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Was I used? I think so...
- Jan 1, 2013 11:22 pm GMT
Obviously she is afraid to love again after the previous heart break. Or she is indeed manipulative. But, I would rather assume she is deeply hurt and wanting to find comfort in a new relationship. Using you? Maybe. But it doesn't change the fact that, she finds you attractive one way or another.- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
- Jan 1, 2013 11:53 pm GMTshe used you in the sense that she never had any long term plans for you you were nice and would be a shoulder for her to cry on you wouldnt push her to do anything sexual she felt safe with you and 'used' you to recover from the other guy in other words, you were a perfect rebound, and now she wants to be your friend any other answer is wrong
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- Jan 2, 2013 3:54 am GMT
[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"]Maybe she didn't use you... she was lonely and she wanted to be with someone... that really isn't "using" someone in a malicious way... we all "use" people, but grante it isn't "evil" using I see no problem. Maybe she just realized you weren't for her. Solution? BONE HER. [/QUOTE]
Well, if that was the reason, "she was lonely", she should never of talked to me because it's not fair to me. If she realized I wasn't for her, I would rather her tell me than tell me BS! She said she likes hanging of with me, and she had fun on the dates.
I think it's bull, and I'm not going to put up whit it!
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- Jan 2, 2013 4:19 am GMT
[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]she used you in the sense that she never had any long term plans for you you were nice and would be a shoulder for her to cry on you wouldnt push her to do anything sexual she felt safe with you and 'used' you to recover from the other guy in other words, you were a perfect rebound, and now she wants to be your friend any other answer is wrong[/QUOTE]
You are right about everything except I did push her alittle bit for sexual things.
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- Jan 2, 2013 4:31 am GMT
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psh who cares.Get a other girl.She's probably still have feelings for the other guy.
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- Jan 2, 2013 5:00 am GMT
I don' t think she approached you intentionally in order to feel better and then dump you. She probably wanted someone to "love" her again but then realised she can' t get in a new relationship having feelings for her ex. It does seem a little unfair towards you but she' s a person too and as all she makes such potentially wrong decisions.
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- Jan 2, 2013 5:17 am GMT
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]Are you sue you did nothing wrong? ;o[/QUOTE]
No, I don't think so.... All I can think of is I told her that I want a relationship. So that could of scared her off, but she did say she wants this to work out. Girls are just really weird!
You can't live with them and you can't live with out them!
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- Jan 2, 2013 5:20 am GMT
[QUOTE="magicalclick"]Obviously she is afraid to love again after the previous heart break. Or she is indeed manipulative. But, I would rather assume she is deeply hurt and wanting to find comfort in a new relationship. Using you? Maybe. But it doesn't change the fact that, she finds you attractive one way or another.[/QUOTE]
I hope you're right!
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- Jan 2, 2013 5:35 am GMT
Doesn't really matter if you were used or it just didn't work out. Bottom line is it's over.
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- Jan 2, 2013 5:42 am GMT
[QUOTE="CreasianDevaili"]Dating is traditionally used to get to know if you like someone or not. But a large portion, yourself included, think dating is codeword for "Wanna fuvk?". Unfortunately for you it seems you and her had definition problems. [/QUOTE]
Yeah, I think you might be right.... We both wanted different things.
I wanted sex or at least head pretty much after the third date..... She probably thought that's all I wanted, and she didn't want to get hurt again, maybe.
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- Jan 2, 2013 5:51 am GMT
Man up. She told you straight up in the beginning she still had feelings....you pursued her. She didn't feel anything extra for you. It's over. Deal. Oh...and that is NOT what being used entails.- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
- Jan 2, 2013 6:28 am GMT
[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Man up. She told you straight up in the beginning she still had feelings....you pursued her. She didn't feel anything extra for you. It's over. Deal. Oh...and that is NOT what being used entails.[/QUOTE]
Not at the begining.... it's was the forth date she said that, and I should of ended it then. I also, had a chance to ended ealier, but I didn't.... maybe I didn't end it because I'm inexperience with women, and I wanted sex.
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- Jan 2, 2013 6:29 am GMT[QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]she used you in the sense that she never had any long term plans for you you were nice and would be a shoulder for her to cry on you wouldnt push her to do anything sexual she felt safe with you and 'used' you to recover from the other guy in other words, you were a perfect rebound, and now she wants to be your friend any other answer is wrong[/QUOTE]
You are right about everything except I did push her alittle bit for sexual things.
[/QUOTE] it doesnt matter what actually happened thats what she thought of you as hell it could be why it didnt last longer- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
- Jan 2, 2013 7:27 am GMT
[QUOTE="cheese_game619"][QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]she used you in the sense that she never had any long term plans for you you were nice and would be a shoulder for her to cry on you wouldnt push her to do anything sexual she felt safe with you and 'used' you to recover from the other guy in other words, you were a perfect rebound, and now she wants to be your friend any other answer is wrong[/QUOTE]
You are right about everything except I did push her alittle bit for sexual things.
[/QUOTE] it doesnt matter what actually happened thats what she thought of you as hell it could be why it didnt last longer[/QUOTE]
yeah, you're right!
Not the treatment I deserve, but the treatment I needed to become a better man!!
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- Jan 2, 2013 1:59 pm GMT
Could of been worse but keep away from headf*cks.- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
- Jan 2, 2013 2:01 pm GMT[QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
[QUOTE="cheese_game619"][QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
You are right about everything except I did push her alittle bit for sexual things.
[/QUOTE] it doesnt matter what actually happened thats what she thought of you as hell it could be why it didnt last longer[/QUOTE]
yeah, you're right!
Not the treatment I deserve, but the treatment I needed to become a better man!!
[/QUOTE]Did you Do it? Because that makes a difference whether or not she used used you as just a friend or a lover.- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
- It happens. Some people just aren't ready for a serious relationship.
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- Jan 2, 2013 2:21 pm GMT
[QUOTE="shadowkiller11"][QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
[QUOTE="cheese_game619"] it doesnt matter what actually happened thats what she thought of you as hell it could be why it didnt last longer[/QUOTE]
yeah, you're right!
Not the treatment I deserve, but the treatment I needed to become a better man!!
[/QUOTE]Did you Do it? Because that makes a difference whether or not she used used you as just a friend or a lover. [/QUOTE]
We talked about it.... she says she always waits around 3 months before sleeping with some one.
All me did was cuddled and made out...
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- Jan 2, 2013 2:25 pm GMT
(September 7, 2012) Im calling it NOW! GS will flop 'The Last of Us'
im going through the same thing now. Except its not an ex BF, its a guy that she has been talking to thats in the Navy, but since they only seen each other once before he left for the Navy, they didnt have anything. EXCEPT that she does want a relationship with him, but obviously cant cuz he aint here. They talk on skype all the time, everyday really. I got with her, lost of "quality time" with her and then when things were getting serious, she pulls the she aint ready for a relationship, she doesnt know what she wants. Well guess what, the Navy guy came down to visit last saturday and they already went out on a date.............. She hasnt contacted me since... she used me, she did all that stuff with me cuz she couldnt get it from Navy boy at the time.- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
