15 and still don't have a girlfriend...Is that weird or wrong?

Hi...well here's my story.Im a boy and Im 15 years old and I haven't had a girlfriend once.Is it weird or wrong...? Well I started to like girls and I recently started to like them alot.I love talking to a specific one named Cindy...I like talking to her and I recently had a crush on her as well but just for a little while.I mean I NEVER had THAT urge to really have a girlfriend...I just had on and off crushes on certain ones...My crush didnt even last 2 weeks...

And I recently started romantic movies like "A Cinderella Story" and movies like that.Is that wrong or weird because none of my friends watch that tipe of movies.They re into sex and that stuff and...Well I'm not there yet...

So...please...Im really confused

you're all good. Take it easy and just enjoy it

Ever had a boyfriend?

You're only 15 amigo, just enjoy life and don't rush these things. Plenty of time for disappointing relationships when you're a bit older!

Plus A Cinderella Story is superb, so liking that's not weird.

You are totally a-okay. Just enjoy life, the rush it, you have all the time in the world for girls, just have fun.

No, If you stress yourself with " Oh I need to get a girlfriend!" then you'll be seen as desperate and/Or end up with someone you don't really want to be with.
Just take it easy and enjoy your teenage years and maybe you'll meet someone you like or some girl is going to approach you at a party or something.

It's not weird and it's not wrong.

You're all good. I was in the same boat at you're age. Now I'm married with two kids.

Not really. I didn't have a girlfriend, until I was 21 and had sex. Then I met boys and... I've lost count. I'm such a wh ore.

Nothing to worry about yo.

Crushes will come and go with interaction and mood, that feeling of connection will still be there when its needed even if it feels like it faded away because time has passed.

@ashton20161: easy to overthink it at that age... don't take relationships too seriously. you connect and you grow, then you grow apart. never ever ever place them ahead of yourself and your goals and you'll be fine. just don't lie to or mislead people in the process. don't lie to yourself either. you'll get caught up in what you're doing and forget what's important, forget perspective on what your needs and theirs are. you'll live and learn. have go find happiness in yourself.

Thanks everyone. Now I feel so much better...

I’m 25 and still no girlfriend. You’re good.

I'm almost 31 and I haven't had a girlfriend. Haven't even kissed a girl.

Don't worry. It'll surely happen in time....for you anyway.

No big deal. A romantic relationship is not all sunshine and rainbows, so enjoy being single while you still are.

I didnt have a girlfriend until I was 19, barely interacted with girls until around 18.

I'm engaged and consider myself fairly normal so dont worry, at 15 apart from fapping I never thought about girls

You are normal buddy. Everything is so sexualized in all forms of media now that I think younger people are forced into trying too hard, too early in life.

The best advice I would give is to never compensate what you like or your personality for someone you like, because you will never be happy with someone who doesn't accept you.

Also, always be kind to those you aren't even interested in. I have a few friends who didn't grow into themselves until after high school, and had a better personality and compassion because of it.

That girl that's a little heavy, or acne on her face may grow into someone beautiful, and they will remember you where one of the kind ones.

Boys don't peak 'till they're like 50.

Just relax and enjoy your youth.

And don't go all Kavanaugh on some poor young lady because you feel pressured to get laid.

Come back when you are 35 and still living in your parent's basement as a virgin and you might get some weird looks.

In this day and age, no.

Hookup culture destroyed committed relationships.

I am 28 and still no girlfriend, I do have alot of female friends however. You're in pretty good shape buddy, just take the time to get to know yourself, make a name for yourself and be successful. Eventually woman going start recognizing your greatness and want you start making moves on them.

Yes, you are weird and at 15 you should at least as a certain CNN anchor Cumeo have had over 1000 GF´s and sexual partners.

But in the real world, Nah you are normal and don´t worry you will get there when you will get there and don´t be in a rush.

This...

no girlfirend / wife living the dream man never give it up.

