Does anyone have a relative or family member they despise?

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#1 -TheSecondSign-
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So, I've been getting more and more pleasure from the idea of beating the living **** out of my cousin. He's the same age as I am(19), and I just straight up don't like him.

First off, he inhereted a bunch of money from his grandfather, and has spent a huge amount of it to replace the new cars he constantly wrecks. He's had to replace four BRAND NEW high end cars in a little over a year, and has walked away each time without injury. I fear more for the people he's getting involved with in wrecks, and less and less about his safety, because the way I see it, he deserves to be seriously effed up in a car crash. Maybe a good missing finger or couple of toes, maybe even having one of his eyestorn outso the jackass will learn that the road isn't his plaything.

Second, he thinks he's smarter than I am, and that pisses me off. He is a teenaged, white, surburbanite who acts like he's "from the ghetto", and is kind of like that one movie with theBorat guy pretending to be a thug while living in a nice house with parents who feed his ungrateful, well off ass. He dresses like a thug, and enjoys trying to intimidate me, despite the fact that I could kick his ugly ass up and down the yard, and he's even had his 14 year old brother hand his ass to him on a silver platter(I'm serious).

He calls me "son", and acts in a very obnoxious manner. Every woman I've ever talked with has called him ugly save a few, but he loves to act like a huge player, constantly gloating and talking about women.

He dropped out of high school in his senior year, and has since tried to become a state trooper and then tried to join the Coast Guard, but they both brushed him off.

So, when the inevitable happens, and I kick my cousin's ass up and down my front yard with a bat, do you think I'll be in the right?

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Riveting tale...son.
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#3 Travo_basic
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No, that's a little harsh.
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#4 funked_up
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Just kill him.
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#5 Tyskater
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kick his ass and film it and post it on youtube...FTW!!
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#6 LJS9502_basic
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Nah....I don't waste the energy despising people. I'm more apathetic and ignore them.

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#7 duxup
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I'm a little confused why you care what he thinks of you so much.

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#8 aaronmullan
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All three of my brothers.
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#9 -TheSecondSign-
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I'm a little confused why you care what he thinks of you so much.

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Because he thinks his antics are funny, which, for some reason, whether it be the whole "carcrashes are not funny, especially when you're the repeated cause of them" or the fact that I'm related to him, fills me with uncontrollable levels of rage.

I think one good punch to the teeth would make me feel a lot better.

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#10 Statutory_AP3
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I really hate my cousin.
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#11 SeanyBoy21
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All three of my brothers. aaronmullan

How do you hate your brothers? IMO that is one of the most impprtant relationships one can have.

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#12 duxup
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[QUOTE="duxup"]

I'm a little confused why you care what he thinks of you so much.

-TheSecondSign-

Because he thinks his antics are funny, which, for some reason, whether it be the whole "carcrashes are not funny, especially when you're the repeated cause of them" or the fact that I'm related to him, fills me with uncontrollable levels of rage.

I think one good punch to the teeth would make me feel a lot better.

You're going to find people who think they're funny and they're not all thru life. This approach will make your life difficult.
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No not even strangers.
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#14 -TheSecondSign-
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[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

[QUOTE="duxup"]

I'm a little confused why you care what he thinks of you so much.

duxup

Because he thinks his antics are funny, which, for some reason, whether it be the whole "carcrashes are not funny, especially when you're the repeated cause of them" or the fact that I'm related to him, fills me with uncontrollable levels of rage.

I think one good punch to the teeth would make me feel a lot better.

You're going to find people who think they're funny and they're not all thru life. This approach will make your life difficult.

I'm usually completely apathetic to everyone, but for some reason his actions irk me in the wrong way. Like I said, one could kathwack to the jaw and maybe a few teeth for souviners and I'll be happy. So long as he shuts his big freakin' mouth whenever I'm around.

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#15 Second_Rook
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There's just those that are worth keeping in touch with and those that aren't. I don't hate any of them, we've just decided to drop the pretense of giving a damn.

Just avoid the guy.

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#16 Tauruslink
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kick his ass and film it and post it on youtube...FTW!!Tyskater
Yeah do this! :D
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#17 howlrunner13
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Can't say I do.

