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#1 TheChosenTurkey
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Pretty much the Topic.

I saw one of those sponser a child ads on TV and it astounded me that people obviously living in poverty would have children and then beg people to help support them. One even had a family of 6 children. WTF? Why would you do that? If you're so poor that you can barely provide shelter, food and water for yourself, why add voluntarily involve more people in your struggle.

Honestly, I think this is why extreme poverty exists. Because people living in places that obviously can't support them populate it with more people. Stupid.

You want to get rid of poverty in third world countries? Regulate who can have children, or at the very least, provide them with free condoms and mass campaign safe sex.

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#2 junglist101
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I have often though the same thing. Even in modern countries people have children when they can't afford them or properly provide for them and then the talk about their struggles as a parent and people are supposed to feel sorry for them. Pretty much they are epitomy of selfishness.

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#3 xdude85
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Well when a couple is poor, and they have nothing but each other, it makes sense that they're just going to have sex all the time because that's all they can do.
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#4 Darkman2007
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well tbh Id rather people didn't have more than 2 children , wheter they were rich or poor, just to prevent overpopulation , and the fact that there aren't enough natural resources to support everyone on the planet.

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#5 MrGeezer
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For starters, poverty stricken people often have shortened lifespans and not much money. So when they need help around the farm/house, are they going to be able to afford to pay someone to do that kind of ****? No. They rely on the kids. When you're old and dying and need constant care, can you afford to get that care from a stranger? No. That's your kids' job: to feed you and clean you while you're dying in poverty. If you can't afford to hire people to do the work, then you have kids and make them work for you.

Two: I already mentioned that poor people generally can't afford the best health care. They also often live in generally crappy areas that have a higher chance of their kids dying. And if it's expected that some of your kids will die or end up in prison, then you have more kids. Why do you think that fish lay like, hundreds of eggs? Obviously it's because most of the babies are gonna end up dead. Higher poverty correlates to higher child mortality. So poor people have more kids.

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#6 tenaka2
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Pretty much the Topic.

I saw one of those sponser a child ads on TV and it astounded me that people obviously living in poverty would have children and then beg people to help support them. One even had a family of 6 children. WTF? Why would you do that? If you're so poor that you can barely provide shelter, food and water for yourself, why add voluntarily involve more people in your struggle.

Honestly, I think this is why extreme poverty exists. Because people living in places that obviously can't support them populate it with more people. Stupid.

You want to get rid of poverty in third world countries? Regulate who can have children, or at the very least, provide them with free condoms and mass campaign safe sex.

TheChosenTurkey

A number of 3rd world countries are catholic, the use of condoms is forbidden.

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#7 PerfectCode
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The reason varies by location and living conditions. But, typically poor people have children because they are simply uneducated. Either education is not at all affordable and readily available for them, or there is nobody in their life to convince them the importance of education. A common reason is that having sex is easy/cheap, and you know, naturally feels good. It is can be a quick and easy way to temporarily lift their depressed spirits. So they have reckless sex and end up with kids.
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#8 TheChosenTurkey
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For starters, poverty stricken people often have shortened lifespans and not much money. So when they need help around the farm/house, are they going to be able to afford to pay someone to do that kind of ****? No. They rely on the kids. When you're old and dying and need constant care, can you afford to get that care from a stranger? No. That's your kids' job: to feed you and clean you while you're dying in poverty. If you can't afford to hire people to do the work, then you have kids and make them work for you.

Two: I already mentioned that poor people generally can't afford the best health care. They also often live in generally crappy areas that have a higher chance of their kids dying. And if it's expected that some of your kids will die or end up in prison, then you have more kids. Why do you think that fish lay like, hundreds of eggs? Obviously it's because most of the babies are gonna end up dead. Higher poverty correlates to higher child mortality. So poor people have more kids.

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So your saying that poor people have children so they can get help around the house and business. What? Why? If you're living in extreme poverty, having sex to get help around the house and probably failing business is so irresponsible. If they can't even pay for a stranger, what makes you think they can fully support a child? If you struggling in poverty, struggle by yourself.

I'm completely lost at your second statement. Could you please explain more? What I got out of it was that you're claiming that poor people are have more children so that at least one child can overcome all the death and jail that they are more likely to succumb to. Really...

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#11 mysticstryk
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Isn't this question obvious? If your poor and have a child, you get money from the government.

