3 Years In...My GF says Im dissappointed

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#1 Disturbed123
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Quite simple, 3rd year into my relationship with my GF, and it has been going great, she also agreed she loves how our relationship has been and wouldnt change it, but 2 days ago, she hit her "period", or dare i say supercow mode. Now, heres how it goes over the last 2 days (when it started)

Day 1:

Recieve a txt from her saying "me and you need to talk, i dont think me and you are working out, do you agree?" Obviously I responded (not harshly), then she text back saying she was just kidding. I was like ok, you got me.

Day 2:

Having network issues with recieving her texts, she claims im making excuses cuz her friends were recieving her texts, I also recieved texts from friends on the same day except her. Later that day, she went on her rampage with giving me one word answers, being very moody with me, and sarcastic remarks. We then start talking on the phone to see If i can cheer her up, she asks me a question saying "what is your regret", and i told her (not about her), I asked her the same question, n she says this relationship. I was baffled, i treated this woman like gold over the 3 years, and she was very happy, so we got into a little argument, and she says she doesnt have the will power to argue so good night.

Day 3:

Wake up this morning with her texting me saying "I appologize with what i said, thats all i have got to say".

I know when she goes on her period mode but she never has been this much of a pain.

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#2 AgentFreaks
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shes probably screwing around

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#3 Agent-Zero
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She's got another man
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#4 Panzer-schreck
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I asked her ["what is your regret"], n she says this relationship

Disturbed123

She's ****ing another guy, and he's better in the sack than you.

hth

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#5 immortality20
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Expect some awkwardness for the next little while. But not much we can say without actually knowing your relationship, etc etc etc

Hope everything goes well.

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#6 Shad0ki11
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Talk to her in person. Texting can and will mask all emotion.

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#7 z4twenny
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shes probably screwing around

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it sounds like shes trying to get you to dump her....

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prepare for alot more time to post on gamespot.
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#9 kidsmelly
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Basically yeah she is cheating or thinking about cheating.

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#10 testfactor888
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I had a girl I was dating act like this with me. She was trying to get me to fight with her and get so mad that I would break up with her. She was doing this because she was cheating on me and did not want to get caught on it and feel guilty. In the long run I put up with her crap for 3 weeks until finally she admitted the truth. Unfortunately your situation sounds very similar.
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#12 Baconbits2004
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Might just be a day or two of insanity... definitely want to wait and talk to her about it before jumping to the concolusion that she's cheating on you... after three years. o.o;;
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#13 Kenny789
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Talk to her about it face to face rather than text. I'm no "master of love" but it seems many have said she could be cheating, I'd definitely try to talk to her.
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#14 airshocker
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This isn't normal. I've been through six years of periods with my wife and she's never acted that way before. The worst I ever saw her she started breaking down crying seeing some baby in the park.

I don't know what else to say, man. Be careful.

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#15 Baconbits2004
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This isn't normal. I've been through six years of periods with my wife and she's never acted that way before. The worst I ever saw her she started breaking down crying seeing some baby in the park.

I don't know what else to say, man. Be careful.

airshocker
It can affect different people differently at times... but yes, do be careful. o.o;;
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#16 Lethargika
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It sounds to me like she might be feeling a bit neglected, and is "digging" for some reassurance that you still care for her. You say you've treated her like gold. But what about lately? She could be trying to make you feel vulnerable, trying to make you feel like you are losing her, so you'll crack wide open and reel her back in. Just my 2 cents.

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#17 shani_boy101
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shes probably screwing around

AgentFreaks

ah! i see what you did there!

But seriously dude, be suspicious.

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#18 airshocker
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It can affect different people differently at times... but yes, do be careful. o.o;;Baconbits2004

Most girls I've known don't go nuts when they have their periods. Something else is up, me thinks. I would normally just blame insanity itself, but after three years you should know if she's sane or not.

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#19 Baconbits2004
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It sounds to me like she might be feeling a bit neglected, and is "digging" for some reassurance that you still care for her. You say you've treated her like gold. But what about lately? She could be trying to make you feel vulnerable, trying to make you feel like you are losing her, so you'll crack wide open and reel her back in. Just my 2 cents.

Lethargika
this is possible too. She could have even felt bad about something you don't realize (that has nothing to do with you) and just wants to feel 'wanted'. There are a whole host of reasons other than 'cheating' so try not to jump to that conclusion so quickly. :P
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[QUOTE="Baconbits2004"]It can affect different people differently at times... but yes, do be careful. o.o;;airshocker

Most girls I've known don't go nuts when they have their periods. Something else is up, me thinks. I would normally just blame insanity itself, but after three years you should know if she's sane or not.

