This one's going to be short, hopefully. But I was wondering if any of you awesome guy peoples out there could provide a bit of insight into something for me?
I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months, just kind of chilling and watching movies. Last Wednesday while we were watching a movie he put his arm around me, pulled me onto his chest, and held my hand. I figured, hey, either he's just touchy or he actually may feel more than friendship.
Last Monday I was feeling kinda gross (stupid cold) so he did the same thing, only we were in class at the time.
Then Wednesday he held my hand throughout class, and later I went to his place to make pizza and watch a movie. Same hand-holding, arm around me, me leaning on him thing as the first time, except a bit more...well.
But here's the thing - now (Friday) he's being all cold and whatnot. Like, hardly talking to me and telling me how he hates to spend too much time with one person because he starts to get annoyed with them and how he thinks he'll never get married because the prospect of spending his whole life with someone seems boring or something of the sort.
So I ask you all - what gives? How can someone go from sweet and caring and whatnot to "If I spend too much time around someone, I don't like them anymore."
I'm horribly confused about the whole thing, and, on top of this, I'm having a pretty rotten week. So much so that all I've eaten in the past two days is a piece of toast, a tiny muffin, and a 1/4 cup of mac and cheese, because I can't stomach anything else...
How are all of you doing?
(Okay, I realize this sounds extremely "high school" and I'm not proud of that. But I'm legitimately confused, to the point where I'm tempted to say "Screw it, I'm taking a break from caring.")