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So when a girl brings up Valentines day to you....

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  • Level 46
    Mutoid Man
    Posts: 8155
    Feb 5, 2013 10:25 pm GMT

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

  • Level 60
    Master Chief
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    Feb 5, 2013 10:35 pm GMT

    never been in that position.

    oh and a girls thighs are NEVER too big

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    never been in that position.

    oh and a girls thighs are NEVER too big

  • Level 69
    Bad Dude
    Posts: 22756
    Feb 5, 2013 10:41 pm GMT

    gotdangit wrote:

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    *touch her thighs*

    I LOVE GTA

    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    [/QUOTE]

    *touch her thighs*

  • Level 47
    Jaquio
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    Feb 5, 2013 10:43 pm GMT
    You do nothing. It's her problem. Go buy yourself chocolate and enjoy yourself.
    You do nothing. It's her problem. Go buy yourself chocolate and enjoy yourself.
  • Level 36
    Radical Ninja
    Posts: 6445
    Feb 5, 2013 10:45 pm GMT

    gotdangit wrote:

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    1.that she just wants you to give her more attention.tell her Valentine's Day is just a day,and she's being silllyyyyy.

    2.That she's being silly? lol.oh god,its good if she has big hips

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    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    [/QUOTE]

    1.that she just wants you to give her more attention.tell her Valentine's Day is just a day,and she's being silllyyyyy.

    2.That she's being silly? lol.oh god,its good if she has big hips

  • Level 39
    Max Force
    Posts: 6321
    Feb 5, 2013 10:49 pm GMT

    If you think she likes you, then pretend not to be interested.

    Tell her you're "too cool for V-day" and need to "go to the gym, per usual." 

    Edited on Feb 5, 2013 10:49 pm GMT

    "For you a thousand times over, OT."

    If you think she likes you, then pretend not to be interested.

    Tell her you're "too cool for V-day" and need to "go to the gym, per usual." 

  • Level 39
    Max Force
    Posts: 6321
    Feb 5, 2013 10:57 pm GMT
    If she actually asks you out, then look right through her and reply
    "get in line" motioning to other nearby women.

    If she tries to kiss you, then run. Tell her you need to "go to the gym, per usual."

    "For you a thousand times over, OT."

    If she actually asks you out, then look right through her and reply "get in line" motioning to other nearby women. If she tries to kiss you, then run. Tell her you need to "go to the gym, per usual."
  • Level 26
    Cyber-Lip
    Posts: 774
    Feb 5, 2013 10:59 pm GMT

    It means that your purple-headed warrior has been given a quest. Will you accept it?

    It means that your purple-headed warrior has been given a quest. Will you accept it?

  • Level 46
    Mutoid Man
    Posts: 8155
    Feb 5, 2013 11:01 pm GMT

    turaaggeli wrote:

    It means that your purple-headed warrior has been given a quest. Will you accept it?

    Yes

    Meinhard1 wrote:
    If she actually asks you out, then look right through her and reply
    "get in line" motioning to other nearby women.

    If she tries to kiss you, then run. Tell her you need to "go to the gym, per usual."

    Got it

    [QUOTE="turaaggeli"]

    It means that your purple-headed warrior has been given a quest. Will you accept it?

    [/QUOTE]Yes

    [QUOTE="Meinhard1"]If she actually asks you out, then look right through her and reply
    "get in line" motioning to other nearby women.

    If she tries to kiss you, then run. Tell her you need to "go to the gym, per usual."[/QUOTE]Got it

  • Level 16
    Magician Lord
    Posts: 863
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    Feb 5, 2013 11:03 pm GMT
    Well then maybe we can spend it together. Oh and your thighs are just fine for me. Insta date.
    Well then maybe we can spend it together. Oh and your thighs are just fine for me. Insta date.
  • Level 20
    Metal Slime
    Posts: 4804
    Feb 5, 2013 11:26 pm GMT

    gotdangit wrote:

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    She thinks it's a dude's responsibility to ask the girl to spend V-day with a girl. She is to cool to ask you, so she wants you to ask her.

    Also, she doesn't care about her thighs being big. She just wants you to be inbetween them. Go get her tiger.

    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    [/QUOTE]She thinks it's a dude's responsibility to ask the girl to spend V-day with a girl. She is to cool to ask you, so she wants you to ask her.

    Also, she doesn't care about her thighs being big. She just wants you to be inbetween them. Go get her tiger.