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#18 muller39
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its kinda funny but one side of my moms side doesnt like my dads family at all. its great because i couldnt stand them for so long but didnt say anything so i wouldnt upset my dad but now since my mom doesnt like them too it makes for some great reunions

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#19 videogamegirl05
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nope, can't say that I have that problem :?

but then again...I don't really associate with many outside of my immediate family. :P

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My whole family continues to despise my dead grandfather. He was this overbearing, obnoxious, self-opinionated turd who had a knack for being nice as pie to strangers or colleagues (as long as they weren't black or Native American), yet treated the people who were close to him like dirt, and thought nothing of venting his own personal life frustrations out on us, as if we were personally responsible for why his life wasn't quite how he always fantasized it would be...

In other words, he made a tradition of blaming his own personal inadequacies on the people that he was close to (behind closed doors).

We don't even celebrate his birthday- Instead, when someone in the family momentarily acts like a turd, we refer to them as "Bob" (his name), and then they realize how inappropriate they are behaving, and feel embarrassed.

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My whole family continues to despise my dead grandfather. He was this overbearing, obnoxious, self-opinionated turd who had a knack for being nice as pie to strangers or colleagues (as long as they weren't black or Native American), yet treated the people who were close to him like dirt, and thought nothing of venting his own personal life frustrations out on us, as if we were personally responsible for why his life wasn't quite how he always fantasized it would be...

In other words, he made a tradition of blaming his own personal inadequacies on the people that he was close to (behind closed doors).

We don't even celebrate his birthday- Instead, when someone in the family momentarily acts like a turd, we refer to them as "Bob" (his name), and then we realize how inappropriate we are behaving, and feel embarrassed.

spoofnutz

Just because someone died doesnt mean they automatically deserve respect.

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#22 Tiefster
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I often dream about slaying my older cousin Dexter style. He's a heroin and pill addict who moved into my grandparents house (I fear for their safety) because he was going to end up homeless because he somehow botched his paperwork to live in a facility paid for by the state. I would be more forgiving but he has been to rehab 7 times, he's been shot, and he's ODed. He also went AWOL his first day of basic. I feel it would save some members of my family time and grief if he disappeared.

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[QUOTE="aaronmullan"]All three of my brothers. SeanyBoy21

How do you hate your brothers? IMO that is one of the most impprtant relationships one can have.

Very long story. Involving many sub stories :P
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My Uncle and Aunty from my birthmum's side. Made no secret of hating my old man after Mum died, and quite gladly told them to stick it when I last saw them 8 years ago.
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Damn... When the Coast Guard rejects you, you truly are f******.:lol::P Any,way yes. My mother, father, sister, brother pretty much.:?

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[QUOTE="spoofnutz"]

My whole family continues to despise my dead grandfather. He was this overbearing, obnoxious, self-opinionated turd who had a knack for being nice as pie to strangers or colleagues (as long as they weren't black or Native American), yet treated the people who were close to him like dirt, and thought nothing of venting his own personal life frustrations out on us, as if we were personally responsible for why his life wasn't quite how he always fantasized it would be...

In other words, he made a tradition of blaming his own personal inadequacies on the people that he was close to (behind closed doors).

We don't even celebrate his birthday- Instead, when someone in the family momentarily acts like a turd, we refer to them as "Bob" (his name), and then we realize how inappropriate we are behaving, and feel embarrassed.

Yes what a way to commemorate your progenitor!
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[QUOTE="spoofnutz"]

My whole family continues to despise my dead grandfather. He was this overbearing, obnoxious, self-opinionated turd who had a knack for being nice as pie to strangers or colleagues (as long as they weren't black or Native American), yet treated the people who were close to him like dirt, and thought nothing of venting his own personal life frustrations out on us, as if we were personally responsible for why his life wasn't quite how he always fantasized it would be...

In other words, he made a tradition of blaming his own personal inadequacies on the people that he was close to (behind closed doors).

We don't even celebrate his birthday- Instead, when someone in the family momentarily acts like a turd, we refer to them as "Bob" (his name), and then we realize how inappropriate we are behaving, and feel embarrassed.

Second_Rook

Yes what a way to commemorate your progenitor!

Everyone has to earn respect, whether they die in the process or not. He failed on all counts. He was ridiculing and pushing my grandmother around right up to his last breath. She died two years later, but many years ago they agreed they would both be buried in DC's Arlington National Cemetary, as they were both war veterans. His last will insisted that his ashes be spread over his old fishing haunt, Lake Powell. She was buried in Arlington, and he is scattered amok in his old playground, with the fishy whores

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[QUOTE="Second_Rook"][QUOTE="spoofnutz"]

My whole family continues to despise my dead grandfather. He was this overbearing, obnoxious, self-opinionated turd who had a knack for being nice as pie to strangers or colleagues (as long as they weren't black or Native American), yet treated the people who were close to him like dirt, and thought nothing of venting his own personal life frustrations out on us, as if we were personally responsible for why his life wasn't quite how he always fantasized it would be...

