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Relationship help, I need some suggestions and good advise.

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  • Level 25
    Defias Brotherhood
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    Sep 20, 2012 5:43 pm GMT

    Hey my father has been lecturing me about my girl friend. I got into a argument with him tonight. He keeps telling me to break up with my girl friend. The main reason is because he said...when my girl friend laughs her upper gums show in her mouth, in other words she has a weird smile and a short upper lip that exposes her upper teeth and gums when she smiles. My dad also claims she's poor, short, and unattractive. He lectured me about how I can do way better than to be with her. He believes if I was to have a kid with her, the kids will be short, unattractive, and have a weird smile like her. I told my father that I like her personality, I'm happy with her, and looks aren't everything. Father got pissed and called a dating service in an attempt to hook me up with another girl. It is true she has a short upper lip and her upper gums show when she smiles. I been with her for 4 months now, I was the first guy she slept with. I'm 22 and she's 21. How should I approach this and what do you suggest I do?

    Hey my father has been lecturing me about my girl friend. I got into a argument with him tonight. He keeps telling me to break up with my girl friend. The main reason is because he said...when my girl friend laughs her upper gums show in her mouth, in other words she has a weird smile and a short upper lip that exposes her upper teeth and gums when she smiles. My dad also claims she's poor, short, and unattractive. He lectured me about how I can do way better than to be with her. He believes if I was to have a kid with her, the kids will be short, unattractive, and have a weird smile like her. I told my father that I like her personality, I'm happy with her, and looks aren't everything. Father got pissed and called a dating service in an attempt to hook me up with another girl. It is true she has a short upper lip and her upper gums show when she smiles. I been with her for 4 months now, I was the first guy she slept with. I'm 22 and she's 21. How should I approach this and what do you suggest I do?

  • Level 59
    Virtual Hustler
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    Sep 20, 2012 5:46 pm GMT

    Wat?

    Seriously?

    Tell him to shut up.

    Wat?

    Seriously?

    Tell him to shut up.

  • Level 60
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  • Level 56
    Mr. X
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    Sep 20, 2012 5:51 pm GMT
    Your dad is a judgmental douchebag. Ignore him.

    Your dad is a judgmental douchebag. Ignore him.
  • Level 63
    Big Smoke
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    Sep 20, 2012 5:52 pm GMT

    ghoklebutter wrote:
    Your dad is a judgmental douchebag. Ignore him.

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  • Level 38
    DJ Boy
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:05 pm GMT
    Just say you're only in it for the sex, that'll get you in good terms with him and you won't be bullied anymore
    Just say you're only in it for the sex, that'll get you in good terms with him and you won't be bullied anymore :P
  • Level 48
    Mr. Domino
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:11 pm GMT
    Tell him to piss off and get out of your love life.
    Tell him to piss off and get out of your love life.
  • Level 41
    Thunder Force
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:16 pm GMT
    Your dad is a dlck and probably isn't getting laid so he's trying to c*ckblock you.

    Your dad is a dlck and probably isn't getting laid so he's trying to c*ckblock you.
  • Level 36
    Radical Ninja
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:25 pm GMT
    daddy knows best
    daddy knows best
  • Level 25
    Defias Brotherhood
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:26 pm GMT

    XilePrincess wrote:
    Your dad is a dlck and probably isn't getting laid so he's trying to c*ckblock you.

    hey Xile whats up, yeah I don't know he told me he wants the best for me, I believe him. I feel he's being overbearing.

    [QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Your dad is a dlck and probably isn't getting laid so he's trying to c*ckblock you.[/QUOTE]

    hey Xile whats up, yeah I don't know he told me he wants the best for me, I believe him. I feel he's being overbearing.

  • Level 7
    Sectoid
    Posts: 507
    Sep 20, 2012 6:27 pm GMT

    Your dad is right. A woman showing her gums to anyone but her husband or father is inappropriate behavior. She is probably a slut.

    Edited on Sep 20, 2012 6:30 pm GMT Edited 2 total times.

    Your dad is right. A woman showing her gums to anyone but her husband or father is inappropriate behavior. She is probably a slut.

