl I was very interested in once upon a time asked if I wanted to go to a movie and dinner. I told her I was flattered but that I was married now. She asked me how close I was to my wife... conversation got a little weird at that point.

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]My cell phone likes to call people randomly when it is in my pocket even when it's locked. One day, my phone decided to be funny and call an ex-girlfriend who I had been saving up an engagement ring for. The "funny" thing is, my phone decided to call about a week after her wedding day. I realized this several minutes after the call and thankfully did not have to speak with her. However, the next day she tried to call back. I did not answer. While I have nothing against her, I simply cannot emotionally handle speaking with her even though we broke up over 2 years ago.XilePrincess