Are you married or unmarried OT?

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#1 Edited by carljohnsonCJ (405 posts) -

Married.

Well?

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#2 Posted by Stranger_36 (663 posts) -

Unmarried. And I'd like to keep it that way.

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#3 Posted by SOedipus (11458 posts) -

Married

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#4 Posted by DEVILinIRON (4830 posts) -

Divorced

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#5 Posted by SUD123456 (5299 posts) -

Wife #2

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#6 Posted by br0kenrabbit (16000 posts) -

@DEVILinIRON said:

Divorced

Same. In a LTR, though. We're both happy having separate houses and being just a few minutes away from each other.

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#7 Posted by tocool340 (21365 posts) -

Unmarried. Open to the possibility but doubtful of it ever occurring...

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#8 Edited by npiet1 (2249 posts) -

Unmarried but been together 7 years and have kids. Have talked about it but we both would rather just spend the money on a holiday instead of the wedding. So hopefully when the kids become old enough we will.

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#9 Posted by thehig1 (7280 posts) -

Unmarried, soon to be married on July 28th

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#10 Posted by johnd13 (9724 posts) -

Not even remotely close to being married.

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#11 Posted by DaVillain- (36480 posts) -

Unmarried. Me and my girlfriend been living together for 13 years, we have a daughter and we live as if we're marry without the title. That said, I like to keep it that way for a reason.

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#12 Posted by Horgen (120410 posts) -

Single.

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#14 Posted by Mandzilla (4084 posts) -

Super single.

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#15 Posted by Mandzilla (4084 posts) -

@thehig1: Congrats and best of luck with the wedding btw.

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#16 Edited by warmblur (2352 posts) -

Me with a female is laughable I'm a ugly piece of shit I've learned to live with it though I really wish I was Asexual it would make my life alot easier.

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#17 Posted by Stranger_36 (663 posts) -

@warmblur said:

Me with a female is laughable I'm a ugly piece of shit I've learned to live with it though I really wish I was Asexual it would make my life alot easier.

At least there's always porn, right?

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#18 Posted by LJS9502_basic (166443 posts) -

Divorced

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#19 Posted by Heirren (834 posts) -

Ive got a stalker. Shes been at it for what may exceed the average marriage time. Does that count?

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#20 Posted by Byshop (19567 posts) -

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#21 Posted by Hallenbeck77 (15735 posts) -

Happily married for 17 years.

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#22 Edited by carljohnsonCJ (405 posts) -

@hallenbeck77: Kids?😊

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#23 Posted by Peasly (321 posts) -

Married.. In our 8th year in September this year. Been together for 24 years though.. ;)

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#24 Posted by shellcase86 (4399 posts) -

Married 10+ years.

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#25 Posted by Horgen (120410 posts) -

@Byshop said:

So you will divorce in the next 20 years and marry a younger latino chick? Noice

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#26 Posted by Speeny (1632 posts) -

Unmarried. Don't really believe in it either. I've been single for nearly 5 years.

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#27 Posted by Ezekiel43 (1477 posts) -

Single for life.

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#28 Posted by carljohnsonCJ (405 posts) -

@speeny said:

Unmarried. Don't really believe in it either.

Why? If you dont mind me asking.

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#29 Edited by Hallenbeck77 (15735 posts) -
@carljohnsoncj said:

Kids?😊

Not for a few more years. We're both in school, and we want to get our degrees before we have a kid.

Besides, I'm a barely functioning adult as it is. The thought of being responsible of a smaller version of myself one day scares the crap outta me at the moment.

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#30 Posted by Horgen (120410 posts) -

@hallenbeck77 said:
@carljohnsoncj said:

Kids?😊

Not for a few more years. We're both in school, and we want to get our degrees before we have a kid.

Besides, I'm a barely functioning adult as it is. The thought of being responsible of a smaller version of myself one day scares the crap outta me at the moment.

I said that as well when I was a student. Still got a kid when I was student and so far so good.

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#31 Posted by Hallenbeck77 (15735 posts) -
@horgen said:
@hallenbeck77 said:
@carljohnsoncj said:

Kids?😊

Not for a few more years. We're both in school, and we want to get our degrees before we have a kid.

Besides, I'm a barely functioning adult as it is. The thought of being responsible of a smaller version of myself one day scares the crap outta me at the moment.

I said that as well when I was a student. Still got a kid when I was student and so far so good.

That takes a LOT of dedication for both school and a family; I tip my hat to you.

Another reason for holding off a bit longer is because raising a family is crazy expensive. It's expensive enough living in Hawaii before having a kid.

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#32 Posted by Speeny (1632 posts) -

@carljohnsoncj: Well I'm only 22 so maybe my opinion will change. :P For me, it's kind of like if the person wants it, then fair enough. But if not, I'm totally okay with that. Why? Because if I love somebody I don't need a piece of paper to prove it.

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#33 Posted by Horgen (120410 posts) -

@hallenbeck77: I was more flexible than I would have been in a full time job. That helped tremendously.

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#34 Posted by Byshop (19567 posts) -

@horgen: I train BJJ so that's another parallel with Ed O'Neal.

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#35 Posted by watercrack445 (1549 posts) -

Not married. I'm not responsible enough. Single life is, I think, the most logical choice for me. People are more living single or just living together with their partner these days.

Besides, I get all the money to myself. I think that married and single life have both their upsides and downsides. Also, I don't like kids, taking care of kids is hard work. I can barely even take care of myself.

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#36 Posted by Fedor (4911 posts) -

Married. 1 kid, another on the way.

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#38 Posted by dracula_16 (14869 posts) -

Happily single.

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#39 Posted by Gaming-Planet (19943 posts) -

Unmarried.

I'm not boyfriend material either. Got too much on my plate to focus on.

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#40 Posted by DaVillain- (36480 posts) -

@fedor said:

Married. 1 kid, another on the way.

Congratulations!

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#41 Posted by Jak42 (1093 posts) -

Been single since high school. For a long time I wasn't happy about it. But after joining a church in my early 20's and interacting with single and married individuals. I steadily grew to enjoy being single. I can go out on short notice without having to notify anyone. And do what I want to with my personal time. Including lots of volunteer work in fields I am passionate about. Namely youth intervention work from 3 years and up to teenagers.

Would like to be married someday. Partly so the government stops destroying my pay check because I'm single with no dependents. And have an extra source of income to help with the bills. But till then, I'll do my best to use my time to educate and seek encouragement daily.

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#42 Posted by Fedor (4911 posts) -

@davillain-: Thanks, Dav!

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#43 Posted by comp_atkins (35682 posts) -
@thehig1 said:

Unmarried, soon to be married on July 28th

ooh. we'll share anniversaries.

anyway. married, 2 kids + 1 dog

living the american dream

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#44 Posted by Stranger_36 (663 posts) -

@ezekiel43 said:

Single for life.

Same.