Were you bullied in your adolescence but now you have a girlfriend or wife?

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#1 CecilChups
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Just wondering who out there was ever bullied in school, but is not out of school and probably has a beautiful girlfriend or wife that you love very much?

Also, would you care if your former bullies believed if you had a great woman or not?

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#2 sune_Gem
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While I was more of the prey than the predator in school, I never actually found myself getting bullied by any one specific individual on a regular basis at all. Possibly due to having a large group of friends.

No, I don't have that special girl... yet.

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#3 CecilChups
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While I was more of the prey than the predator in school, I never actually found myself getting bullied by any one specific individual on a regular basis at all. Possibly due to having a large group of friends.

No, I don't have that special girl... yet.

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Luckily no. Maybe because there weren' t any "true" bullies at my school although the jerks that could take that title never liked me and sometimes attempted to pester me with minor things but nothing serious. And I didn' t have any  group of friends to "cover" me. I just did a pretty good job of avoiding attention.

And I don' t have a girlfriend either... Even if I did I wouldn' t care if the "bullies" knew. I wouldn' t have anything to prove to them.

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#5 sukraj
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I was bullied at school so then i had to change schools.

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#7 PernicioEnigma
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My bully apparently went into porn.

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#8 lonewolf604
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I wasn't bullied, just teased for little things, like my weight or hair. I got a haircut and lost 40 pounds. No girlfriend yet.
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#10 super600
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I was builled until pretty much high school and I don't have a girlfriend or wife.

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#11 Gaming-Planet
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I was the bully. 

Never been bullied, although I was abused at home if that means anything. I don't have a GF or a wife, I'm too cynical and I don't give anyone a chance to enter into my life.

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#12 jdc6305
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I was bullied all throughout elementry school. I got my ass kicked every day almost. I've had plenty of girlfriends I just don't want a wife.

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It's hard not to enjoy doing better than the people that doubted
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#15 CecilChups
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I've had girlfriends and an almost wife.

Single now.

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Damn, that has to be rough. This thread seems pretty bleak...
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#16 worlock77
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No, can't say I was ever bullied. The one person who tried got decked.

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#18 CecilChups
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No, can't say I was ever bullied. The one person who tried got decked.

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I wish I would've done that back when I was in school. I was too skinny and frail back then though. Now would be a different story. Lol.
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#19 sune_Gem
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[QUOTE="sune_Gem"]

While I was more of the prey than the predator in school, I never actually found myself getting bullied by any one specific individual on a regular basis at all. Possibly due to having a large group of friends.

No, I don't have that special girl... yet.

CecilChups

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Thanks! :D

[spoiler] You do know it's a character from My Little Pony, right? [/spoiler]

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#20 CecilChups
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[QUOTE="CecilChups"][QUOTE="Iszdope"]

I've had girlfriends and an almost wife.

Single now.

Iszdope

Damn, that has to be rough. This thread seems pretty bleak...

I can go bleaker.

Go for it. Connect four.
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#21 CecilChups
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[QUOTE="CecilChups"][QUOTE="sune_Gem"]

While I was more of the prey than the predator in school, I never actually found myself getting bullied by any one specific individual on a regular basis at all. Possibly due to having a large group of friends.

No, I don't have that special girl... yet.

sune_Gem

I hope you find her man. Cool avatar by the way.

Thanks! :D

[spoiler] You do know it's a character from My Little Pony, right? [/spoiler]

True, but this is an exception where I like a pony from that cartoon. I don't care for that series otherwise.
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#22 worlock77
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

No, can't say I was ever bullied. The one person who tried got decked.

CecilChups

I wish I would've done that back when I was in school. I was too skinny and frail back then though. Now would be a different story. Lol.

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

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#24 CecilChups
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[QUOTE="CecilChups"][QUOTE="worlock77"]

No, can't say I was ever bullied. The one person who tried got decked.

worlock77

I wish I would've done that back when I was in school. I was too skinny and frail back then though. Now would be a different story. Lol.

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

But, they wouldn't mess with someone that looks bulky and pretty toned up. At least, the average bully wouldn't. I would think.
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#25 worlock77
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="CecilChups"] I wish I would've done that back when I was in school. I was too skinny and frail back then though. Now would be a different story. Lol.CecilChups

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

But, they wouldn't mess with someone that looks bulky and pretty toned up. At least, the average bully wouldn't. I would think.

They will. Your size doesn't matter. If you don't stick up for yourself then you're gonna get bullied, small or big.

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#26 CecilChups
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[QUOTE="CecilChups"][QUOTE="worlock77"]

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

worlock77

But, they wouldn't mess with someone that looks bulky and pretty toned up. At least, the average bully wouldn't. I would think.

They will. Your size doesn't matter. If you don't stick up for yourself then you're gonna get bullied, small or big.

How do you know someone would bully a muscular person?
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[QUOTE="CecilChups"][QUOTE="worlock77"]

No, can't say I was ever bullied. The one person who tried got decked.

worlock77

I wish I would've done that back when I was in school. I was too skinny and frail back then though. Now would be a different story. Lol.

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

Bullshit. Said bully will kick your ass for trying to stand up to them
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#28 Iceozo
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The only person who ever really bullied me died last week so yeah, I guess I win in that regard.

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#29 CecilChups
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The only person who ever really bullied me died last week so yeah, I guess I win in that regard.

