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#1 kitty  Moderator
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For the guys. When it comes to talking to a girl/s you might like?

or

For the ladies. (I'm sure there are some here =P) Are you shy when it comes to talking to a guy/s you might like?

 

I'm sure there might be people who are just shy around anyone. 

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#2 julian_jr
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To an extent, it depends on the girl as well as how well I might know her.
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#3 tmaclabi
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It depends. If I have a crush on her yeah but if it is just a simple girl nope.
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#4 lancelot200
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I wouldn't call it shy. I'm too apathetic for that.
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#5 DreadDLordD
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I suddenly become all quiet when that person I'm interested walks in. It's not really a gender specific matter but just the mere fact how feelings are initially irrational.

Best thing to do just talk to them. Don't avoid contact or think too much. Fantasing love is a dangerous shacke.

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#6 Princess-peach
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Well for me it's both and I can be shy but it's better if I know them
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#7 horgen  Moderator
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Used to be, not anymore.
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#8 jediknight52501
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i can be, depends on the situation.
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#9 julian_jr
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There's only one girl that I've been so shy I could barely even speak to. This girl though is a major exception, she was a dime! To this day she's still the most gorgeous girl I've seen in my entire college and my college usually is ranked in the top 5 each year in college babes (not joking). She lived just downstairs in my old dorm room too...
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#10 horgen  Moderator
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Well if I can mention girls that I don't know. Well I had an episode at work earlier this year or maybe autumn last year. There was something with the girl coming that made speechless.
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#11 mitu123
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That is all.

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#12 WSGRandomPerson
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Nah.
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#13 lancelot200
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I could do that with my own name.
She lived just downstairs in my old dorm room too...julian_jr
So, you saw her all the time.
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#14 mitu123
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I could do that with my own name.lancelot200
But it's true to me.
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#15 papermariofan57
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That is all.

mitu123
This seems like a tumblr post.
And yeah I think that's normal, I get shy everytime when there is a girl I like near me. I just try to avoid normal contact with her, it just depends.
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#16 lancelot200
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That's not being shy. It's not being open with strangers.
[QUOTE="lancelot200"]I could do that with my own name.mitu123
But it's true to me.

It would still be true, but not necessarily relevant to the thread.
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#17 NiKva
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I am really shy, I hardly ever talk. I tend to avoid the opposite gender as much as possible.
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#18 mitu123
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Fine, I'm half shy, half confident.>.>
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#19 JustPlainLucas
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Shyness has always been a weakness.  Every time I get up the nerve to ask someone out, they're either taken or just interested as friends.  I swear, I'm like emotionally scarred.

 

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#20 julian_jr
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I could do that with my own name.[QUOTE="julian_jr"] She lived just downstairs in my old dorm room too...lancelot200
So, you saw her all the time.

Every once in a while but not always since she usually was out. She was one of the sorority girls and in that college acb her name would appear often on the hottest freshman girls for my college lol.
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#21 julian_jr
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Fine, I'm half shy, half confident.>.>mitu123
I have a bit of a hard time seeing you shy mitu. You always appear confident on this site.
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#22 tmaclabi
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Never thought mitu is a shy person :o
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#23 PolskaKing
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Yeah, I'm a little shy.
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#24 lancelot200
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Every once in a while but not always since she usually was out. She was one of the sorority girls and in that college acb her name would appear often on the hottest freshman girls for my college lol. julian_jr
You should have shoot for her friends. :P Make her jealous
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I got the courage to buy a girl flowers once. Turns out she has a boyfriend... she's engaged to this guy now. :|

I asked another girl if we could hang out, she said she'd like to but she's busy lately and has problems to sort out.

I swear, I have terrible luck with women.

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#26 PolskaKing
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I swear, I have terrible luck with women.

Cloud_765

It's okay man. I do too. 

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#27 Sandulf29
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I am bit of both :P

I can talk normally with almost all girls. But there is this one chick in my college, she is really the hottest girl I have ever seen. Whenever she is around my mouth gets shut :x 

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#28 lancelot200
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I got the courage to buy a girl flowers once. Turns out she has a boyfriend... she's engaged to this guy now. :| Cloud_765
You didn't have her on facebook, did you.
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#29 mitu123
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To above responses about me: Sometimes I have a hard time believing what I say.
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#30 horgen  Moderator
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[QUOTE="Cloud_765"]I got the courage to buy a girl flowers once. Turns out she has a boyfriend... she's engaged to this guy now. :| lancelot200
You didn't have her on facebook, did you.