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They have every right to have children. Yes they may be poor, but that is all the more reason why we should help them out... The fact that you even suggest that they should not have children because of their economic status horrifies me. They did not choose to be born into poverty, and not everyone is lucky enough to live in a middle-higher class family in a 1st world country. Why waste money oppressing them with 'regulations' on how many children they can or cannot have, or on condoms and marketing (which is unneccessary) when we can start supplying them with water, food, shelter etc. TC, you need to take a wider look at the world. Would you say the same thing to someone living in extreme poverty in your country? Why is it their fault if all they are doing is ensuring the survival of their family and race...
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They have every right to have children. Yes they may be poor, but that is all the more reason why we should help them out... The fact that you even suggest that they should not have children because of their economic status horrifies me. They did not choose to be born into poverty, and not everyone is lucky enough to live in a middle-higher class family in a 1st world country. Why waste money oppressing them with 'regulations' on how many children they can or cannot have, or on condoms and marketing (which is unneccessary) when we can start supplying them with water, food, shelter etc. TC, you need to take a wider look at the world. Would you say the same thing to someone living in extreme poverty in your country? Why is it their fault if all they are doing is ensuring the survival of their family and race... Mario_Eater

Unfortunately everything costs money. While I agree that helping the poor is a good thing, it can only go so far, else we all become poor.

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#15 MrGeezer
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

For starters, poverty stricken people often have shortened lifespans and not much money. So when they need help around the farm/house, are they going to be able to afford to pay someone to do that kind of ****? No. They rely on the kids. When you're old and dying and need constant care, can you afford to get that care from a stranger? No. That's your kids' job: to feed you and clean you while you're dying in poverty. If you can't afford to hire people to do the work, then you have kids and make them work for you.

Two: I already mentioned that poor people generally can't afford the best health care. They also often live in generally crappy areas that have a higher chance of their kids dying. And if it's expected that some of your kids will die or end up in prison, then you have more kids. Why do you think that fish lay like, hundreds of eggs? Obviously it's because most of the babies are gonna end up dead. Higher poverty correlates to higher child mortality. So poor people have more kids.

TheChosenTurkey

So your saying that poor people have children so they can get help around the house and business. What? Why? If you're living in extreme poverty, having sex to get help around the house and probably failing business is so irresponsible. If they can't even pay for a stranger, what makes you think they can fully support a child? If you struggling in poverty, struggle by yourself.

I'm completely lost at your second statement. Could you please explain more? What I got out of it was that you're claiming that poor people are have more children so that at least one child can overcome all the death and jail that they are more likely to succumb to. Really...

You have to pay hired help.

Children are a "free" source of work, and they also have a built-in sense of obligation and duty. Historically, it has not been at all uncommon to put kids to work as soon as they were physically able. Rich kids have the luxury of playing and studying, while poor kids go to work before they're 10 years old, and then spend 15 hours a day working dangerous factory jobs to support the family. The mere fact that you see this as weird shows just how good things are for most of us today.

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#16 Rikusaki
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cuz sex feel gud nd dey go 'oops baby' ok

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#17 LoserMike
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Two things: When there's nothing to do, people have sex and lots of it.

In may cultures raising a family is the most important thing to do, so it's important to have children. That's why Catholicism expounds not to use contraceptives while having sex.

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It always pisses me off though, but dude 6 chirldren is low, i've seen guys with 19 chirldrens and all of them were disabled, handicapped in one way or the other.
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[QUOTE="Mario_Eater"]They have every right to have children. Yes they may be poor, but that is all the more reason why we should help them out... The fact that you even suggest that they should not have children because of their economic status horrifies me. They did not choose to be born into poverty, and not everyone is lucky enough to live in a middle-higher class family in a 1st world country. Why waste money oppressing them with 'regulations' on how many children they can or cannot have, or on condoms and marketing (which is unneccessary) when we can start supplying them with water, food, shelter etc. TC, you need to take a wider look at the world. Would you say the same thing to someone living in extreme poverty in your country? Why is it their fault if all they are doing is ensuring the survival of their family and race...

So, poverty is transferred through generations? I don't understand why you would want this persist unless you want cheap labor.
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#20 Mario_Eater
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Unfortunately everything costs money. While I agree that helping the poor is a good thing, it can only go so far, else we all become poor.

mysticstryk

Which is another sad thing about the world we live in today. Thanks to greed through our capitalist and consumerist culture no one can 'afford' to help the poor, yet they can 'help' themselves to anything they want. There are enough greedy CEO's lining their pockets with raises and cash bonuses on top of already ridiculous salaries to help out the poor. Or what about the defence budget of the West (particularly America) that is obviously large enough to fund several third world countries out of the way of poverty... Society is blinded so much by greed these days that when we do finally pull our heads from this mess, we will be in a lot of trouble...

