Or do you roll over easy? Are you afraid people won't like you if you remain steadfast in your decisions, or do you just not care?
I am not closed to relaxing my stance on certain issues in extraordinary situations (e.g. I don't usually loan people money, but if someone is hard up for rent or food or something due to events outside their control I might, depends on who). Under normal circumstances, though, I'm pretty damn stubborn.
If that makes someone dislike me, then so be it. Still not my problem. But I know a few people who seem so scared that people will have a bad opinion of them that they allow themselves to be used like a tool. They may think they are just being nice and compassionate, but grow a damned backbone. Not everyone has to like you all of the time.
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