What's been the biggest age gap between yourself and a lover?

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#1 Posted by Nicksonman (1221 posts) -

For me, it's been a woman 14 years older than I was. However, I had a friend who went out with a woman who was 24 years older.

#2 Posted by ghoklebutter (19327 posts) -
An age gap that doesn't have an associated, excessively large gap in maturity (physical and psychological).
#3 Posted by FearMe801 (1249 posts) -

Aids doesn't matter

#4 Posted by Banjo_Kongfooie (3838 posts) -

An age gap that doesn't have an associated, excessively large gap in maturity (physical and psychological).ghoklebutter

Agreed. Once you reach adulthood, 18-99+ is a combo of psych and physical. Psychology is much more important though in my view.

#5 Posted by Fandangle (3430 posts) -

17 years

#6 Posted by surrealnumber5 (23044 posts) -
thus far it has been 8 years.
#7 Posted by invisibletearsx (997 posts) -

Nine months .. xD

#8 Posted by lonewolf604 (8526 posts) -
As long as the living breathing person I'm with has a working hole, I'm good.
#9 Posted by Nicksonman (1221 posts) -

As long as the living breathing person I'm with has a working hole, I'm good. lonewolf604

:o

#10 Posted by lonewolf604 (8526 posts) -

[QUOTE="lonewolf604"]As long as the living breathing person I'm with has a working hole, I'm good. Nicksonman

:o

Yeah its like whack a mole, except with holes, I just go for them.
#11 Posted by lionheart22 (548 posts) -

I'll be honest I was 22 and she was 50 so 28 years. At the end of the day it's just a number like your age (your as old as you feel). I've always been attracted to older women I've slept with 3 other women over 40 yo but they were beautiful and kind just wanting some companionship and intimacy like most adults. The fact I was the younger person meant nothing like most things if your mature enough and sensible about these encounters it can lead to some amazing experiences.

#12 Posted by muller39 (14944 posts) -

I was eighteen days the younger until she broke up with me.

#13 Posted by TheFlush (5574 posts) -

My current relatonship, 10.5 years. I'm 31 and my boyfriend is 42.
We've been together since 1999, our 12.5 year anniversary is next week.

#14 Posted by TheHighWind (3827 posts) -

I'd say she was about 6 years older than me.

#15 Posted by AmazonTreeBoa (16745 posts) -
Well when I turned 18, I discovered a girl who was 28 had been keeping her eye on me for a year and let me know it once I was legal. That was a fun night. My girl that I have been with for eighteen years is 4 years younger than me.
#16 Posted by Seraphy- (1820 posts) -
oldest I've ever been with would be about 16 years, or almost double my age would like to go older, though
#17 Posted by sonofsmeagle (4317 posts) -
oldest I've ever been with would be about 16 years, or almost double my age would like to go older, thoughSeraphy-
16 years BS mate, the girl in your avatar could only be 8 years old :lol:
#18 Posted by Seraphy- (1820 posts) -
16 years BS mate, the girl in your avatar could only be 8 years old :lol:sonofsmeagle
what does my avatar have to do with anything
#19 Posted by TheNewEraIcon (12196 posts) -

I was 2 years older in a relationship (She was 15 and I was 17

In my current relationship I'm actually 1 year younger (She's 20 and I'm 19)

#20 Posted by Lex224 (225 posts) -

3 years max so far haha.

#21 Posted by sammyjenkis898 (28122 posts) -
3 years.
#22 Posted by Nicksonman (1221 posts) -

3 years max so far haha.

Lex224

3 years.sammyjenkis898
These numbers have to go up people. :D

#23 Posted by Frame_Dragger (9581 posts) -
4 years, and i was the younger one.
#24 Posted by Krigen89 (3907 posts) -
Sexually, I was 23 and she was 37. So 14. As a RELATIONSHIP, the one with my wife wins it. she's 4 years older.
#25 Posted by kuraimen (28078 posts) -
She was 7 years younger...
#26 Posted by sonicare (53485 posts) -

7 years.

#27 Posted by megagene (23016 posts) -
She was 8 years younger than me.
#28 Posted by themajormayor (25855 posts) -

I've never had a "lover" :cry: but so far I think everyone has been roughly my age. So not more than 1 year

#29 Posted by SaintWalrus (1728 posts) -

4 years

- Me and my future girlfriend

#30 Posted by GamerChick2083 (481 posts) -

My husband is six years older than I am.

#31 Posted by Bloodseeker23 (8338 posts) -
5 years I think? or 4? not so sure. It was long time ago.
#32 Posted by chaoz-king (5952 posts) -

The biggest was a 3 or 4 year gap, she was 15. :cool:

#33 Posted by Darthkaiser (12447 posts) -
I was 14 she was 17 that was like, the highest gap. Most of the girls I see are 1 year older than me because I was put into school a year earlier, so all the people I meet are 1 year older and since most girls I know are from school, college that includes them.
#34 Posted by GreekGameManiac (6439 posts) -

10 years.

#35 Posted by gotdangit (8149 posts) -

Well right now with my current girlfriend, she's almost 2 years older then me.

I make fun of her for it. She was 20 when I was 18 and she's going to be 21 while I'm still 19.

She's a coug. At this age, right before 21, I feel like 2 years is a big gap.

#36 Posted by gotdangit (8149 posts) -

I was 14 she was 17 that was like, the highest gap. Most of the girls I see are 1 year older than me because I was put into school a year earlier, so all the people I meet are 1 year older and since most girls I know are from school, college that includes them.Darthkaiser
I didn't know players could be mods.

#37 Posted by needled24-7 (15900 posts) -

as far as dating goes, i've gone out with a girl 2 years younger than me (i'm 21, she's 19), but as far as having sex, i once had sex with a girl that was 3 years younger than me. not gonna lie, it was statuatory rape.

#38 Posted by BPoole96 (22803 posts) -

I am 22 and my girlfriend is 36

#39 Posted by danjammer69 (4122 posts) -

Around 11 and a half years.

I am 37 years old and my fiance is going to be 26 next week.

She is more mature than me though. I will never give up my games dammit!!!

#40 Posted by Jackc8 (8500 posts) -

Four years - she was 18 and I was 22. She broke my heart :cry:

#41 Posted by MrsSolidSnake (4902 posts) -

I went out with a guy 3 years younger than me. The immaturity was crazy. My current boyfriend is 3 1/2 months younger than me.

#42 Posted by XiaolinPrincess (7905 posts) -
Over 2 years. I was a high school senior and he was a high school freshman. I have a late birthday, which is why there isn't a 3-year difference.
#43 Posted by iHarlequin (1789 posts) -

Three years. Me being three years older than my date.

#44 Posted by Artekus (15700 posts) -

She was 12 years older.

#45 Posted by jediknight52501 (69715 posts) -
12 years younger.
#46 Posted by dagreenfish (1817 posts) -
My current girlfriend is about ten years younger than me.
#47 Posted by Badosh (12733 posts) -
Two years younger.
#48 Posted by DJ-PRIME90 (11292 posts) -
4 years younger than me... tried to go after a few older women but it doesn't work out so well.
#49 Posted by SPYDER0416 (16736 posts) -

She was 3 years older then me (16 when I was 13).

It was awesome, but I've never been with a girl more then 2 years older or younger then me since.

#50 Posted by MichBelle (1057 posts) -
My sophomore year of college I dated a 28 year old guy, and I was 19. It did not work out all too well.