So when testing out the marriage system I kinda accidently proposed to someone but I don't want to marry them. I had the marriage ceremony arranged and then just said 'no thanks' which got everyone understandably upset at me. But now I'm wondering if I can marry anyone else, because I tried marrying Lydia, but even when I have the Amulet of Mara on there doesn't seem to be any dialogue options for marrying her. Am I missing something or did I mess something up or do I need to do something before I can marry her? She's also my follower atm, I'm not sure if that has any bearing on the matter. In any case, any help would be greatly appreciated.