What would you rather lots of love or lots of money?

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#1 Edited by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

Some people worship money and would sell there soul for a bunch of it, which is understandable those with lots of money have the run of the world.

Some people are just happy with having a loving family, wife kids etc and lots of money is not so important. In an ideal world you would want lots of both, but if you had to choose between having true love or lots of money what would you choose?

#2 Edited by ShepardCommandr (2119 posts) -

Neither.

#3 Posted by always_explicit (2619 posts) -

Whichever was easiest.

#4 Posted by Master_Live (13614 posts) -

Love, love conquers all.

#5 Posted by elkoldo (893 posts) -

I already have lots of love which, at least so far, has brought me nothing but pain ,and I know lots of money won't do me almost no good either.I might prefer a peaceful to them both.

#6 Posted by comp_atkins (31109 posts) -

i guess i'd take the money. got enough love in my life already

#7 Posted by MrGeezer (55937 posts) -

i guess i'd take the money. got enough love in my life already

Yeah, this. Too much love is annoying as hell. It's better to have a little bit of love, and lots of money.

#8 Posted by Diablo-B (4019 posts) -

Chasing love above all else is selfish. Chasing money is selfless. Wealth can change the lives of my family and friends for generations if I use it right. "Love" is a personal experience, a feeling you get from other people that with time looses it's control over you. As long as I love myself I'll be ok. Give me the money

#9 Posted by themajormayor (25620 posts) -

Lots of money without question.

#10 Posted by Ballroompirate (21606 posts) -

Lots of money so I can buy lots of fake love later.

#11 Posted by JML897 (33111 posts) -

As someone with a bunch of student loans to pay off I'll take the money in a heartbeat

#12 Edited by Gaming-Planet (13703 posts) -

Lots of money. I'm already a lone soul because of my family.

With that I can do what I've always wanted, creating the future for tomorrow with technology and blow all my money.

#13 Posted by Skyz_ (56 posts) -

Meh, I'd take love. As long as I had enough money to get by I wouldn't mind.

#14 Edited by konvikt_17 (22100 posts) -

Money. no question. im happy being by myself. i prefer it.

#15 Edited by Korvus (2351 posts) -

If I could only be rich in one of them I'd definitely choose love. Having enough money to live comfortably and help others is good enough for me; wouldn't want to be a millionaire at the expense of not having love.

#16 Posted by indzman (16398 posts) -

Ehhh money buys love. Beautiful girls are always after guys with money. So money :)

#17 Posted by GreySeal9 (23927 posts) -

@JML897 said:

As someone with a bunch of student loans to pay off I'll take the money in a heartbeat

^This.

#18 Posted by elkoldo (893 posts) -

@indzman said:

Ehhh money buys love. Beautiful girls are always after guys with money. So money :)

Well unfortunately my experience offers counter examples to this proposition.It's most times true though.

#19 Posted by jun_aka_pekto (15736 posts) -

Love don't pay the bills.

Some love and lots of money is fine with me.

#20 Posted by bobaban (10518 posts) -

@elkoldo said:

@indzman said:

Ehhh money buys love. Beautiful girls are always after guys with money. So money :)

Well unfortunately my experience offers counter examples to this proposition.It's most times true though.

are you an actual millionaire or just well off with a good job. Big difference

#21 Posted by elkoldo (893 posts) -

@bobaban said:

@elkoldo said:

@indzman said:

Ehhh money buys love. Beautiful girls are always after guys with money. So money :)

Well unfortunately my experience offers counter examples to this proposition.It's most times true though.

are you an actual millionaire or just well off with a good job. Big difference

Could assume, an actual millionaire

#22 Posted by indzman (16398 posts) -

@elkoldo said:

@indzman said:

Ehhh money buys love. Beautiful girls are always after guys with money. So money :)

Well unfortunately my experience offers counter examples to this proposition.It's most times true though.

HaHa yeah, there are exceptions as all people are not greedy lol.

#23 Edited by 187umKILLAH (1334 posts) -

Money, that way I can just buy me some hoes. I'd rather be rich and single than in love and poor.

#24 Posted by AmazonTreeBoa (16457 posts) -

Give me the money. I don't need lots of love. Just love from one person is fine with me. Me and my girl will spend the money.

#25 Edited by betamaxx83 (351 posts) -

I'm by no means rich, but I have a four year degree and live rather comfortably, and I pretty much buy whatever I want, but let me tell you money only solves a few problems.

I'm glad I have it, but it hasn't personally made me happy, just less stressful.

#26 Edited by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

@betamaxx83: @AmazonTreeBoa: @indzman: yeh but buying love isn't true love and if/when you loose your money you lose your beautiful lady to a next rich guy and you're left with nothing. At least if you meet a girl while your broke and she sticks around you know she loves you for who you are.

@amazon: nah mate you can't have both ways. True love and just getting by, or would you prefer lots of money and fake love?

Betamaxx:I hear that surely being able to buy what you want makes you happy? But I get the less stress thing.

True love brings happiness but can also bring stress. You never answered the question though. So which is it to be?

#27 Edited by Iszdope (9396 posts) -

I don't want your money honey, I want your love.

Wow, that's like deja vu or something right thar.

#28 Posted by Lord_Daemon (24229 posts) -

Lots of money as allow me a chance at love as well as greatly ease the lives of friends and family.

#29 Posted by Netret0120 (1886 posts) -

@Diablo-B:

Couldn't have said it better myself.

#30 Edited by indzman (16398 posts) -

@ariabed said:

@betamaxx83: @AmazonTreeBoa: @indzman: yeh but buying love isn't true love and if/when you loose your money you lose your beautiful lady to a next rich guy and you're left with nothing. At least if you meet a girl while your broke and she sticks around you know she loves you for who you are.