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#21 VanillaFella
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[QUOTE="VanillaFella"]

It's just part of nature to want to pass on your genes. No way would you be able to regulate people having sex, unless you neutered them. Also instead of giving them free condoms, I think we are better off giving them food and water. Your question is pretty dumb.

junglist101

Tc's question is a legitimate one. No need for insults.

And if we go with your idea of no condoms and just provide food and water wouldn't you think that would make the monumental task of providing food and water to the world's poor more diificult by adding more mouths to feed?Condoms are cheap. How bout' food, water, condoms and of course educate them on the subject.

I'm pretty sure there will always be over population and poverty. No amount of food, water and condoms can stop that. There is no real solution to helping these people out. Im just saying there are too many variables to stop the poor from having children. So, we just help them out enough that we can feel good about ourselves.

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#22 Mario_Eater
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[QUOTE="Mario_Eater"]They have every right to have children. Yes they may be poor, but that is all the more reason why we should help them out... The fact that you even suggest that they should not have children because of their economic status horrifies me. They did not choose to be born into poverty, and not everyone is lucky enough to live in a middle-higher class family in a 1st world country. Why waste money oppressing them with 'regulations' on how many children they can or cannot have, or on condoms and marketing (which is unneccessary) when we can start supplying them with water, food, shelter etc. TC, you need to take a wider look at the world. Would you say the same thing to someone living in extreme poverty in your country? Why is it their fault if all they are doing is ensuring the survival of their family and race... Mafiree
So, poverty is transferred through generations? I don't understand why you would want this persist unless you want cheap labor.

I am not saying I want cheap labour... and never once did I even imply it... I am trying to state that it is only human nature to ensure the survival of our race. And how do we go about that? By having offspring of course... So why should a 'cashed up' first world country try to say who can or cannot have children... It is ultimately the parents decision to decide, not any government that presides over a first world country thousands of kilometres away... they have enough issues of their own...
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#23 VanillaFella
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[QUOTE="Mafiree"][QUOTE="Mario_Eater"]They have every right to have children. Yes they may be poor, but that is all the more reason why we should help them out... The fact that you even suggest that they should not have children because of their economic status horrifies me. They did not choose to be born into poverty, and not everyone is lucky enough to live in a middle-higher class family in a 1st world country. Why waste money oppressing them with 'regulations' on how many children they can or cannot have, or on condoms and marketing (which is unneccessary) when we can start supplying them with water, food, shelter etc. TC, you need to take a wider look at the world. Would you say the same thing to someone living in extreme poverty in your country? Why is it their fault if all they are doing is ensuring the survival of their family and race... Mario_Eater
So, poverty is transferred through generations? I don't understand why you would want this persist unless you want cheap labor.

I am not saying I want cheap labour... and never once did I even imply it... I am trying to state that it is only human nature to ensure the survival of our race. And how do we go about that? By having offspring of course... So why should a 'cashed up' first world country try to say who can or cannot have children... It is ultimately the parents decision to decide, not any government that presides over a first world country thousands of kilometres away... they have enough issues of their own...

I would have to agree with you.

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[QUOTE="Mafiree"][QUOTE="Mario_Eater"]They have every right to have children. Yes they may be poor, but that is all the more reason why we should help them out... The fact that you even suggest that they should not have children because of their economic status horrifies me. They did not choose to be born into poverty, and not everyone is lucky enough to live in a middle-higher class family in a 1st world country. Why waste money oppressing them with 'regulations' on how many children they can or cannot have, or on condoms and marketing (which is unneccessary) when we can start supplying them with water, food, shelter etc. TC, you need to take a wider look at the world. Would you say the same thing to someone living in extreme poverty in your country? Why is it their fault if all they are doing is ensuring the survival of their family and race... Mario_Eater
So, poverty is transferred through generations? I don't understand why you would want this persist unless you want cheap labor.

I am not saying I want cheap labour... and never once did I even imply it... I am trying to state that it is only human nature to ensure the survival of our race. And how do we go about that? By having offspring of course... So why should a 'cashed up' first world country try to say who can or cannot have children... It is ultimately the parents decision to decide, not any government that presides over a first world country thousands of kilometres away... they have enough issues of their own...