A relationship isn't official before it is made so on Facebook.
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#31 julian_jr
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[QUOTE="julian_jr"]Every once in a while but not always since she usually was out. She was one of the sorority girls and in that college acb her name would appear often on the hottest freshman girls for my college lol. lancelot200
You should have shoot for her friends. :P Make her jealous

Her friends were just as hot... I actually partied with her best friend lol and she's also a dime, but still.:P
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#32 horgen  Moderator
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[QUOTE="lancelot200"][QUOTE="julian_jr"]Every once in a while but not always since she usually was out. She was one of the sorority girls and in that college acb her name would appear often on the hottest freshman girls for my college lol. julian_jr
You should have shoot for her friends. :P Make her jealous

Her friends were just as hot... I actually partied with her best friend lol and she's also a dime, but still.:P

Should have gone for it, unless she was completely annoying or something
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#33 julian_jr
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She had a boyfriend. It was funny that I went partying with her several times lol
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#34 horgen  Moderator
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Those come in the way to often :x
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#35 julian_jr
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I wasn't that interested in her though. :P
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#36 horgen  Moderator
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I wasn't that interested in her though. :P julian_jr
Only her friend? :P You should post pics btw :P
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#37 julian_jr
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I don't think they would like having pics of them posted here without their permission lol. Just imagine a short blonde with a really nice body and that's the friend. The girl I thought was hot was a brunette.
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#38 horgen  Moderator
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I don't think they would like having pics of them posted here without their permission lol. Just imagine a short blonde with a really nice body and that's the friend. The girl I thought was hot was a brunette. julian_jr
Both sounds like girls from my previous classes. >_>
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#39 julian_jr
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If you saw a pic of the one I thought was hot you would go crazy lol. Is that a bad thing?
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#40 horgen  Moderator
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If you saw a pic of the one I thought was hot you would go crazy lol. Is that a bad thing?julian_jr
Nah it isn't. Except their personality was annoying.
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#41 julian_jr
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Personality of the one I partied with was great! I don't know much about the other since I barely ever talked.
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#42 horgen  Moderator
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Well that's a rare one.
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#43 tmaclabi
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I got the courage to buy a girl flowers once. Turns out she has a boyfriend... she's engaged to this guy now. :|

I asked another girl if we could hang out, she said she'd like to but she's busy lately and has problems to sort out.

I swear, I have terrible luck with women.

Cloud_765

WE have the same fate in your first sentence, don't worry, that doesn't mean we don't have any luck for girls, it only means it isn't our time yet to have a relationship with someone ;)

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#44 lancelot200
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Personality of the one I partied with was great! I don't know much about the other since I barely ever talked.julian_jr
and you're still not interested. What kind of man are you.
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#45 mitu123
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Guys shouldn't be afraid to talk to girls as well.:P

Had some great experiences with them too.:D

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#46 Cloud_765
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[QUOTE="Cloud_765"]I got the courage to buy a girl flowers once. Turns out she has a boyfriend... she's engaged to this guy now. :| lancelot200
You didn't have her on facebook, did you.

I don't think she has one. The other girl I added her, but the first girl I think is too busy to have a Facebook.

Oh and for the record, the first girl is 27. The second one is 21.  

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#47 julian_jr
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[QUOTE="julian_jr"]Personality of the one I partied with was great! I don't know much about the other since I barely ever talked.lancelot200
and you're still not interested. What kind of man are you.

Just was never that interested. I saw her more as a friend. Besides the other girl was just :oops:
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#48 lancelot200
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Oh and for the record, the first girl is 27. The second one is 21. Cloud_765
You like'em older than you don't you.
I saw her more as a friend.julian_jr
That's fine, then. There is no finer wingman then a wingwoman.
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#49 horgen  Moderator
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[QUOTE="Cloud_765"]Oh and for the record, the first girl is 27. The second one is 21. lancelot200
You like'em older than you don't you.
I saw her more as a friend.julian_jr
That's fine, then. There is no finer wingman then a wingwoman.

If she thinks you are good material for her friend...
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#50 Lotus-Edge
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Never.

When in doubt, go bold.