Just the other day something similar to the TC's story happened to me. . and we weren't even dating. Just friends. She's since apologized though, and we're on good terms. o.o
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#21 airshocker
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Just the other day something similar to the TC's story happened to me. . and we weren't even dating. Just friends. She's since apologized though, and we're on good terms. o.oBaconbits2004

Stop hanging out with crazy chicks. Your life will be less stressful. :P

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#22 Baconbits2004
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Stop hanging out with crazy chicks. Your life will be less stressful. :P

airshocker

Probably would be... But she's too fun to get rid of. :P

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#23 Joshywaa
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[QUOTE="airshocker"]

Stop hanging out with crazy chicks. Your life will be less stressful. :P

Baconbits2004

Probably would be... But she's too fun to get rid of. :P

>_>,,,

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#24 Solid_Tango
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Dude... leave her alone for awhile, let her come to her senses..
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#25 Sajo7
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Before you act on the advice of complete strangers why don't you sit her down and talk until you get somewhere.
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#26 Vader993
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i don't understand women,maybe that why they hate me

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#27 BiancaDK
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Before you act on the advice of complete strangers why don't you sit her down and talk until you get somewhere. Sajo7
Ridiculous.
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#28 VaguelyTagged
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i think it's pretty safe to say you EX GF is dissapointed..

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#29 Ninja-Hippo
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I wouldn't let it bother you. I know it sounds sexist, but i have literally the exact same issue with my girlfriend around that time. It's a hormonal thing, and you have to try and be understanding about it. :)
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#30 The_Last_Ride
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Before you act on the advice of complete strangers why don't you sit her down and talk until you get somewhere. Sajo7
yeah i would go with this, don't do anything before talking it over with her
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#31 shinian
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Classical symptoms of Prehistoric Monster Syndrome. Just bear with it for two more days.

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#32 X360PS3AMD05
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Sounds terrible and bad grammar, run for it!
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Quite simple, 3rd year into my relationship with my GF, and it has been going great, she also agreed she loves how our relationship has been and wouldnt change it, but 2 days ago, she hit her "period", or dare i say supercow mode. Now, heres how it goes over the last 2 days (when it started)

Day 1:

Recieve a txt from her saying "me and you need to talk, i dont think me and you are working out, do you agree?" Obviously I responded (not harshly), then she text back saying she was just kidding. I was like ok, you got me.

Day 2:

Having network issues with recieving her texts, she claims im making excuses cuz her friends were recieving her texts, I also recieved texts from friends on the same day except her. Later that day, she went on her rampage with giving me one word answers, being very moody with me, and sarcastic remarks. We then start talking on the phone to see If i can cheer her up, she asks me a question saying "what is your regret", and i told her (not about her), I asked her the same question, n she says this relationship. I was baffled, i treated this woman like gold over the 3 years, and she was very happy, so we got into a little argument, and she says she doesnt have the will power to argue so good night.

Day 3:

Wake up this morning with her texting me saying "I appologize with what i said, thats all i have got to say".

I know when she goes on her period mode but she never has been this much of a pain.

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Disturbed123

theres your problem

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#34 ZombiefiedZomB
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She's sleeping with your bestfriend.:o
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#35 rawsavon
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This isn't normal. I've been through six years of periods with my wife and she's never acted that way before. The worst I ever saw her she started breaking down crying seeing some baby in the park.

I don't know what else to say, man. Be careful.

airshocker
+1 ...was in a decade long relationship...your chick is not acting normal. TBH, she is most likely ****ing around on you, and it is eating her up. She wants to tell you, but she can't bring herself to do it. So now she wants to make you leave to ease the guilt...it happens all the time (people are really predictable)
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#36 markop2003
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Personally i'ld ask one of her friends if they know what's going on.
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#37 xTheExploited
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If she is going off with other guys then you should go off behind her back.
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#38 SideSwipes
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Punch her in the face and tell her to cheer up.

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Maybe she wants you to pop the question to her or leave her because she doesn't like you leaving her hanging.

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#40 Thessassin
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Maybe she wants you to pop the question to her or leave her because she doesn't like you leaving her hanging.

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its only 3 years bro relax.

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#41 mikegtfc
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Sounds like she's with another man.
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#42 entropyecho
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Your girlfriend is cheating on you with me.

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#43 T_REX305
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go face to face and ask r u with another guy?

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#44 PurpleSmile
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shes kinda moody huh.. maybe shes inlove with another guy..
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#45 travisstaggs
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Maybe she just wants to take a break.

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#46 MasterBolt360
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She's screwing with you. Or someone else.

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#47 aRE-you-AFraid
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She's cheating on you.
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#48 UnknownSniper65
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I agree with the general concensus

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#49 tocklestein2005
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hmm...seems maybe she has seen "greener grass"?