I don't understand how you insure the survival of your race by over extending yourself when you already have limited resources...... If anything you are doing just the opposite, by taking away from your health and the health of your older offspring. Since, you have to sacrifice already limited resources to insure the health of you and your new offspring.
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#25 TheChosenTurkey
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It's just part of nature to want to pass on your genes. No way would you be able to regulate people having sex, unless you neutered them. Also instead of giving them free condoms, I think we are better off giving them food and water. Your question is pretty dumb.Darkman2007
If condoms are common place everywhere for free and mass campaigns, hell, even scare campaigns where the ad basically says if you're living in poverty and you have children they will suffer, will lessen the amount of food and water that will be needed to support them. Argh and I hate the part of human nature stuff.
You have to pay hired help. Children are a "free" source of work, and they also have a built-in sense of obligation and duty. Historically, it has not been at all uncommon to put kids to work as soon as they were physically able. Rich kids have the luxury of playing and studying, while poor kids go to work before they're 10 years old, and then spend 15 hours a day working dangerous factory jobs to support the family. The mere fact that you see this as weird shows just how good things are for most of us today. MrGeezer
Aight, I get you point. However, and I know many people will disagree with me here, if I was living in poverty so bad that I needed a child to work for me as I am sick (I'm assuming the parent is sick as a non sick/diabled parent could do the factory work themselves) I'd just chose to die without a child since I'm going to anyway. But then again, I guess people will claim that it's human nature to survive.

Which brings me to the conclusion that humans are irresponsible.

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#26 freek666
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If I had my way everyone below the poverty line would be castrated.

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#27 JasonDarksavior
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Because condoms can break when you least expect it.
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#28 Rikusaki
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Because condoms can break when you least expect it.JasonDarksavior
Yeah! And they buy the cheap kind!
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#29 PerfectCode
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[QUOTE="JasonDarksavior"]Because condoms can break when you least expect it.Rikusaki
Yeah! And they buy the cheap kind!

Yeah! Because they can't afford the expensive reliable kind!

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#30 ExoticAnimal
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This brings up an interesting debate of whether people who live in poverty should be able to have children at all or not. People have the right to have children but to what point when a parent should be banned from having a child because a parent cannot provide the basic necessities for them to live a healthy life? I personally feel that if one can barely support themself, then it is unfair to bring a life into this world only for the child to suffer from lack of proper nutrition, lack of an education, and lack of proper medical care. Why would you make the child suffer at the expense of just wanting a child to pass on the family name? It's just being selfish on the parent's part. Sure there are some instances where you can't control the outcome such as girls getting raped but doesn't mean that people in poverty should be going out to have children just because they want to.
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#31 coolkid93
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Whenever I see someone that is already struggling but has a football team of kids, I think of some of those things. And I can't stand that crap excuse "well a man/woman has needs". If you already can't afford kids, why do so?

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#32 DJ-PRIME90
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I say its just stupidity. Maybe not in those 3rd world countries where you got saw that guilt ad, but here in modern civilization its just stupidity. If you can't afford to support a family, don't have kids. If you're against abortion, don't have sex. What really gets me is these teen moms, they get knocked up and most of them can't give you a good reason for why they want to keep it, or they just won't.
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#33 Gardenpath
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Perhaps it's having children that makes you poor ;)

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#34 tenaka2
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Some countries has no social welfare system, the only way to get looked after as you get old are your own children, if poor people had no kids they would starve when they could no longer work.

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#35 MrsSolidSnake
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Lack of education and money for contraceptives?

Also, over here people have children just for the sake of it becausethey get a significant amount of money from the government when it is born. A lot of people just blow the money on luxuries and NOT on the baby.

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#36 Ninja-Hippo
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I agree with this. My friend is forever complaining about her sister with three children struggling to support them and how the government should give her more help. If you don't have a decent enough wage to support children, dont have them, never mind three. :?
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#37 indzman
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Poor people always suffer ... first from Poverty and now OT deciding why poor peoples have children . Leave poor peoples alone , let them live any they wish . They are human beings like us and deserve to have children .

TBH we well to do guys know nothing about a poor guys pain .

If you care about poor people so much , donate money to them than debating about them .

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#38 gameking5000
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It might be because that they're not educated enough. I read an article that showed citizens of developed countries who were educated, had less children but childhood death rates were low. While in impoverished nations they have a high death and birth rate.

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#39 GrudHeap
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You really don't have to have sex "all the time" to end up with a child. There are plenty of people in the United States that end up having children without the means to take care of them, the only difference is that here a lot of those people have tons of safety nets when compared to people in third world countries.
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#40 Firebird-5
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lol if poor people didnt have children be assured the west would have bigger demographic problems than it does now
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#41 Overlord93
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Because some people in poorer countries see children as useful little helpers. In more developed countries however, there is less of an excuse for it.
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#42 Ull_Blull
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Cause the want to become more poorer.
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#43 supdotcom
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they'll get the children to work for the family.

