Do women like nice guys?

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#1 yang_fox
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My personal thoughts: NO WAY! but the problem is, I don't like to be a jerk. :\

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#2 deepdreamer256
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Depends on the woman, obviously.
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#3 zarshack
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impossible to say because not all women are the same. but you would think most would like someone who would treat them with respect and kindness...

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#4 trooperpayne
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true true
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#5 im_mr_brown
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Depends on the woman, obviously.deepdreamer256
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#6 emmaclare
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I like guys who are, nice but exciting at the same time, so they're not like clingy and smothering and too nice. You have to keep a girl on their toes and make them chase you a wee bit. It keeps our interest, so don't be too nice, have a cheeky laugh with them.

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#7 LieutenantFeist
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No, they don't...

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#8 Solid_Tango
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You cannot be nice to a girl! If you are nice to one she will probably use you and then leave you or lose all interest in you. You gotta be a jerk with em, i know its sad but thats the way it works!
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#9 monkeyd_93
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depends on the woman, some scientists say if their father was really nice to them when they were very young, then they will typically go for nice guys, if it was the other case and their father wasn't that nice around when she young, then they may go for the jerks
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#10 Travo_basic
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Different women like different things, so yes, there are women who like nice guys.

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#11 jimmyjammer69
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Women like contradictions.
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#12 bean-with-bacon
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As a woman, I can safely say yes, I do like nice guys ;)
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#13 Birdy09
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Sigh... this is always mixed up ... the idea of a "nice guy" in a relationship is one that puts his woman on a pedestal... for the most part they dont want that, they wanted to be treated in the same way as you would any friend (only with romance aswell ofc) ... the over-bearing nice guy with no thrills is the one that finishes last... not genuine nice guys...
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#14 biggest_loser
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They like guys to be nice but that basically equate to 'you're a nice guy. have a gold sticker. no i will not date you'. I wish more girls would give us a chance to show that we can be fun and interesting.
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#15 zarshack
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As a woman, I can safely say yes, I do like nice guys ;)bean-with-bacon
your username conjures up an interesting image...

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#16 yang_fox
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As a woman, I can safely say yes, I do like nice guys ;)bean-with-bacon
My friend (girl) told me that she likes "nice guys" but last night she hooked up with a complete jerk :( (sorry my bad english)
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#17 Silla95
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Yes. At least I do. As long as they're nice, not much else matters to me.

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#18 simplexp
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I'm a jerk and women love me.

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#19 yang_fox
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They like guys to be nice but that basically equate to 'you're a nice guy. have a gold sticker. no i will not date you'. I wish more girls would give us a chance to show that we can be fun and interesting. biggest_loser
Exactly
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#20 zarshack
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[QUOTE="bean-with-bacon"]As a woman, I can safely say yes, I do like nice guys ;)yang_fox
My friend (girl) told me that she likes "nice guys" but last night she hooked up with a complete jerk :( (sorry my bad english)

Do you "like" this girl?

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#21 yang_fox
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[QUOTE="yang_fox"][QUOTE="bean-with-bacon"]As a woman, I can safely say yes, I do like nice guys ;)zarshack

My friend (girl) told me that she likes "nice guys" but last night she hooked up with a complete jerk :( (sorry my bad english)

Do you "like" this girl?

yap :(
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#22 weezyfb
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no they like hot guys.
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#24 weezyfb
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[QUOTE="yang_fox"][QUOTE="zarshack"]

My friend (girl) told me that she likes "nice guys" but last night she hooked up with a complete jerk :( (sorry my bad english)yang_fox
Do you "like" this girl?

yap :(

that "jerk" took the leap. you didnt. you can be nice and go for it as well
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#25 zarshack
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yap :(yang_fox
i figured as much :P not much you can do about these things, i know from experiance how it feels.

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#26 IndigoSunrise
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"Nice guys" are full of BS.

Women are obviousilly not all the same and some like different things but when you act like all you want to be is her friend and never make a move or show any interest and then blame her for your own problems then its your fault sorry. "Nice Guys" are a fabrication by bitter nerds to explain why they can't get a date because they were to scared to ask a woman out.

"Nice Guys" are creepy and passive aggressive with major issues regarding women IMO.

Ever see a "Nice Guy" refuse to deal with the fact a certain women isn't interested in him? He's not so nice anymore. Notice how its always "Her" fault? And how all the other guys who can get a date are all "Jerks"?

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#27 zarshack
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Nice guys are full of BS.

Women are obviousilly not all the same and some like different things but when you act like all you want to be is her friend and never make a move or show any interestand then blame her for your own problems then its your fault sorry. "Nice Guys" are a fabrication by bitter nerds to explain why they can't get a date because they were to scared to ask a woman out.

"Nice Guys" are creepy and passive aggressive IMO.

IndigoSunrise

i get told im a nice guy all the time, but i am blatantly honest almost all the time about everything including my feelings towards others.

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#28 BadBrain21
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what's the difference between being a 'nice guy'or a 'jerk' if your sole intent is to try and get into her pants? lol
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#29 yang_fox
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one night I was super-wasted, and the other day, some girls called me telling me that I'm the craziest guy on earth,and the invited me for a party. :|

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#30 biggest_loser
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what's the difference between being a 'nice guy'or a 'jerk' if your sole intent is to try and get into her pants? lolBadBrain21
Oh c'mon man lol, some of us just want to take her to see Harry Potter with us!! ;)
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#31 yang_fox
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That night I was drunk and stupid and they liked me. so I guess..................girls like jerks

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#32 zarshack
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That night I was drunk and stupid and they liked me. so I guess..................girls like jerks

yang_fox

maybe you were just more entertaining. what are you like when you are being "nice", i hope you dont mean quiet.