  • Level 39
    Max Force
    Posts: 6321
    Feb 5, 2013 11:56 pm GMT
    ristactionjakso wrote:

    gotdangit wrote:

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    She thinks it's a dude's responsibility to ask the girl to spend V-day with a girl. She is to cool to ask you, so she wants you to ask her.

    Also, she doesn't care about her thighs being big. She just wants you to be inbetween them. Go get her tiger.


    I agree with the gist here, but I wouldn't say she's necessarily "too cool to ask."
    If she really wants to go out with you, she may persist and even ask you out but....
    ... it's a lot more attractive if you go out on a limb and ask her. It shows a backbone / self confidence. Of course, it may be a bit reckless and risky to go ahead and simply ask her out. Plan the conversation leading up to it, so you can examine signs as you go.
    e.g. Direct conversation to her Valentines day plans with her sister. (Is she listing concrete plans enthusiastically, or does she sound vague?)
    Talk about what your favorite restaurants are. If she's interested in you, you should be able to find cues in these sorts of conversations. But, again, try to be the one to ask!

    "For you a thousand times over, OT."

    [QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    Also when she asks if her thighs are too big?

    [/QUOTE]She thinks it's a dude's responsibility to ask the girl to spend V-day with a girl. She is to cool to ask you, so she wants you to ask her.

    Also, she doesn't care about her thighs being big. She just wants you to be inbetween them. Go get her tiger.

    [/QUOTE] I agree with the gist here, but I wouldn't say she's necessarily "too cool to ask." If she really wants to go out with you, she may persist and even ask you out but.... ... it's a lot more attractive if you go out on a limb and ask her. It shows a backbone / self confidence. Of course, it may be a bit reckless and risky to go ahead and simply ask her out. Plan the conversation leading up to it, so you can examine signs as you go. e.g. Direct conversation to her Valentines day plans with her sister. (Is she listing concrete plans enthusiastically, or does she sound vague?) Talk about what your favorite restaurants are. If she's interested in you, you should be able to find cues in these sorts of conversations. But, again, try to be the one to ask!
  • Level 15
    Nobunaga's Ambition
    Posts: 1332
    Feb 6, 2013 12:04 am GMT

    gotdangit wrote:

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

     

    Assuming she's your friend. You shy or something? Just throw a comment like "Well I'm also free on that day. Hey, whacha think of spending it together?". Make it sound sarcastic. Good luck.

    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    [/QUOTE]

     

    Assuming she's your friend. You shy or something? Just throw a comment like "Well I'm also free on that day. Hey, whacha think of spending it together?". Make it sound sarcastic. Good luck.

  • Level 46
    Mutoid Man
    Posts: 8155
    Feb 6, 2013 12:11 am GMT

    Aero5555 wrote:

    gotdangit wrote:

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

     

    Assuming she's your friend. You shy or something? Just throw a comment like "Well I'm also free on that day. Hey, whacha think of spending it together?". Make it sound sarcastic. Good luck.

    I'm her friend, I kind of just ignored it and processed it. Deciding whether or not to strike, and when to strike. I'll strike, just figuring out how. And when. Perhaps Thursdays, perhaps closer to V-day. I'm still trying to figure out if she likes me or not, i'm not good at picking up signs when they seem to be directed at me.

    [QUOTE="Aero5555"]

    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    [/QUOTE]

     

    Assuming she's your friend. You shy or something? Just throw a comment like "Well I'm also free on that day. Hey, whacha think of spending it together?". Make it sound sarcastic. Good luck.

    [/QUOTE]I'm her friend, I kind of just ignored it and processed it. Deciding whether or not to strike, and when to strike. I'll strike, just figuring out how. And when. Perhaps Thursdays, perhaps closer to V-day. I'm still trying to figure out if she likes me or not, i'm not good at picking up signs when they seem to be directed at me.

  • Level 15
    Nobunaga's Ambition
    Posts: 1332
    Feb 6, 2013 12:28 am GMT

    gotdangit wrote:

    I'm still trying to figure out if she likes me or not, i'm not good at picking up signs when they seem to be directed at me.

     

    Um, dude. Seriously, whether she likes you or not won't change solely on your response to her comment. She won't go from "not into you" to "totally head over heels" based on that perfect moment you decide to strike on (and if she does, I'd say stay away from those types because they're oppurtunistic).

     

    Just strike anytime. Didn't come off well? Fine, let's move on. You'll find the one sooner or later. There's more to life than that. Good luck.