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#44 th3warr1or
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[QUOTE="Mario_Eater"]They have every right to have children. Yes they may be poor, but that is all the more reason why we should help them out... The fact that you even suggest that they should not have children because of their economic status horrifies me. They did not choose to be born into poverty, and not everyone is lucky enough to live in a middle-higher class family in a 1st world country. Why waste money oppressing them with 'regulations' on how many children they can or cannot have, or on condoms and marketing (which is unneccessary) when we can start supplying them with water, food, shelter etc. TC, you need to take a wider look at the world. Would you say the same thing to someone living in extreme poverty in your country? Why is it their fault if all they are doing is ensuring the survival of their family and race...

Um, yes. They did not choose to be born into poverty, and by having kids, that's just continuing the cycle.
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#45 -Y2J-
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who are we talking about, third world nations or just in general.?
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#46 Ilovegames1992
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I dont mind helping the poor. But i'm not happy paying for some slut's benefits who had children JUST for the benefits. The epitomy of scum. I feel sorry for the kids brought up into that.

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#47 NuclearNerd
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Because kids might make em happy. Sure you can barely support them, but you'd love them and make each other happy. Why should poor people not have kids just because the kids might also end up poor? It's not as if they are guaranteed to be poor forever, there are many stories of successful people who started out in poverty out there. That's like saying poor people shouldn't be allowed to spend money on anything other than necessities. "Well, we have this poverty problem that makes us look bad. We better regulate the poor and make sure they don't have kids, don't spend money on luxuries and only live their lives in such a way where it would lead to them not being poor any more." My goodness. Between this and the number of people around here who think they would be merciful by aborting a fetus of their child if it were known to have a defect of mental disability (because you can't live a happy life with a disability or mental illness!), I hope OT isn't a legitimate sampling of the outside world's opinions.
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#48 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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The question shouldn't be why they have children. Everyone has a right to have children. The question should be why do they have 5 to 6 children?

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#49 Wasdie  Moderator
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In less developed countries, children are a source of labor to help a family. However in a developed country in the USA it gets complicated. A lot of poor/uneducated people who don't go beyond high school have kids because it's the logical next step in life. It's how they were raised. You are born, go to school, have a family, then die. That's how we are programmed since we are kids.

I don't think it's about government incentives to have kids. I won't doubt that people abuse that system, but it's not the real reason why working class people have kids. It's all culture. People don't use their best judgement either. They don't realize it costs far more than people can afford to raise a kid. Often these kids are born into families where education isn't valued. It's really just a bad cycle.

We can't stop people from having kids unless we become like China and that means forced abortions after 1 kid (an extremely horrible practice).

I noticed that from my graduating class, those who didn't go to school after high school already have kids. These are the same people who get married right out of high school and divorced a few years later. It's all bad judgement. Our culture keeps telling them to get married and have kids. That's happiness. In all reality, those who go to school often see a different picture than what's on TV. They realize happiness is whatever you want it to be. They believe in stability and the ability to support a real family. This is why none of my college friends who have graduated have kids and are not married yet.

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#50 dagreenfish
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In less developed countries, children are a source of labor to help a family. However in a developed country in the USA it gets complicated. A lot of poor/uneducated people who don't go beyond high school have kids because it's the logical next step in life. It's how they were raised. You are born, go to school, have a family, then die. That's how we are programmed since we are kids.

I don't think it's about government incentives to have kids. I won't doubt that people abuse that system, but it's not the real reason why working class people have kids. It's all culture. People don't use their best judgement either. They don't realize it costs far more than people can afford to raise a kid. Often these kids are born into families where education isn't valued. It's really just a bad cycle.

We can't stop people from having kids unless we become like China and that means forced abortions after 1 kid (an extremely horrible practice).

I noticed that from my graduating class, those who didn't go to school after high school already have kids. These are the same people who get married right out of high school and divorced a few years later. It's all bad judgement. Our culture keeps telling them to get married and have kids. That's happiness. In all reality, those who go to school often see a different picture than what's on TV. They realize happiness is whatever you want it to be. They believe in stability and the ability to support a real family. This is why none of my college friends who have graduated have kids and are not married yet.

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This seems to be the most reasonable and level headed answer I've seen in this thread. People aren't just "stupid" or "mooches" but the reason do vary between developed and non- developed countries.