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#33 TecmoGirl
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"Nice guys" are full of BS.

Women are obviousilly not all the same and some like different things but when you act like all you want to be is her friend and never make a move or show any interest and then blame her for your own problems then its your fault sorry. "Nice Guys" are a fabrication by bitter nerds to explain why they can't get a date because they were to scared to ask a woman out.

"Nice Guys" are creepy and passive aggressive with major issues regarding women IMO.

Ever see a "Nice Guy" refuse to deal with the fact a certain women isn't interested in him? He's not so nice anymore. Notice how its always "Her" fault? And how all the other guys who can get a date are all "Jerks"?

IndigoSunrise

lol! There is definitely some truth there in that post.

Anyways, i'm willing to bet that most of these so called "jerks" lots of people here make references to--usually aren't jerks at all. It's deeper then most of them would like to see or believe in reality.

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#34 yang_fox
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[QUOTE="yang_fox"]

That night I was drunk and stupid and they liked me. so I guess..................girls like jerks

zarshack

maybe you were just more entertaining. what are you like when you are being "nice", i hope you dont mean quiet.

quiet? :lol:when sober, I'm crazy,but not stupid.
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#35 zarshack
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lol! There is definitely some truth there in that post.

Anyways, i'm willing to bet that most of these so called "jerks" lots of people here make references to--usually aren't jerks at all. It's deeper then most of them would like to see or believe in reality.

TecmoGirl

i get the impression they are just considered "jerks" because they get the girls instead of the "nice guys" lol.

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#36 zarshack
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quiet? :lol:when sober, I'm crazy,but not stupid. yang_fox
I am confused as to how being crazy is nice? crazy as in mentally unstable?

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#37 yang_fox
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[QUOTE="yang_fox"]quiet? :lol:when sober, I'm crazy,but not stupid. zarshack

I am confused as to how being crazy is nice? crazy as in mentally unstable?

I mean I'm not the "quiet" person. me and my friends we always do crazy stuff. But I don't talk BS all the time.
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#38 tomo90
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The decent women do. The ones you'd want to be with.

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#39 zarshack
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I mean I'm not the "quiet" person. me and my friends we always do crazy stuff. But I don't talk BS all the time.yang_fox
Do you flirt with girls at all? Because flirting goes a long way from my experiance...

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#40 yang_fox
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when I'm drunk :\

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#41 simplexp
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[QUOTE="IndigoSunrise"]

"Nice guys" are full of BS.

Women are obviousilly not all the same and some like different things but when you act like all you want to be is her friend and never make a move or show any interest and then blame her for your own problems then its your fault sorry. "Nice Guys" are a fabrication by bitter nerds to explain why they can't get a date because they were to scared to ask a woman out.

"Nice Guys" are creepy and passive aggressive with major issues regarding women IMO.

Ever see a "Nice Guy" refuse to deal with the fact a certain women isn't interested in him? He's not so nice anymore. Notice how its always "Her" fault? And how all the other guys who can get a date are all "Jerks"?

TecmoGirl

lol! There is definitely some truth there in that post.

Anyways, i'm willing to bet that most of these so called "jerks" lots of people here make references to--usually aren't jerks at all. It's deeper then most of them would like to see or believe in reality.

Yes this is it. "Nice guys" are just those type of guys who don't have enough confidence to ask a girl out, or even hold a conversation with a girl. Even if they are able to talk to girls, the give off the intention that they only want to be good friends and nothing more. Girls would find more interesting and a better guy and these are the jerks. All of you "nice guys" seriously need to get the balls to talk to girls and learn how to show them you are interested. Stop being so shy, what's the worst that can happen?

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#42 zarshack
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when I'm drunk :\

yang_fox

you only flirt when your drunk? ROFL theres your answer. Girls love attention. Its shallow but its true really.

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#43 rocketman001
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It really depends on the girl
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#44 yang_fox
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[QUOTE="yang_fox"]

when I'm drunk :\

zarshack

you only flirt when your drunk? ROFL theres your answer. Girls love attention. Its shallow but its true really.

very sad :(
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#45 wii4panta
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Women do not like oversensitive guys who can't even take a joke. It's the same with the rest of humanity,
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#46 zarshack
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very sad :(yang_fox
Flirting doesnt mean you are being a jerk, it means you are showing the girl you are interested in them.

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#47 wii4panta
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[QUOTE="yang_fox"]

when I'm drunk :\

zarshack

you only flirt when your drunk? ROFL theres your answer. Girls love attention. Its shallow but its true really.

Everyone loves attention.
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#48 Jessicasagitta
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I'm a jerk and women love me.

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Do these women stare? Point? Laugh? If so, you are terribly confused. And conceited.
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#49 RenegadePatriot
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Im a nice guy and I have had many girlfriends, I think it all depends on the woman.
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#50 X360PS3AMD05
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Typical plastic girls do like jerks, the ones with substance want a nice guy.