14 year old and his 28 year old babysitter, yes or no?

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#1 wiibetterthanu
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You think the 28 babysitter should go to jail for abusing a minor? I definatley say no, in fact this should happen more often. Biologically, a 14 year old male is ready to have sex with a woman. And in most of the world 14 isn't considered a minor. Lawmakers made up the word Statutory Rape, it's not really rape, they were just looking for a 3rd degree charge.
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#2 NaiveChild
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I agree, this should happen more often.

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Pics or it didn't happen.
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#4 BumFluff122
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if the babysitter was using her position to get with the boy she most certainly should be charged. However I don't think she should go to jail for it.

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#5 avatar_genius
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If his baby sitter is 16, then no.

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#6 megagene
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And what if it were the other way around? A 28 year old male having sex with a 14 year old?
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#7 Vaasman
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This is completely outside of the appropriate age equation of (a/2)+7, so yes, it's completely wrong.

On the other hand...

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#8 Akawoa
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It's gross, the 28 year old should have more class and try to date someone their age or within ten years of their age :roll:. If the fourteen year old needed it that bad he could have convinced a classmate or given Johnson Jr. a nice date with Mr. Handy

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#9 wiibetterthanu
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And what if it were the other way around? A 28 year old male having sex with a 14 year old?megagene
if the 14 year old girl wanted it, i still think noone should go to jail, but most americans would want the guy to go to jail
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#10 Dylan_11
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Double standard alert.
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I would think that the term "baby sitter" would kind of help to indicate how broken the dynamics in a situation like this would have to be,
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It's gross, the 28 year old should have more class and try to date someone their age or within ten years of their age :roll:. If the fourteen year old needed it that bad he could have convinced a classmate or given Johnson Jr. a nice date with Mr. Handy

Akawoa

Mr Handy was too busy playing video games.

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#13 WhiteSnake5000
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Hey if my babysitter was a hot 28 year old and I was 14 I'd want to do her... But seriously a 14 year old needs a babysitter?

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#14 JohnBasedow
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He shouldn't have done it but most men would at least be tempted.

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#15 Akawoa
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[QUOTE="Akawoa"]

It's gross, the 28 year old should have more class and try to date someone their age or within ten years of their age :roll:. If the fourteen year old needed it that bad he could have convinced a classmate or given Johnson Jr. a nice date with Mr. Handy

avatar_genius

Mr Handy was too busy playing video games.

Lol what about Lefty

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[QUOTE="avatar_genius"]

[QUOTE="Akawoa"]

It's gross, the 28 year old should have more class and try to date someone their age or within ten years of their age :roll:. If the fourteen year old needed it that bad he could have convinced a classmate or given Johnson Jr. a nice date with Mr. Handy

Akawoa

Mr Handy was too busy playing video games.

Lol what about Lefty

He was holding the soda.

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#17 wiibetterthanu
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He shouldn't have done it but most men would at least be tempted.

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why not, if both partners hit puberty what's the problem? i hit puberty before i was 14
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[QUOTE="JohnBasedow"]

He shouldn't have done it but most men would at least be tempted.

wiibetterthanu

why not, if both partners hit puberty what's the problem? i hit puberty before i was 14

Damn younguns hittign puberty so early these days. I had to wait until I was in my 20's.

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#19 wiibetterthanu
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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="JohnBasedow"]

He shouldn't have done it but most men would at least be tempted.

BumFluff122

why not, if both partners hit puberty what's the problem? i hit puberty before i was 14

Damn younguns hittign puberty so early these days. I had to wait until I was in my 20's.

is that even possible? are u female?
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#20 Akawoa
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[QUOTE="Akawoa"]

[QUOTE="avatar_genius"]

Mr Handy was too busy playing video games.

avatar_genius

Lol what about Lefty

He was holding the soda.

Got me there, must be a hell of a multi-tasker though. Soda, video games, and giggity all at once? :lol:

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#22 JohnBasedow
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[QUOTE="JohnBasedow"]

He shouldn't have done it but most men would at least be tempted.

wiibetterthanu

why not, if both partners hit puberty what's the problem? i hit puberty before i was 14

The grass is green before the mind.

