Unmarried but been together 7 years and have kids. Have talked about it but we both would rather just spend the money on a holiday instead of the wedding. So hopefully when the kids become old enough we will.
Unmarried. Me and my girlfriend been living together for 13 years, we have a daughter and we live as if we're marry without the title. That said, I like to keep it that way for a reason.
Me with a female is laughable I'm a ugly piece of shit I've learned to live with it though I really wish I was Asexual it would make my life alot easier.
Me with a female is laughable I'm a ugly piece of shit I've learned to live with it though I really wish I was Asexual it would make my life alot easier.
Not for a few more years. We're both in school, and we want to get our degrees before we have a kid.
Besides, I'm a barely functioning adult as it is. The thought of being responsible of a smaller version of myself one day scares the crap outta me at the moment.
Not for a few more years. We're both in school, and we want to get our degrees before we have a kid.
Besides, I'm a barely functioning adult as it is. The thought of being responsible of a smaller version of myself one day scares the crap outta me at the moment.
I said that as well when I was a student. Still got a kid when I was student and so far so good.
Not for a few more years. We're both in school, and we want to get our degrees before we have a kid.
Besides, I'm a barely functioning adult as it is. The thought of being responsible of a smaller version of myself one day scares the crap outta me at the moment.
I said that as well when I was a student. Still got a kid when I was student and so far so good.
That takes a LOT of dedication for both school and a family; I tip my hat to you.
Another reason for holding off a bit longer is because raising a family is crazy expensive. It's expensive enough living in Hawaii before having a kid.
@carljohnsoncj: Well I'm only 22 so maybe my opinion will change. :P For me, it's kind of like if the person wants it, then fair enough. But if not, I'm totally okay with that. Why? Because if I love somebody I don't need a piece of paper to prove it.
Not married. I'm not responsible enough. Single life is, I think, the most logical choice for me. People are more living single or just living together with their partner these days.
Besides, I get all the money to myself. I think that married and single life have both their upsides and downsides. Also, I don't like kids, taking care of kids is hard work. I can barely even take care of myself.
Been single since high school. For a long time I wasn't happy about it. But after joining a church in my early 20's and interacting with single and married individuals. I steadily grew to enjoy being single. I can go out on short notice without having to notify anyone. And do what I want to with my personal time. Including lots of volunteer work in fields I am passionate about. Namely youth intervention work from 3 years and up to teenagers.
Would like to be married someday. Partly so the government stops destroying my pay check because I'm single with no dependents. And have an extra source of income to help with the bills. But till then, I'll do my best to use my time to educate and seek encouragement daily.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 20 years now.
We don't plan on getting married, though same sex marriage is legal in The Netherlands since 2001. Oh and definitely no kids, hell to the no! Don't want the responsibility and this planet is ridiculously overpopulated as is.
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