When middle aged gay men stares at you

Nothing pisses me off more when gay homosexual men gives you dirty looks just because youre short and good looking. whats the best comeback for those situation or whats the best way to avoid it?

ignore it. is it really that much of a problem?

Why do you care so much?

I just find it extremely disgusting and really annoying.

Is it a look of envy or is it a look that implies that they want to have sex with you?

I would consider it a compliment more than anything. Sure I would be a little weirded out at the idea of middle aged people being interested in me, but all in all it means somebody finds me attractive.

It's not their fault you look like some twink ******

Is this a problem you have a lot, TC? Because I don't think I've ever had that problem ever. As far as I know, my appearance isn't enough to piss off/ offend a middle aged gay man.

Are you insecure about your sexuality? Would you have an issue if a beautiful young woman looked at you in the same way? If somebody, of any age or sex, finds you attractive, you should take it as a compliment.

wtf no just no. I don't want old men giving me dirty looks. it makes me uncomfortable and mad.

wtf

When I was around 15 I remember heading into a taco shop with my family. As I proceeded past the threshold of this business some short hispanic dude in skintight daisy duke type shorts called me big dick elvis, and smiled.

I don't think I'll ever forget that, just based on how weird it was.

It's a good sign actually .... at least the public sees you as "NOT UGLY"

You confused about your sexuality?

no im not.

Stare back and say "My anus is ready."

By that Handsome guy a Drink !

But seriously, I just don't like being stared at from across the room no matter what the context, they should come over and say hello and tell me if theres something stuck in my teeth or if theres a huge spider on my back, or if they wana bend me over a table and have their way with me ! I'd really appreciate that alot.

Show him your package.

SOme one knows how I feel

I'm bisexual i fvcked both guys ( only two guy in my teens ) and girls, i've nothing against gay people unless someone rapes me ( as what happens in prison ).

Literally all the information you shared in that post was entirely irrelevant to the OP.

I personally wouldn't know whether to feel flattered or to cringe. Either way I don't think it would bother me all that much, I'll just ignore it.

Now, if its someone I have to encounter or come across frequently, that most likely would be a different story.

Old gay men are the bane of your existence? I envy you...

Run like hell

Took the words right outta my mouth!

"wanna see my batcave?"

An arab middle age buy me a beer with a "hope" after meeting at a bar ar Dubai .... I got the drink .... but didn't he didnt get my arse ... lol .....

Sorry, according to right wing lunatics old gay people have magical powers to turn younger people gay. You're probably infected.

Your behaviour is indicative of someone who is.

Just stare back and give him the crazy eyes.

Become anti-gay

Move out of San Francisco.

Ignore it like most sane people would do if it was disliked by them.

It's a good thing you're not an attractive woman. Imagine how many stares from unattractive men they have to put up with every day.

Freakin' ignore it, geesh...

Take it as a compliment...

...how do you know he's gay?

How do you NOT know that men are gay? It's pretty obvious in most cases.

If they're absolutely flaming, but that's not always the case.

I came upon a middle aged guy who MMMM'd at me and my friend. It was pretty awkward.

It's obvious in most cases that you notice; can you be sure that all "straight" guys you see are straight?

I would flex my butt cheeks for him, then tell him I'm straight and watch a piece of his soul die. You can look, but you can't touch fella.

Or you could do what most females would do if a man even momentarily glances at their cleavage. File sexual harassment charges and claim he was making unwanted, provocative, sexual, facial expressions towards you.

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The game doesn't change because of the person's sexual orientation.

Unfortunately there's no real way to "avoid that" except for publicly telling the guy to stop staring at you, which will take a bit of courage. Try asking any friends you have if they've gone through the same experience and whether or not they've figured out a way to handle it.

At least no one is stalking you or has before.

...Did you just refer to yourself as being 'good looking'?