  • Level 64
    Easter Egg
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:29 pm GMT
    Whip them out. See which is bigger. We'll take it from there.

    Whip them out. See which is bigger. We'll take it from there.
  • Level 63
    Big Smoke
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:35 pm GMT
    You are 22. While you should certainly respect your parents, you are old enough to make your own decisions.
    You are 22. While you should certainly respect your parents, you are old enough to make your own decisions.
  • Level 71
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:38 pm GMT
    Brosephus_Rex wrote:

    Your dad is right. A woman showing her gums to anyone but her husband or father is inappropriate behavior. She is probably a slut.


    I always wondered why the local dentist's office is so much like a whorehouse...this explains a lot.

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    [QUOTE="Brosephus_Rex"]

    Your dad is right. A woman showing her gums to anyone but her husband or father is inappropriate behavior. She is probably a slut.

    [/QUOTE] I always wondered why the local dentist's office is so much like a whorehouse...this explains a lot.
  • Level 25
    Defias Brotherhood
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:39 pm GMT

    Hallenbeck77 wrote:
    Brosephus_Rex wrote:

    Your dad is right. A woman showing her gums to anyone but her husband or father is inappropriate behavior. She is probably a slut.

    I always wondered why the local dentist's office is so much like a whorehouse...this explains a lot.

    She cant help it, she was born like that

    [QUOTE="Hallenbeck77"][QUOTE="Brosephus_Rex"]

    Your dad is right. A woman showing her gums to anyone but her husband or father is inappropriate behavior. She is probably a slut.

    [/QUOTE] I always wondered why the local dentist's office is so much like a whorehouse...this explains a lot.[/QUOTE]

    She cant help it, she was born like that

  • Level 41
    Thunder Force
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:57 pm GMT
    LegitGamer3212 wrote:

    XilePrincess wrote:
    Your dad is a dlck and probably isn't getting laid so he's trying to c*ckblock you.

    hey Xile whats up, yeah I don't know he told me he wants the best for me, I believe him. I feel he's being overbearing.



    Nobody who tells you you shouldn't be with somebody because their gums stick out/they're ugly/your children with them will be ugly is looking out for your best interests. Disregard him completely, he doesn't want what's best for you, he wants what he thinks is best for you. His happiness = your happiness in his mind, and he doesn't feel you can be truly happy with an 'ugly' girl, and that's sad.

    Calling a dating service to find your adult child a new girlfriend because you think his is ugly is downright psychotic. I would take everything he says with a grain of salt and keep him at arm's length.

    [QUOTE="LegitGamer3212"]

    [QUOTE="XilePrincess"]Your dad is a dlck and probably isn't getting laid so he's trying to c*ckblock you.[/QUOTE]

    hey Xile whats up, yeah I don't know he told me he wants the best for me, I believe him. I feel he's being overbearing.

    [/QUOTE] Nobody who tells you you shouldn't be with somebody because their gums stick out/they're ugly/your children with them will be ugly is looking out for your best interests. Disregard him completely, he doesn't want what's best for you, he wants what he thinks is best for you. His happiness = your happiness in his mind, and he doesn't feel you can be truly happy with an 'ugly' girl, and that's sad. Calling a dating service to find your adult child a new girlfriend because you think his is ugly is downright psychotic. I would take everything he says with a grain of salt and keep him at arm's length.
  • Level 21
    Rescue Ranger
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    Sep 20, 2012 7:00 pm GMT
    Your dad's an ass.
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  • Level 38
    DJ Boy
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    Sep 20, 2012 7:00 pm GMT
    Just read that again, did he call an escort for you? Dude. That's awesome!
    Just read that again, did he call an escort for you? Dude. That's awesome!
  • Level 61
    Mr. Big
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    Sep 20, 2012 7:03 pm GMT
    As long as you find her attractive and like being with her then you should continue it. If she was just into you for your family's money or a stuck up princess type then maybe but from the information you've given us at least there isnt much reason to just ditch her because your dad said so.

    As long as you find her attractive and like being with her then you should continue it. If she was just into you for your family's money or a stuck up princess type then maybe but from the information you've given us at least there isnt much reason to just ditch her because your dad said so.
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