May be a bif of a daft topic, but when friends that you were quite close to no longer make the effort with you, i.e they wont spend time or even speak to you anymore, is it worth trying to make more of an effort with them? or just think "screw it" and focus on other people ?
I have/had a group of female friends (im a guy btw) that ive been friends with for a few years now, but the last few months, they dont seem to have much to do with me. Its at the point where they will only contact me, if I contact them first, i.e on facebook. I still care about them as friends, but as hard as it may be, im also considering distancing myself from them and just focusing on others that still contact me now and then.
Any input will be great. Im not gonna lie, its getting me down a tad.