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Was I used? I think so...
- Jan 1, 2013 9:16 pm GMT
I think a girl used me...
Here is the story:
I know this girl from college, but I didn't talked to her the whole semester. She made the first move via Facebook. We talked, and she said she wanted to talk to me all semester, but she didn't because she was too scared. Also, she said I was a great guy, and I was cute. We went on a few dates; it went really well.
Last week she said she wants this to work out, but then she told me when we were hanging out, "she will always have feelings for the last guy she was seeing" They were only seeing each other for two months, and the guy didn't want a relationship... I should have ended it there, but for some reason, I didn't.
She cancelled going out for lunch on her bday, but I went out with her and her friends that night. Something didn't feel right... she wasn't talking to me as much, and not really hanging out with me. But I thought she just wanted to be with her friends.
The following day, she said she's not ready for a relationship, and that she still wants to hang out with me and that she cares about me. She said this all though text. I got pissed off, and told her she used me to get over the last guy she was seeing. She said she didn't use me, and she feels really bad, but I think she is full of BS! She kept trying to make me look like the bad guy, and tried to make me feel sorry for her. But I didn't bite!
What do you guys think?
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:18 pm GMT
The stars decline to hold the line..."Being used" typically means they got something out of you, and not just your time.
Did you lose any money? The house? The car? Did she get babies from you then split and file for child support?
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:19 pm GMT[QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
I think a girl used me...
Here is the story:
I know this girl from college, but I didn't talked to her the whole semester. She made the first move via Facebook. We talked, and she said she wanted to talk to me all semester, but she didn't because she was too scared. Also, she said I was a great guy, and I was cute. We went on a few dates; it went really well.
Last week she said she wants this to work out, but then she told me when we were hanging out, "she will always have feelings for the last guy she was seeing" They were only seeing each other for two months, and the guy didn't want a relationship... I should have ended it there, but for some reason, I didn't.
She cancelled going out for lunch on her bday, but I went out with her and her friends that night. Something didn't feel right... she wasn't talking to me as much, and not really hanging out with me. But I thought she just wanted to be with her friends.
The following day, she said she's not ready for a relationship, and that she still wants to hang out with me and that she cares about me. She said this all though text. I got pissed off, and told her she used me to get over the last guy she was seeing. She said she didn't use me, and she feels really bad, but I think she is full of BS! She kept trying to make me look like the bad guy, and tried to make me feel sorry for her. But I didn't bite!
What do you guys think?
[/QUOTE] What, exactly, do you think she used you FOR? She didn't get anyhting out of it.- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
- Jan 1, 2013 9:20 pm GMTthegerg wrote:What, exactly, do you think she used you FOR? She didn't get anyhting out of it.
Why do we keep agreeing? This ain't right.
You're ugly!!
Now I feel better.
The stars decline to hold the line...[QUOTE="thegerg"]What, exactly, do you think she used you FOR? She didn't get anyhting out of it.[/QUOTE]
Why do we keep agreeing? This ain't right.
You're ugly!!
Now I feel better.:D
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:29 pm GMT
[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"]
"Being used" typically means they got something out of you, and not just your time.
Did you lose any money? The house? The car? Did she get babies from you then split and file for child support?
[/QUOTE]
I spend money for us to go to a hockey game, dinner, some drinks at the bar etc.
She vents a lot about her problems, and never really asked me about my problems.... I had to tell her
I think she used me mostly for comfort because the last guy she was seeing really hurt her when he didn't want a relationship. She told me that it hurt her.
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:32 pm GMTSenatorsFan2002 wrote:
I spend money for us to go to a hockey game, dinner, some drinks at the bar etc.
Waaah.
I lost this house to a woman:
Edited on Jan 1, 2013 9:33 pm GMT
The stars decline to hold the line...[QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
I spend money for us to go to a hockey game, dinner, some drinks at the bar etc.
[/QUOTE]
Waaah.
I lost this house to a woman:
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:32 pm GMT
Make way for the Queen of the internet!
Boxxy returns- 14/02/13
Oh man, gotta hate gals like those, i've met a few.- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
- Jan 1, 2013 9:33 pm GMTMaybe she didn't use you... she was lonely and she wanted to be with someone... that really isn't "using" someone in a malicious way... we all "use" people, but grante it isn't "evil" using I see no problem. Maybe she just realized you weren't for her. Solution? BONE HER.
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:33 pm GMTbr0kenrabbit wrote:SenatorsFan2002 wrote:
I spend money for us to go to a hockey game, dinner, some drinks at the bar etc.
Waaah.
I lost this house to a woman:
Lady liberty I pressume.
Make way for the Queen of the internet!Boxxy returns- 14/02/13
[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"]
[QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
I spend money for us to go to a hockey game, dinner, some drinks at the bar etc.