    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    I'm still trying to figure out if she likes me or not, i'm not good at picking up signs when they seem to be directed at me.

    [/QUOTE]

     

    Um, dude. Seriously, whether she likes you or not won't change solely on your response to her comment. She won't go from "not into you" to "totally head over heels" based on that perfect moment you decide to strike on (and if she does, I'd say stay away from those types because they're oppurtunistic).

     

    Just strike anytime. Didn't come off well? Fine, let's move on. You'll find the one sooner or later. There's more to life than that. Good luck.

  • Level 16
    Magician Lord
    Posts: 308
    Feb 6, 2013 12:34 am GMT

    Man up, get off this forum for girl advice, and ask her out.

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    Man up, get off this forum for girl advice, and ask her out.

  • Level 46
    Mutoid Man
    Posts: 8155
    Feb 6, 2013 12:42 am GMT

    obenns wrote:

    Man up, get off this forum for girl advice, and ask her out.

    Let's be real here. It's 12 midnight. No.

    [QUOTE="obenns"]

    Man up, get off this forum for girl advice, and ask her out.

    [/QUOTE]Let's be real here. It's 12 midnight. No.

  • Level 40
    Abobo
    Posts: 5121
    Feb 6, 2013 5:30 am GMT
    gotdangit wrote:

    Aero5555 wrote:


    gotdangit wrote:


    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."


    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."


    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.



     


    Assuming she's your friend. You shy or something? Just throw a comment like "Well I'm also free on that day. Hey, whacha think of spending it together?". Make it sound sarcastic. Good luck.


    I'm her friend, I kind of just ignored it and processed it. Deciding whether or not to strike, and when to strike. I'll strike, just figuring out how. And when. Perhaps Thursdays, perhaps closer to V-day. I'm still trying to figure out if she likes me or not, i'm not good at picking up signs when they seem to be directed at me.



    She'd like you to ask her out. So do so. (I had the same problem.)

    Be casual, "you know, I was thinking we could get together on Valentine's day." And give her a card, cute but not mushy, but not stupidly funny either.

    *******

    None are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm. - Thoreau

    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    [QUOTE="Aero5555"]

    [QUOTE="gotdangit"]

    Like as in, "I don't have a valentine this year..."

    Or randomly bring up that "I'm going to just spend Valentine's day with my sister..."

    When a girl brings things like this up... What does it mean.

    [/QUOTE]

     

    Assuming she's your friend. You shy or something? Just throw a comment like "Well I'm also free on that day. Hey, whacha think of spending it together?". Make it sound sarcastic. Good luck.

    [/QUOTE]I'm her friend, I kind of just ignored it and processed it. Deciding whether or not to strike, and when to strike. I'll strike, just figuring out how. And when. Perhaps Thursdays, perhaps closer to V-day. I'm still trying to figure out if she likes me or not, i'm not good at picking up signs when they seem to be directed at me.

    [/QUOTE] She'd like you to ask her out. So do so. (I had the same problem.) Be casual, "you know, I was thinking we could get together on Valentine's day." And give her a card, cute but not mushy, but not stupidly funny either.
  • Level 37
    Heiankyo Alien
    Posts: 16906
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    Feb 6, 2013 6:24 am GMT

    konvikt_17 wrote:

    never been in that position.

    oh and a girls thighs are NEVER too big

    This

    asd

    [QUOTE="konvikt_17"]

    never been in that position.

    oh and a girls thighs are NEVER too big

    [/QUOTE]

    This

  • Level 63
    Big Smoke
    Posts: 13847
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    Feb 6, 2013 7:01 am GMT

    1. If a girl/woman ever makes reference to any part of her body, or her weight, an immediate answer should be "You look great/wonderful/beautiful".

    2. If there is more than one hint about Valentine's Day, ask her out. But be prepared to drop some cash and wait in long lines fo dinner, if you go that route. V-Day is terrible for such things.

    3. Be creative with V-Day if you can. Dinner, movie, cholcoates, all of that is old hat. A girl will like you more if you put a little effort into whatever plans you make.

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    1. If a girl/woman ever makes reference to any part of her body, or her weight, an immediate answer should be "You look great/wonderful/beautiful".

    2. If there is more than one hint about Valentine's Day, ask her out. But be prepared to drop some cash and wait in long lines fo dinner, if you go that route. V-Day is terrible for such things.

    3. Be creative with V-Day if you can. Dinner, movie, cholcoates, all of that is old hat. A girl will like you more if you put a little effort into whatever plans you make.

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