Does love at first sight exist?

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#1 iSpray
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Do you believe in love at first sight or do you think that at first sight you only experience lust, infatuation, crush etc as you have not had the chance to fall in love with their characters yet? Have you ever met someone's eyes from across the room and then got together?

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#2 Scarebaby
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Nope, there's no such thing. Not in my world at least.
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#3 tobenator
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You can not fall in love with someone from seeing them. That's lust. Love is deeper than physical appearance.
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#4 SolidSnake35
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I think it's just infatuation because love would require more than just physical attraction, right?
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#5 xXBuffJeffXx
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No, just lust. I don't even believe in "true love." I think it's pretty much just finding a physically appealing partner who is acceptable enough socially to keep around for a while.
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#6 hormagaunt
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no, you can find someone extremely attractive in many different profound ways, but not full blown love
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#7 Lonelynight
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IMO

Love at first sight = Lust

Of course that does not mean you won't fall in love after you know each other well

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#8 edd678
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Hell no.
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#9 dremorius20
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In your dreams
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#10 LostProphetFLCL
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Absolutely not.

The concept of falling in love at first sight is absurd. You cannot be in love with someone just based on their looks.....

People need to stop thinking lust=love.

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#11 _Tobli_
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No, just lust. I don't even believe in "true love." I think it's pretty much just finding a physically appealing partner who is acceptable enough socially to keep around for a while.xXBuffJeffXx

I agree with this.

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#12 Dante2710
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no,love for that certain person will develop later on in the relationship....through good and bad times...and even then...love will most likely end up disappearing
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#13 Napster06
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Only lust, that's all I can say. Unless the both parties are pretty much helpless in a love life.

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#14 Oleg_Huzwog
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From the moment I first laid eyes on it, I love lamp.
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#15 kingdre
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It'd take more than one glance for love to happen.
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#16 Hinata237
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No. It's lust.
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#17 VacantPsalm
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Love? No, that needs to build over time. But knowing that they will be the one you love? Although extremely rare I think it is possible. Rather it's revealed to you by divine manners, a spiritual / mental connection with the person or just you subconscious making a large number of observations and assumptions that turned out to be right, I think it's possible.
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#18 ClassicPlayer
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Not in my eyes it doesn't. You need to get to know the person at least before you can say you "love" them.
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#19 3eyedrazorback
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Lust is all that it is at first. Love grows with the time you spend with your soul-mate. There's no such thing as just falling in love with them without knowing their secrets, or knowing their pet peeves, or anything like that. It's just not feasible.

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#20 zodiark1
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Lust at first sight
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#21 deactivated-57d773aa56272
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I actually think it does, I'm more of an impulsive person, it only takes me one look when it comes to anything.
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#22 skinnypete91
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Not really.

Love at first sight would be incredibly shallow, more like lust at first sight.

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#23 skinnypete91
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Cool... I didn't read any other posts, but most agree with "Lust at first sight".

Yay me 8)

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#24 foxhound_fox
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You cannot love someone until you are able to build relationship with them and be affectionate and caring towards them (which even then takes time). Love at first sight is simply a physical lust or desire to become physically intimate with them.
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#25 muffincakes87
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I don't belive in love at first sight. But I don't think it has to be lust at first sight either. I think its something in between.

But thats just what i think.:)

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#26 -_MURS_-
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whoever says yes is an idiot...
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#27 enjoi_your_day
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lust at first sight, but it can turn to love.
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#28 AtomicBaconBits
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No.Love is far more superior than just being attracted to one's physical looks.
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#29 AtomicBaconBits
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whoever says yes is an idiot...-_MURS_-
This
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#30 Berzz
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Probably, but just a coincidence. Say if you like someone at first sight for their physical appearance and you get to know each other and you really fall in love with them, then that could be love at first sight, but merely coincidential.
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#31 XxSTILL_BORNxX
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[QUOTE="-_MURS_-"]whoever says yes is an idiot...AtomicBaconBits
This




I Wonder who is the 27% that said yes:P