[/QUOTE]
Waaah.
I lost this house to a woman:
[/QUOTE]
Lady liberty I pressume.
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:34 pm GMTbr0kenrabbit wrote:SenatorsFan2002 wrote:
I spend money for us to go to a hockey game, dinner, some drinks at the bar etc.
Waaah.
I lost this house to a woman:
That really sucks man... sorry to hear that
[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"]
[QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
I spend money for us to go to a hockey game, dinner, some drinks at the bar etc.
[/QUOTE]
Waaah.
I lost this house to a woman:
[/QUOTE]
That really sucks man... sorry to hear that:(
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:34 pm GMT
Make way for the Queen of the internet!Boxxy returns- 14/02/13
[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"]Maybe she didn't use you... she was lonely and she wanted to be with someone... that really isn't "using" someone in a malicious way... we all "use" people, but grante it isn't "evil" using I see no problem. Maybe she just realized you weren't for her. Solution? BONE HER. [/QUOTE] Yup. I had a friend who started dating another friend because he wanted to get over his ex, it was all going well until my friend (the girl) discovered the guy's diary where he conffesed he still loved her ex and couldn't stop thinking about her. a dumb move from his part, really.- Please wait. Quick reply will be available shortly.
- Jan 1, 2013 9:35 pm GMTlightleggy wrote:
Lady liberty I pressume.
No. Far more moody than that.
The stars decline to hold the line...[QUOTE="lightleggy"]
Lady liberty I pressume.
[/QUOTE]
No. Far more moody than that.:x
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:37 pm GMT
[QUOTE="thegerg"][QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
I think a girl used me...
Here is the story:
I know this girl from college, but I didn't talked to her the whole semester. She made the first move via Facebook. We talked, and she said she wanted to talk to me all semester, but she didn't because she was too scared. Also, she said I was a great guy, and I was cute. We went on a few dates; it went really well.
Last week she said she wants this to work out, but then she told me when we were hanging out, "she will always have feelings for the last guy she was seeing" They were only seeing each other for two months, and the guy didn't want a relationship... I should have ended it there, but for some reason, I didn't.
She cancelled going out for lunch on her bday, but I went out with her and her friends that night. Something didn't feel right... she wasn't talking to me as much, and not really hanging out with me. But I thought she just wanted to be with her friends.
The following day, she said she's not ready for a relationship, and that she still wants to hang out with me and that she cares about me. She said this all though text. I got pissed off, and told her she used me to get over the last guy she was seeing. She said she didn't use me, and she feels really bad, but I think she is full of BS! She kept trying to make me look like the bad guy, and tried to make me feel sorry for her. But I didn't bite!
What do you guys think?
[/QUOTE] What, exactly, do you think she used you FOR? She didn't get anyhting out of it.[/QUOTE]
I responded to br0kenrabbit. He asked the same question.
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:39 pm GMT
Ain't no party like a Pyongyang party, 'cause a Pyongyang party is ABSOLUTELY MANDATORY
Getting used?... Not even close
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:40 pm GMTJandurin wrote:It felt generic.
did you get head at least?
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:41 pm GMTCloud_Insurance wrote:
did you get head at least?
Nope
We just cuddled and made out[QUOTE="Cloud_Insurance"]
did you get head at least?
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Nope:( We just cuddled and made out
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:43 pm GMTSenatorsFan2002 wrote:Cloud_Insurance wrote:
did you get head at least?
Nope
We just cuddled and made outBlue balls suck.
The stars decline to hold the line...[QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
[QUOTE="Cloud_Insurance"]
did you get head at least?
[/QUOTE]
Nope:( We just cuddled and made out
[/QUOTE]
Blue balls suck.:evil:
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:44 pm GMT
[QUOTE="Wolf-Man2006"]
Getting used?... Not even close
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Well, I think I was, or maybe I was overreacting.
Whatevs..
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- Jan 1, 2013 9:45 pm GMTbr0kenrabbit wrote:SenatorsFan2002 wrote:Cloud_Insurance wrote:
did you get head at least?
Nope
We just cuddled and made outBlue balls suck.
That's for damn sure! lol.
[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"]
[QUOTE="SenatorsFan2002"]
[QUOTE="Cloud_Insurance"]
did you get head at least?
[/QUOTE]
Nope:( We just cuddled and made out
[/QUOTE]
Blue balls suck.:evil:
[/QUOTE]
That's for damn sure! lol.
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- Jan 1, 2013 10:44 pm GMTDating is traditionally used to get to know if you like someone or not. But a large portion, yourself included, think dating is codeword for "Wanna fuvk?". Unfortunately for you it seems you and her had definition problems.
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