Just saw this thread from a user at GAF. It's called:
"Stop asking me to show you my tits"
I've been wanting to post on this subject for some time now as it is something that directly affects someone I love.
Last night my wife was playing a multiplayer game (Blops3 zombies) by herself and had to say those exact words in the title, not just once, but multiple times until she was harassed to the point that she just turned off her PS4 in anger. I asked her why she didn't just leave? She said that she didn't think she should have to, especially when she was close to breaking her wave record in that match.
The night before we were playing the same game together and she was explaining how to get the pack a punch open when some fuckwad told her to "Shut up you stupid bitch" for no other reason than she was a girl playing a game and knew what she was talking about. If that person had been in the room with us, I would be posting this from prison.
Then there are the countless friend requests and messages that are either outright harassment or terrible attempts at pick up lines. How fucking pathetic are you tools?
She routinely gets happy messages like:
"Go back to the kitchen whore."
"I'm gonna cum in your ass."
"Friend me. Unless you are fat and ugly."
"DTF?"
and much much worse.
To all the guys out there that treat her just like you treat me. I thank you.
To the rest, well, I'm sorry my wife is good at shooters and often shows you guys up. I am proud of her for not backing down, for not changing her feminine screen name and for continuing to use voice chat even though you treat her like shit. I hope one day your balls drop and realize what a real man actually is because what you are now is sub-human gutter trash.
Why are female gamers so likely to be harassed in this medium? The beauty of escapism that gaming provides often allows too many people to berate females in the medium for no reason other than it's so easy to get away with it. It's infuriating and I fucking hate the thought of introducing my significant other to the multiplayer side of games only for her to be harassed for her gender.
Humanity sucks.
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