@DarkLink77 said:
@millerlight89 said:
@tonitorsi said:
@Bigboi500 said:
I will say this with all sincerity: One doesn't need approval of places like the lounge, or city council or anywhere else to be part of the community. Just posting here, whether it be all day, erry day, or once in a blue moon is valid enough.
Oh, and I just want to majestically agree with this sentiment too.
It's a nice sentiment, I wish that was how it worked. Sadly, to most here it doesn't. I do agree with it though.
I think people misunderstood what I meant.
On topic, I agree. Anyone who posts here is a member of the community, and no one needs anyone else's approval. Which is part of what makes this place great.
I wouldn't call this place great, at all. It use to be a really nice place to come and post and get the latest gaming news for me. I use to look forward to coming here. You may ask, "then why are you still here?" To that, I say I have no clue. I just can't let it go. I'm so used to coming here and posting. People want to blame the site redesign as the reason behind this place's fall, which i do not think it was. I agree it may have been a big reason, but I think that maybe it was the last straw for many.
So much is wrong. Most new accounts are nothing but the same few people making fakeboy accounts, and there isn't enough new people to get to know. I don't have that opportunity to create relationships here, because there aren't any new people coming in.
I've seen a lot of double standards here. Say we have 2 users. User A and User B. User A is the more respected and well know user that has been in that "clique." User B is known, but not really that well respected and not in that "clique." User B makes a thread baiting people and trolling for personal laughs. People jump on him and call him out for it. User A turns around and makes his own bait thread. People laugh and think it's awesome that he is trolling people. It happens far too often.
I know some of you do not want to agree this place has one main clique. I have to disagree. I was in one in my HS and college years, I know what they look like. A couple have said, "you can't be apart of the community if you don't interact with it." That right there sends out a message that is stating that posting here isn't good enough, but you have to interact with a certain group of people. At least that is what it seems to me. Before I put on the whole persona I do now, I use to try to be apart of this so called "community." A year or so ago I would post in the lounge and my post would go unnoticed. I would post later and the same thing would happen again. So, I just gave up.
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