38 +. Got a already married g.f ( Childhood freind with a cheating husband) for a short time (1 Month) after ages. Promised me she will marry me in two years and never leave me EVER.I wanted marriage early as i really loved her and was scared waiting two years ( wanted to've my own family soon after all these years of lonliness) , she started having second thoughts about leaving her husband. Dumped me harshly and went looking for no strings attached affairs.No amount of tears , begging Helped.Still traumatised.

Life can be brutally harsh for unfortunate guys like me. Cheer up, you are 15 only and thank god you didnt end up being in my place.May you find the perfect girl and live happily ever after.

Nope, nothing weird. It's totally normal for a 15 year old. No need to rush it.

No, I'm in my late 20's and I've never had one.

@Gaming-Planet: That will end up being me, 31 and always been single, and still a virgin. I have no idea how to meet women. I have tried meeting girls online, but feel like the only girls I see are always so damn insecure about themselves, and the confident one's wouldn't want me anyway. I have given up on finding anyone, and have chosen a life of loneliness, and celebacy.

You know what they say Alex, when you stop looking it will make the chances of lightning striking that much bigger.

So don´t give up hope :)

Why worry about a girlfriend when the only truly meaningful relationship in your life will be that between you and Jesus our Lord and Savior

Try and download this app called tinder...

it's really normal, try not to think about it and u'll find a girl)

@ashton20161: There is no need to worry its completely normal. You don't need to feel pressure. There is time for everything and rushing things is never a good idea so your are doing a good job in taking your time :).

Dude you are 15 you ain't got jack to worry about. You'll find one in time. Just enjoy high school while you can because once you leave it you will find time for hobbies get cut into a lot.

I was like 22 when I had my first girlfriend. That lasted for about 6 years. I haven't managed to create another relationship that lasts past two weeks since then, and I'm 30. I really think we're in a time where it's become difficult to date women, partly because of things like #metoo and also partly because women aren't called out for their ghosting and taking advantage of men nowadays. Just keep trying to find someone who you "click" well with and who is trustworthy.

It's terrible. A few good looking guys get all the responses and the rest of the male population is ignored. To be expected when the women are flooded with messages. I think it really screws with their egos. I'm single for life. I give up. If you're a male and a recluse, you're screwed. I know I have mostly myself to blame, but going to public places by myself is no fun and a big waste of money that yields very little results.

That is a normal thing. Don't worry, you will find your girl!

People telling him not to worry, that girls will come, when there are 30+ year old people here who are still virgins... Not a lot of reassurance

But yeah you're still young so don't worry too much but I would tell you this, if by the time you're 25 you're still a virgin (probably not but if) do yourself a favor and get a prostitute. That way you kill the 100 ton gorilla resting on your back and you can move on from there. I've met several 30+ year old people who are still virgins and their life orbits so much around it, it's a waste to spend so much time suffering because of that when there are practical ways to deal with the issue. It's like having a mental condition and refusing to seek professional help, in the end the condition will take over your life. So be practical about it, not romanticism or any of that other crap.

I don't believe that it's wrong to not have a gf at 15. You're still young and you've got a whole life ahead of you. Just enjoy the single life and you will find someone eventually.

@ashton20161: There's nothing wrong at all. Take your time. Don't put added pressure on yourself you have enough as it is a a teenager i know i did at that age.. ;)

What's weird are all these new accounts poppinp up asking for advice about dating/romance on a GAMING forum.

Nope, nothing wrong with that. I waited myself, and i must advise if you do get opportunities - go for it. Your going to get plenty in the next few years of your life. Be prepared to not fall in love. Fun is what you need at your age.

Man, what’s wrong with you? I think my first serious relationship was at 11.

Get out there more and be confident.

Also, watch Full Metal Jacket, not friggin’ Cinderella.

No worry you're really young, you'll find someone

You're 15. You really don't have that much to worry about. If you want a girlfriend looks up the RSD pickup artist channels on Youtube. They have a TON of haters BUT what they teach really does work. Follow their advice and you'll get a GF