Why do people look down on virgins?

do they?...do they really?....

Read my post in Mou's voice and you'd agree with me.

I never had anal.

Its overrated anyways =P

Why don't you want to lose it to any girl you meet at the club? What's so special about it?

Yeah, but she already had sex with him and she already knew that he sucks at it. She didn't dump him because he is lousy at sex, she dumped him because he's a virgin (which still doesn't make sense, because he's not a virgin any more). That's a little bit weird. At that point, what does it matter if he's a virgin? She already found out that he's bad at sex and she didn't dump him then, so how does finding out that he was recently a virgin change anything?

@pyratrum: anyone below the age of 70 that believes in any form of deity needs professional help,let alone letting religion affect something so basic and instinctive as sex.so yes being a virgin for religious reason is at least stupid,and being a virgin in general ,especially above the age of 18-19 means you have little "worth".of course same goes for girls,even more i would add,since they can find sex way more easily.so a girl that is a virgin above the age of 19-20 has tons of issues

I have no problem with a virgin, and if a men or women wants to wait till they found the right person in there life, and I respect that 100%. I cherish a women, that dont go around, spreading there legs open to every guy they see, they wait till they have that established relationship with someone, specially to see where that someones head is at before doing anything with that person and that I respect, and is very attractive about a women.

im a virgin mary

Sucks for you, for me she was more welcome at the fact that I was one

Most people don't like virgins because they are thirsty and creepy. Virgins are like burs they just stick on you and become a pain in the ass.

It's kind of stupid. Besides in past centuries virginity was actually something that was admired and looked up to.

Oh and TC, it seems you're better off without that woman.

Why is it that the assumption seems to be that a woman is ether a virgin or a slut who beds any guy that comes along?

What a coincidence, I'm the opposite: I respect someone more than goes after what they want rather than needlessly restricting themselves from one of life's best activities.

What do you all think of men who see call-girls?

Only nominally lost their virginity IMO.

It's cool to have sex. The more girls you screwed the cooler you are.

Depends on the chick. I've met a lot of women that are into that. I've lied about being a virgin several times to get laid.

You must be in primary school for girl to fall for that.

Implying religious belief is a mental disorder

Stay classy.

I see nothing wrong with it. It's a simple, honest exchange of goods for services.

Was.

To be honest, I never had sex. Never thought of it, never cared for it too much. I've always been busy and while I have flirted, it has never gone anywhere due to lack of interest from me or her. I did have a girl say she would like to give oral to me but I rejected because I had no interest in her.

I guess people have their own philosophy of when and how you should lose your virginity so my advice is just follow what you think is right, whether it's better to wait or screw anything with a vagina. Obviously experience does matter for both men and women, and it's a problem for those who do wait while others who have lost their virginity seem to regret it.

Now that I think of it, your first time will always be awkward. It sucks that you got rejected like that but it's best to move on and forget about it. Find a different girl and bone her. Use that story as a humorous anecdote or whatever.

I don't see any issue with prostitution as long as it's regulated efficiently and properly. I kind of wish it was legal.

It is a matter of risk/reward. What is the reward for having sex? A few minutes of pleasure, maybe, and thats about it. The risks, however, are numerous. The obvious one is the possibility (however small) of conceiving a child, and all of the financial and emotional struggles that go along with it. Take into account that fact that bringing a human life into the world isn't exactly a small, or unimportant, thing. It needs to be taken very seriously, which means your attitude towards sex needs to be taken very seriously. Then there are diseases, some of which are common while others not so common.

I've seen too many "mistakes," or as a kid i heard talking about it one time say "oops babies," in my own family to not think it can't happen to me. In my opinion, it simply isn't worth the risk.

Sucks that you lost your virginity to a b!tch on wheels man, as for why people look down upon virgins it's mainly because they think that sex is what makes the world go round. I have a friend who would basically fvck anything that walks and he thinks it's the coolest thing since sliced bread. As for your next girl to have sex with, make sure she's not like having sex with a pile of rocks dude.

First of all, I'm admitting that I don't get laid; I'm not some cool dude who gets poon out the wazoo. However, I think that you're downplaying sex in order to downplay your inability to acquire it. In other words: "I can't get laid, but it's no big deal because sex isn't a big deal."

You know damn well you want some poon. We all do.

Man, if only there were ways to have safe and responsible sex.

oh wait...

@theGerge I have looked it up and there are no health benefits.

@BluRayHiDef Actually, no. I've had the chance (only once), and chose not to take it. It didn't make any sense and there was no purpose to it. I'm sure there are many desperate women who would be willing to be with you, if that is what you want.

@Aljosa23 I know several people who claim to have been "responsible" and are now fathers (or mothers). If these people had taken my advice and had waited until they were actually capable of properly raising a child (having a good mother/father relationship, money in the bank to provide their kid with the things they need), then they could have had everything they have now, and more. Instead, they chose to take your advice - pretend that it can't happen to them because they practice responsible sex. The issue shouldn't (and can't) be boiled down to one line sarcastic comments. I know there are people who are successful with "responsible sex" in the sense that they don't conceive a child, but there are also those that aren't. It is foolish for someone to even consider it if they aren't ready for the possible consequences, and a large amount of people are not ready.

In response to your lame attempt at a low blow: I've had multiple opportunities to lose mine before I actually did and the girls weren't desperate. Anyhow, I simply think your reasoning (or lack thereof) is bullshit. You're a human being and subsequently have the natural urge to ****. Period. The post you made was inhuman and subsequently an obvious attempt at trivializing sex in order to lessen the damage your inability to acquire it has on your self-esteem. I'm not saying this to be mean, but only because it's obviously true. When a single, heterosexual male is offered sex, he turns it down only because he's nervous, which was the case with you. No single, heterosexual male thinks "This is pointless. I don't want to have sex." You want poon. Stop denying it.

Not everyone thinks as you do.

I don't think people really look down on virgins until a certain age...like say 28. Then you can't help but to wonder why.

I could think of many reasons why she had a problem with you being a virgin. First of all, she didn't know you were her first, she might have made it a more wonderful experience for you if she knew it was your first time, or she would not have had sex with you at all if she knew. I had a girl strip naked and get on top of me and i had to turn her away as soon as she said she was a virgin. I do not want to be the one who will always be in her mind when she remembers the first time. I'll let her save that day for someone she really cares about. At this day and age, i'm sure most guys don't expect their ladies to be virgins.

Is BRHD virgin ?

26 and only had oral once. As much as I would like to have sex, I'm not actually in a rush. Don't know if that counts as virginity loss. Anyway, if it isn't then being a virgin isn't even that bad. If it counts as loss then damnit...

If all she wanted was sex, then it's better that it ended as abruptly as it did. She wasn't worth it.

@norm41x:

You're technically a virgin since there was no vaginal intercourse.

Only women are virgins

That's because people are idiots and have always been idiots.

People think you are a loser if you say that the girls don't like you or if you say that you can't get affection from beautiful women.

Society tends to see ugly and unsucessful people as being inferior because people think that this kind of people will never amount to anything and will never contribute anything to society.

But this is false and is just a dirty stereotype.

Not anymore

>BRHD finally gets sex and it w/o even having any strings attached

>complains about it

WHAT THE **** IS WRONG WITH YOU

WTF, BRHD finally scored and hes complaining abt it ? LOL.

People have always been quite superficial. That's nothing new.

Oh and btw people do not look down only on virgins. People look down on many other groups of people.

Ugly-looking people are also looked down upon as well as homeless people or people with criminal records or on people who never contributed anything to society.