@amazon: nah mate you can't have both ways. True love and just getting by, or would you prefer lots of money and fake love?

Betamaxx:I hear that surely being able to buy what you want makes you happy? But I get the less stress thing.

True love brings happiness but can also bring stress. You never answered the question though. So which is it to be?

I agree completely , one should never ever marry money centered girls as when you will lose money or down you will lose the woman too. But what they say , a guys susceptible to a womans charm before logic heh.There are lots of self earning good woman out there too who will care for her man no matter what, ultimately it comes down to luck in finding such a girl .From my own experience i've seen majority of beautiful females leading a good life always opting for guys with a very good career or from a rich family ( Not thier fault too why miss a good life when you get option to choose ).Its very hard to find such women marrying a simple fellow lol. If you undestand what i mean, heh. Not blaming them in any way , but if i got money i tend to stay miles away from such women =P.

#31 Posted by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

@indzman: that's the thing though like you said they're good at putting on the charm, but it's not you they've got there eye on it's your money and how would you know, they will tell you they love you give you amazing sexuals and stuff. Maybe if you hid your wealth and lived modestly you would then attract the right type of woman, I think that's what I would do, or live the high life attract a woman but never buy her expensive things lol see how that works out lol

#32 Posted by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

@MrGeezer: @MrGeezer: continuing on from your post on my other thread that got locked....wow you went deep, to deep lol of course people you love can always do something that will make you not love them or not want to see them, that goes without saying. That's not what this threads about though. I get what your saying in your second comment if you're the main bread winner and you lose your bread winning skills things can get hard and stressful and it can break relationships, but you would hope that you would have a true strong enough love to make it through the rough times, would you rather a love like that or a fake love based on what you can provide?

I mean you see it all the time a nice looking girl with a ugly maybe much older man, why is she with him? For security, looks and love personality don't play a part for her, as long as she can get her hair an nails done live in a big house, get the latest Louis v hambag drive around in a Benz she's happy, and some guys know that but they don't care, they prob sleep around on each other argue like cat and mouse.

I would rather have a woman that would stick with me through thick an thin and be ok financially, rather than be rich in a shallow loveless relationship

#33 Edited by indzman (16398 posts) -

@ariabed said:

@indzman: that's the thing though like you said they're good at putting on the charm, but it's not you they've got there eye on it's your money and how would you know, they will tell you they love you give you amazing sexuals and stuff. Maybe if you hid your wealth and lived modestly you would then attract the right type of woman, I think that's what I would do, or live the high life attract a woman but never buy her expensive things lol see how that works out lol

Its sometimes easy to figure out by a girls demands. Say you are dating a girl, she may ask you to take her to nice resturants always or buy costly gifts or jewellery. Nagging if you unable to fulfill her wishes , stuff like that Heh.Yeah , its best you don't pamper any girl, her true intentions about loving you truly or came only for your money will come out of closet eventually. Not only girls, there are many guys too ( charmers or very good looking guys ) wanting to marry rich girls to lead a good life.

#34 Edited by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

@Lord_Daemon: NO!!

The question is true love and some money like enough to get by or no real love and lots of money.

#35 Posted by hippiesanta (9731 posts) -

I'm a hate-able person and I'm so use to it ... I don't need love to survive ...... I'll go for moneyyyyy hehe

#36 Edited by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

@hippiesanta: so god forbid you grow old and lonely lol , you reckon you will be happy with just the things you have acquired around. :)

#37 Posted by KingsofQueens (2127 posts) -

@JML897 said:

As someone with a bunch of student loans to pay off I'll take the money in a heartbeat

^This.

Yep this too.

#38 Edited by -Renegade (8340 posts) -

i would choose love over money any day. money couldnt buy me happiness. i hate to be cliché but its true.

#39 Edited by immortality20 (7955 posts) -

As someone who went through cancer and lost his father to cancer during the same period, nothing is more important than loved ones. Money just can't buy the comfort you need on nights when you're up throwing up and shaking from chemo or surgery, and feeling very scared.

#40 Posted by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

@immortality20: wow I hope you are fully recovered and hope you go on to live a long happy life full of loved ones.

#41 Posted by xxyetixx (1205 posts) -

Give me that millions of dollars!!! Who cares about the rest, life is easer, you'd always have hanger ons that pretend they care(which is how most people are anyways) money does buy happiness and gets rid of so much worry n stress!

#42 Posted by sukraj (21604 posts) -

Love

#43 Edited by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

@xxyetixx: so let's say, are you already in a loving marriage or in a loving relationship, if so would you trade her or him in for a bunch of money?

#44 Edited by hellangel_boy (179 posts) -

Love, you don't realize it, till you lose it, I had almost everything I needed, but didn't have enough love, I ended up losing a lot...

#45 Posted by plageus900 (911 posts) -

Money.

I love myself and that is enough.

#46 Posted by Ariabed (1094 posts) -

@plageus900: I don't believe anyone would want to live without love and have a lot of money instead, the novelty of the money would soon wear off and you be miserable and lonely.

#47 Posted by plageus900 (911 posts) -
@ariabed said:

@plageus900: I don't believe anyone would want to live without love and have a lot of money instead, the novelty of the money would soon wear off and you be miserable and lonely.


Thank you! Thank you, kind person from the interwebs! YOU have opened my eyes.

#48 Posted by Ariabed (1094 posts) -
#49 Posted by SlyRoxas97 (59 posts) -

Whoever says lots of love is probably just an idiot.

#50 Posted by yngsten (182 posts) -

Money, I love money so then I can get both ^^