You may have seen this pic I'm about to describe, it's four pics in one of a man a woman and a donkey, with two observers in background representing society(bare in mind the observers are the same observers in all four of the pics)
Day 1 both man and woman are riding the donkey, the observers say"two people on that donkeys back, poor thing.
Day 2 woman rides donkey man walks alongside, observers say"how stupid is he letting woman ride donkey alone"
Day 3 man rides donkey woman walks, observers say"how cruel he is letting the woman walk"
Day 4 both man and woman walk alongside the donkey, observers say"fools don't even know how to utilise the donkey"
I think this is a true representation of a lot of people in society no matter what they will always find something to complain about. No matter how many different ways things are done by governments,bosses of employment, schools, hospitals, even down to friends and family they will always find fault, and be judgemental in the way others do things. Why is that?