Girlfriend for 6 months, she has a few red flags but no dealbreakers and I like her just fine for now but I’m not too attached.
We were sitting around the other day and she semi-jokingly said she wanted to look through my phone. I told her sure, I’ll unlock it and let her…. if she unlocks and allows me to look through hers. I said it’s only fair.
She got very quiet and defensive and said she was only joking and we should move on. Intuition tells me that I don’t need to see her phone to know she’s hiding something.
Friends say the lease is up and it’s time to trade her in for a new model. I told her once that if we broke up, I would have an easier time replacing her than she would replacing me. I’m a one woman at a time guy but I have options and wouldn’t have an issue exercising them.
I’m inclined to move on from her but I’m curious what the socially maladjusted gaming community thinks.
Stop worrying. Walk away. You don't need a valid reason. Just be upfront, don't make up crap on the way out, and don't let this make you petty. Looking for a reason, is a reason.
Even if you find the perfect one, and she thinks the same of you, unless you're both involved in horrific accident one of ya gets to watch the other die down the road. Wasting time worry about the perfect ending to a single chapter in your entire book is stupid lol.
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