For example theres this blonde girl, that mostly all the guys like, but a lot of guys seem rude to her even though she's nice for the most part. I mean they pick on her a lot and stuff. Ampersonally nicer to girls I like.
Why is this?
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For example theres this blonde girl, that mostly all the guys like, but a lot of guys seem rude to her even though she's nice for the most part. I mean they pick on her a lot and stuff. Ampersonally nicer to girls I like.
Why is this?
My guess is that some girls like guys who treat them like garden tools and order them around like slaves.
Desulated
I don't think girls like em bad boys. I mean in real life not the movies.
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My guess is that some girls like guys who treat them like garden tools and order them around like slaves.
Fundai
I don't think girls like em bad boys. I mean in real life not the movies.
Not Bad boys, but i notice that girls give more attention to those that DONT respect them.
Not really I give respect to girls and get em easy too 8) (at least most of the time)
Because constant teasing always leads to affection.
Suzy_Q_Kazoo
idk I don't think guys make fun of girls because they think it might be more attractive.
Let's face it, the majority of girls out there, especially high school ones, like guys that treat them like cat excrements.
Desulated
Yes and thatsactuallyquite sad. But not always true. ;)
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Let's face it, the majority of girls out there, especially high school ones, like guys that treat them like cat excrements.
supergoat777
Yes and thatsactuallyquite sad. But not always true. ;)
There's probably like 5 out of 100 that are like that, but good luck finding them in reality. Heh.
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Because constant teasing always leads to affection.
supergoat777
idk I don't think guys make fun of girls because they think it might be more attractive.
I wasn't being serious.Some girls are mean to the guys they like too, its probably all to get noticed, because they don't know how to express their feelings. Sorta like how Helga always bullied "Football head!" in Hey arnold lol :P
Personal experience has taught me that girls are not attracted to nice guys. At best the most they can hope for is to fall in the dreaded friends zone. Girls respond better to confident/cocky/jerk/bastards. And the hotter the girl is the more you should act cocky. You'll find exceptions but overall it works. P.S. I really hope that as my generation gets older, women get more mature. Its irritating behaving the opposite of ones natural instincts just to attract them.Diablo-BHow old are you? Girls generally get more mature around the age of 18 - 19. I don't know why anyone would want to date a girl younger than that.
[QUOTE="Diablo-B"]Personal experience has taught me that girls are not attracted to nice guys. At best the most they can hope for is to fall in the dreaded friends zone. Girls respond better to confident/cocky/jerk/bastards. And the hotter the girl is the more you should act cocky. You'll find exceptions but overall it works.How old are you? Girls generally get more mature around the age of 18 - 19. I don't know why anyone would want to date a girl younger than that.P.S. I really hope that as my generation gets older, women get more mature. Its irritating behaving the opposite of ones natural instincts just to attract them.PernicioEnigma
Wrong. From my experiences girls are barely even mature at that age.
I think one reason is because they are afraid of rejection. If they treat them like badly then if the girl isn't into them they never expressed any feelings that could make them feel like they weren't good enough. You also have to ask yourself what a girl is into. The reason nice guys finish last in alot of cases is because they are "acting" nice in order to get the girl to like you and that won't change a girls overall opinon towards how they feel about you. Let me put it into perspective, girl wants a guy who is on or above her level, that said guy is himself around the girl on his level and cocky towards the girl underneath her level, the man underneath would try to be extra nice to try and compensate. If your thinking "what is a level" I'm talking about personality, character, looks, and just about everything that goes into human attraction.
Because the girls are idiots and gluttons for punishment. You allow yourself to be treated like crap, and you will be.
Sometimes they're afraid of admitting their feelings for the girl so they're mean to help keep her at arms length. There's a difference between that- a guy being mean without being close to a girl- and a guy being mean to a girl he's in a serious relationship with.
Some guys seem to have this strange and irrational idea that if he treats a girl like crap, she'll like him.
This is not true.
Guys who do this, ask yourself: Do you like people who treat you like crap?
Have you never called your friend an insulting name? Even if they are being mean, they still care about you. Most girls don't like nice guys (even if they say that they do) because most nice guys are either boring or ugly (or both). So, while some guys are on their soapbox announcing how nice they are, maybe they should change something about themselves or just hope someone comes along. To be honest, the nice guys I have been with, the relationship wasn't really exciting or special in any way. I had more fun with the jerks I was with. Same goes for guys.MistressMinakoOH MY GOD! Are you serious? I ve always been nice because its the way i am.. no effin wonder!! Please enlight me more!
OH MY GOD! Are you serious? I ve always been nice because its the way i am.. no effin wonder!! Please enlight me more! Well, tons of girls do like nice guys. You just have to be on their attraction level of looks and personality. A lot of douches I met are really attractive. How many girls go on and on about a nice guy they are dating compared to a douche that they are dating? After being with some nice guys or girls it gets stale after a while which is why some people break up. Nothing is happening, so the spark dies. It's mostly with young people, though. Even some nice guys are douches sometimes. Ever seen That 70s Show? Eric and Donna are a great example. Eric might be a douche sometimes, but he is generally a nice guy.[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]Have you never called your friend an insulting name? Even if they are being mean, they still care about you. Most girls don't like nice guys (even if they say that they do) because most nice guys are either boring or ugly (or both). So, while some guys are on their soapbox announcing how nice they are, maybe they should change something about themselves or just hope someone comes along. To be honest, the nice guys I have been with, the relationship wasn't really exciting or special in any way. I had more fun with the jerks I was with. Same goes for guys.Solid_Tango
I don't know how it's like in other cultures, but guys here aren't being "serious" when they say apparently "demeaning" things. It's pretty much all playing around. Get past the joking and insults and the dudes end up being somewhat nice dudes.
I don't know how it's like in other cultures, but guys here aren't being "serious" when they say apparently "demeaning" things. It's pretty much all playing around. Get past the joking and insults and the dudes end up being somewhat nice dudes.BarbariserIs it usually the pretties one who gets insulted the most from your area too?
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[QUOTE="Desulated"]
My guess is that some girls like guys who treat them like garden tools and order them around like slaves.
I don't think girls like em bad boys. I mean in real life not the movies.
Not Bad boys, but i notice that girls give more attention to those that DONT respect them.
i agree with this alot of girls like me more when i'm a prick to them and they constantly try for my attention[QUOTE="Barbariser"]I don't know how it's like in other cultures, but guys here aren't being "serious" when they say apparently "demeaning" things. It's pretty much all playing around. Get past the joking and insults and the dudes end up being somewhat nice dudes.LonelynightIs it usually the pretties one who gets insulted the most from your area too?
Yes, unattractive girls don't get any attention whatsoever.
Honestly, I don't know, but it's my modus operandi. Of course if I'm teasing a girl I'm being platful about it, but odds are it's my way of showing affection to her.
My question is, "why do girls like to be treated like that?"3eyedrazorbacki personally dislike it :Z
I think guys get jealous that said girl hasn't chosen them, so will lash out, and call her names and things.
I was with a guy who used to tease me 'for fun', until the day he found it really fun to break my fingers a week before my audition to play violin for the ESO, anyway.
Now when I guy 'teases' me, I run the f*** away.
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