In other words, he made a tradition of blaming his own personal inadequacies on the people that he was close to (behind closed doors).

We don't even celebrate his birthday- Instead, when someone in the family momentarily acts like a turd, we refer to them as "Bob" (his name), and then we realize how inappropriate we are behaving, and feel embarrassed.

spoofnutz

Yes what a way to commemorate your progenitor!

Everyone has to earn respect, whether they die in the process or not. He failed on all counts. He was ridiculing and pushing my grandmother around right up to his last breath.

Yeah, doesn't exactly seem like a man who deserves respect, dead or alive.

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Well I can't say I feel that strongly. I have had a problem with my brother on and off for months, I've just stopped talking to him period. Maybe again, maybe soon, but I don't need the drama now.
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I don't really have a family member or someone similiar, that I hate or despise of.
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My older sister. She was a meth addict (isnt atm because shes due in october...) and over the last 6 or so years, she has torn apart my family and given us endless grief, only to stop for a few months after a change in location, to go right back to her old ways after we lost our house. Shes a fool with two kids that she hardly takes care of, now shes going to have a third one. She should have gotten an abortion because my parents are the ones who take care of her kids... She only thinks of herself, and claims to be the victim. She blames all of her problems on my parents, and we are the ones with the problems. She has literaly in the past told my mom that it was my moms fault that she got pregnant... Thats how stupidly diluted she is.

Also I cant ever trust one of my cousins because hes a pedophile...
Hes not a bad guy, and ive partly forgiven him for what hes done because he has changed over the years, but he's done what he's done you know... In other words, the damage is done.

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#32 branketra
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Do you really think doing that will make things better?
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#33 smokingsbad
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I have a aunt that everyone in my family hates Lulz
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#34 stepnkev
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Your cousin annoys you and you want to beat him with a bat???:? I will have to say you would not be in the right in that situation.

I don't have that problem with anyone in my family. Everyone gets along great.

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I honestly, sincerely hate one of my sisters.

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#36 smokingsbad
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I honestly, sincerely hate one of my sisters.

Ace_WondersX
how come?
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#37 Ace_WondersX
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[QUOTE="Ace_WondersX"]

I honestly, sincerely hate one of my sisters.

smokingsbad
how come?

To put it simply she is a ***** in every way. She is younger than me by a year, has this weird superiority complex and I don't know where it comes from. She tries to treat my other little brother and sister like **** for no reason, she pretty much tries to treat everybody outside of her small group of friend and superiors like ****.
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#38 Flame_Blade88
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I don't "despise" any of my family members, but I don't really care for my father's side of the family.
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My aunts probably one of the most annoying people in this world but I don't despise her.

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#40 Bigg_Boi
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No, I like everyone in my family. I've never had problems with any of them.

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[QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

[QUOTE="duxup"][QUOTE="-TheSecondSign-"]

Because he thinks his antics are funny, which, for some reason, whether it be the whole "carcrashes are not funny, especially when you're the repeated cause of them" or the fact that I'm related to him, fills me with uncontrollable levels of rage.

I think one good punch to the teeth would make me feel a lot better.

You're going to find people who think they're funny and they're not all thru life. This approach will make your life difficult.

I'm usually completely apathetic to everyone, but for some reason his actions irk me in the wrong way. Like I said, one could kathwack to the jaw and maybe a few teeth for souviners and I'll be happy. So long as he shuts his big freakin' mouth whenever I'm around.

Yeah but hopefully he will kick the crap out of you and post it on youtube cause no harm son you sound like a douchebag
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My aunt, she is crazy and treated my uncle like crap.
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#43 Tauruslink
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Sometimes.....I really hate my brother. He constantly makes me feel like s****, always putting me down and making fun of me. I don't know, I know its sad to dislike your own brother, but the way he treats me, I can't help it sometimes. I don't feel comfortable around him. I feel like anything I say he will just use against me. Idk. Sometimes he can be nice though...
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you should kick his ass, he is obviously asking for it, but have u thought why he is annoying u, he is a dropout who left without a backup plan and im assuming u are still at school or have a job, he is probably jealous of u or despises u because u make him look stupid