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#23 wiibetterthanu
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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="JohnBasedow"]

He shouldn't have done it but most men would at least be tempted.

dreDREb13
why not, if both partners hit puberty what's the problem? i hit puberty before i was 14

Because there's a difference between being physically ready and emotionally ready.

I feel the same why as I did when I was 14 about sex. And I'm 21. a boy is always emotionally ready once he hits puberty, and doesn't change until his 50's
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#24 BumFluff122
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[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]

[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"] why not, if both partners hit puberty what's the problem? i hit puberty before i was 14wiibetterthanu

Damn younguns hittign puberty so early these days. I had to wait until I was in my 20's.

is that even possible? are u female?

*note: my last post was pure humour. Also it is well known that female hit puberty before males.*

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#25 wiibetterthanu
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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="BumFluff122"]Damn younguns hittign puberty so early these days. I had to wait until I was in my 20's.

BumFluff122

is that even possible? are u female?

*note: my last post was pure humour. Also it is well known that female hit puberty before males.*

yeah, but females don't hit their sexual peak until their 30's, a male hits it at 19
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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"][QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"] why not, if both partners hit puberty what's the problem? i hit puberty before i was 14

Because there's a difference between being physically ready and emotionally ready.

I feel the same why as I did when I was 14 about sex. And I'm 21. a boy is always emotionally ready once he hits puberty, and doesn't change until his 50's

No, men don't lose their libidos then either...
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#27 Dariency
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There is actually a video on this. And I'm sure if it was the other way around, the male would be put in prison for 20 years and be registered as a sex offender. Therefore, to be fair, the same should happen here.

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Ironically, as males are usually older than females in couples, society sees a male with a much older female as being "a real man" or a "true player" where as a male with a much younger female is automatically labeled a "sicko" or "molester".

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#30 wiibetterthanu
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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"]Because there's a difference between being physically ready and emotionally ready.dreDREb13
I feel the same why as I did when I was 14 about sex. And I'm 21. a boy is always emotionally ready once he hits puberty, and doesn't change until his 50's

That's an incredibly ignorant thing to say. A boy could maybe be emotionally ready for sex with a person his own age, but someone 14 years older? That's a whole different subject that could tamper with their emotions in all the wrong ways. Especially the repercussions it could have.

it's natural to want an older woman, when i was 14 I never thought, "I'm only attracted to females under 18". It's ok to explore sexuality
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Was she hot?

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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"][QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"] I feel the same why as I did when I was 14 about sex. And I'm 21. a boy is always emotionally ready once he hits puberty, and doesn't change until his 50's

That's an incredibly ignorant thing to say. A boy could maybe be emotionally ready for sex with a person his own age, but someone 14 years older? That's a whole different subject that could tamper with their emotions in all the wrong ways. Especially the repercussions it could have.

it's natural to want an older woman, when i was 14 I never thought, "I'm only attracted to females under 18". It's ok to explore sexuality

I'm almost 19 and I still prefer older women, if I could get a 28 year old... I'd feel great.
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#34 FlyingArmbar
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He was probably consenting. When I was 14, if I had a hot babysitter.. Aint nothin stopping me... That brings me to ask though, wtf does a 14 year old need a babysitter for? Still, she should be charged.

What's even more rediculous is the 17 year olds who are technically minors. Hot teacher comes along, takes 17 year old back home. Word gets out and teacher is thrown in jail for having sex with a minor. Are you kidding me.. That 17 year old wanted some booty!

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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"]That's an incredibly ignorant thing to say. A boy could maybe be emotionally ready for sex with a person his own age, but someone 14 years older? That's a whole different subject that could tamper with their emotions in all the wrong ways. Especially the repercussions it could have.dreDREb13
it's natural to want an older woman, when i was 14 I never thought, "I'm only attracted to females under 18". It's ok to explore sexuality

So the same could be applied to a female, then?

if a 14 year old girl wants to have sex with an older man, that's also natural, but american society discriminates against men and calls them child molesters, when they are clearly not. so, noone should go to jail on either occasion, but of course everyone should be careful if they don't wanna get pregnant.
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#36 JohnBasedow
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Ironically, as males are usually older than females in couples, society sees a male with a much older female as being "a real man" or a "true player" where as a male with a much younger female is automatically labeled a "sicko" or "molester".

