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Not true, at least in a public school setting. Go ahead and bash the public school system here..but everyone regardless of income is able to get somewhere. There are thousands of scholarships to apply for to help with university education. Effort WILL at some point or another equal success.
grenadexjumpr
Wrong, flat out. If you're born in a poor family, chances are, your family is uneducated. Chances are, your family is into drugs or other illegalities. You probably don't even care about school, due to a lack of support from your family. You can't afford a tutor. You can't afford university, even with the scholarships you probably wouldn't get. And you might even drop out of school to help support your family.
What about the rich man's son? If his family is rich, chances are they're educated. He'd be brought up in a environment that emphasized school, and he'd be able to afford a tutor, university, and more. And chances are, his family has connections that help him get places.
It's possible for a poor man to outperform a rich man in school, but tell me, what are the chances?
Chances and ability are 2 different things. My family were poor immigrants. I'm doing fine. My dad and mother are doing fine. They found a way to afford night school. They own a house, and 2 cars.
I live on my own, have a post secondary degree and will soon be attending a non-technical school for another post secondary degree.
I did it with effort, and pursuing every opportunity I could.
That is literally all it takes. Save the sob stories for someone who has seen friend after friend fail because of a lack of pursuing opportunities.
Most poor people don't try very hard, they don't put in the effort. And it's not because they're lazy. You can blame the parents for being poor, uneducated, abusing, and more, but this "if you try hard you will succeed" theory doesn't apply to everyone. It applied to you, so hurray, but you were raised in a way in which you cared about school, and were able to focus on it. What if you were abused as a kid, living in the slums. What if all your parents ever cared about were drugs and gangs and weapons. What if you had to work part-time to afford your parents health care checks, or to bail out your dad. If you were brought up in a environment like this, would you have succeeded? Most likely not.
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