DragonRebel0908

Honestly most older guys I see with really young girls are lowlife thugs from Chicago, where I live. I'd just assume shoot some of them but I suppose I shouldn't lump all people who date really young girls together.

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Wait are we all missing the main point here?! What is a 14 year old still doing with a babysitter?
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#39 wiibetterthanu
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[QUOTE="Dylan_11"]Wait are we all missing the main point here?! What is a 14 year old still doing with a babysitter?

that's not the question here
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Sure, let innocent kids who are just discovering sexuality with no understanding of consequences and repurcussions sleep with fully grown mature and knowledgeable adults. Yes, that should happen a lot more often. :| What if that kid got her pregnant? *shudders*
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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"]So the same could be applied to a female, then?dreDREb13
if a 14 year old girl wants to have sex with an older man, that's also natural, but american society discriminates against men and calls them child molesters, when they are clearly not. so, noone should go to jail on either occasion, but of course everyone should be careful if they don't wanna get pregnant.

The fact that a man who is over 20 would go out with a 14-year-old girl says loads about the man. They take advantage of the girl and use her for sex when she clearly is tricked into thinking he loves her. The same could easily be applied to a boy. Of course a boy is different when it comes down to it, but it still doesn't change the psychological effects that could take place.

It is possible for the guy to actually love her and not abuse her.

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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="Dylan_11"]Wait are we all missing the main point here?! What is a 14 year old still doing with a babysitter?

that's not the question here

That's a pretty important question buddy. The kid is a freshman in High School and still has a babysitter, he has to have some sort of disability or learning disorder to need a babysitter at 14. Which means the 28 year old would have taken advantage of him.
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Sure, let innocent kids who are just discovering sexuality with no understanding of consequences and repurcussions sleep with fully grown mature and knowledgeable adults. Yes, that should happen a lot more often. :| What if that kid got her pregnant? *shudders*JustPlainLucas
stop playing the pregnant card, many people over 18 have no understanding of the world either and are living off their parents still. the main answer here is, statutory rape is a bogus charge, and rape shouldn't be attached to it
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Sure, I don't care.

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[QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"]Sure, let innocent kids who are just discovering sexuality with no understanding of consequences and repurcussions sleep with fully grown mature and knowledgeable adults. Yes, that should happen a lot more often. :| What if that kid got her pregnant? *shudders*wiibetterthanu
stop playing the pregnant card, many people over 18 have no understanding of the world either and are living off their parents still. the main answer here is, statutory rape is a bogus charge, and rape shouldn't be attached to it

Minors are not adults and should not be treated as such. Suggesting otherwise is irresponsible.
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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"]Sure, let innocent kids who are just discovering sexuality with no understanding of consequences and repurcussions sleep with fully grown mature and knowledgeable adults. Yes, that should happen a lot more often. :| What if that kid got her pregnant? *shudders*xaos
stop playing the pregnant card, many people over 18 have no understanding of the world either and are living off their parents still. the main answer here is, statutory rape is a bogus charge, and rape shouldn't be attached to it

Minors are not adults and should not be treated as such. Suggesting otherwise is irresponsible.

most of the world disagrees with you. Only in America would people be outraged over this. 14 is working age for most countries
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Some 11 year olds can produce babies. So an 11 year old and a 50 year olds would be ok to you?

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[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

[QUOTE="dreDREb13"]The fact that a man who is over 20 would go out with a 14-year-old girl says loads about the man. They take advantage of the girl and use her for sex when she clearly is tricked into thinking he loves her. The same could easily be applied to a boy. Of course a boy is different when it comes down to it, but it still doesn't change the psychological effects that could take place.dreDREb13

It is possible for the guy to actually love her and not abuse her.

Possible, but not probable. And even then, people could look down on them in ways that could seriously affect her mind.

Well that would be the other people's problem.

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[QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"][QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="wiibetterthanu"] stop playing the pregnant card, many people over 18 have no understanding of the world either and are living off their parents still. the main answer here is, statutory rape is a bogus charge, and rape shouldn't be attached to it

Minors are not adults and should not be treated as such. Suggesting otherwise is irresponsible.

most of the world disagrees with you. Only in America would people be outraged over this. 14 is working age for most countries

Yeah and back in the good old days, folks could marry off their 12 year old daughters. We call this "progress." Welcome to the developed world!