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#30 Iceozo
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="CecilChups"] I wish I would've done that back when I was in school. I was too skinny and frail back then though. Now would be a different story. Lol.Capitan_Kid

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

Bullshit. Said bully will kick your ass for trying to stand up to them



Most definitely, but it'll only happen once. A bully likes a target who offers no resistance whatsoever, you give them that resistance they most likely will kick your arse but they won't bother with you afterward. It's a saving face sort of deal.

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#31 CecilChups
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[QUOTE="Capitan_Kid"][QUOTE="worlock77"]

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

Iceozo

Bullshit. Said bully will kick your ass for trying to stand up to them



Most definitely, but it'll only happen once. A bully likes a target who offers no resistance whatsoever, you give them that resistance they most likely will kick your arse but they won't bother with you afterward. It's a saving face sort of deal.

Honestly couldn't have put it better myself. At least I think most bullies stop after they see strong resistance, even if they do win that one fight where you actually defend yourself.
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#32 CecilChups
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="CecilChups"] I wish I would've done that back when I was in school. I was too skinny and frail back then though. Now would be a different story. Lol.Capitan_Kid

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

Bullshit. Said bully will kick your ass for trying to stand up to them

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The only person who ever really bullied me died last week so yeah, I guess I win in that regard.

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Cause of death?
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#34 sune_Gem
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[QUOTE="Iceozo"]

[QUOTE="Capitan_Kid"] Bullshit. Said bully will kick your ass for trying to stand up to themCecilChups



Most definitely, but it'll only happen once. A bully likes a target who offers no resistance whatsoever, you give them that resistance they most likely will kick your arse but they won't bother with you afterward. It's a saving face sort of deal.

Honestly couldn't have put it better myself. At least I think most bullies stop after they see strong resistance, even if they do win that one fight where you actually defend yourself.

I honestly think that my pacifist nature played a role in the fact that I never really got picked on. My friend used to retaliate a lot and I'm pretty sure that's why they kept on at him. He gave them the attention they seeked.

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#35 deactivated-5acbb9993d0bd
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Was bullied for most of school. In a 4 year relationship, the main bully in question for the worst phase of it has been in jail multiple times and takes drugs.... probably has had girlfreinds himself as you know rough prison chavs manage to get rough chav whores.... buuuut whatever. Would I bother to let him know? not really ..... given I am a MSc Graduate in a long term relationship, pretty health and have prospects I'm pretty sure I came out on top. Kids/Teens are retarded though (including all of us) .... the adult phase just seems so different tend to not care about what happened back then. I was bullied because I was weak, and he/them were stronger arseholes with nothing better to do. The victim often makes their own situation worse.
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#36 TheKoreanZombie
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Once but i whooped his ass. I earn more cash 

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Never bullied. Have a gf.
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#38 CecilChups
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Was bullied for most of school. In a 4 year relationship, the main bully in question for the worst phase of it has been in jail multiple times and takes drugs.... probably has had girlfreinds himself as you know rough prison chavs manage to get rough chav whores.... buuuut whatever. Would I bother to let him know? not really ..... given I am a MSc Graduate in a long term relationship, pretty health and have prospects I'm pretty sure I came out on top. Kids/Teens are retarded though (including all of us) .... the adult phase just seems so different tend to not care about what happened back then. I was bullied because I was weak, and he/them were stronger arseholes with nothing better to do. The victim often makes their own situation worse.MBirdy88
I agree, teens/kids are pretty stupid. I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you though its irrelevant now. I honestly think Adult life is better than  Teen life just because of the fact that kids can be cruel. Lol

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#39 AmazonTreeBoa
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I was never the bully. I was the one always putting the bully in his place. Had to beat a few bullies up for messing with my friends when my words to them weren't enough to stop them. Never saw a reason to bully somebody. If you had problems out of me in school, it was because you deserved it. Was never the one to start a fight just to be an ass and start a fight. EDIT: Been with my girl 20 years this August 10th and we have a 17 year old daughter and a 14 year old daughter.
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#40 Iceozo
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[QUOTE="Iceozo"]

The only person who ever really bullied me died last week so yeah, I guess I win in that regard.

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Cause of death?



I've heard two different stories, some people have said suicide others have said meth overdose. Perhaps suicide by meth? 

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#41 AmazonTreeBoa
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="CecilChups"] I wish I would've done that back when I was in school. I was too skinny and frail back then though. Now would be a different story. Lol.Capitan_Kid

Doesn't matter how skinny you are, if you're not willing to stand up for yourself they you're gonna get shit on. Bullies don't bully those who fight back.

Bullshit. Said bully will kick your ass for trying to stand up to them

Not true. Just because somebody is a bully, roesnt mean they can fight. From my experience, most bully are just big b!tches.
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bullying is never going to go away and im pretty sure everyone has at some point wich is whyy back in the day i stood up for myself...... i won some fights hell i even lost some fights but in the end standing up for yourself regardless is better than doing nothing
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#43 CecilChups
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bullying is never going to go away and im pretty sure everyone has at some point wich is whyy back in the day i stood up for myself...... i won some fights hell i even lost some fights but in the end standing up for yourself regardless is better than doing nothingThaneKrios28
Agreed. I wish that I bulked up when I was in school. Just so that I would at least know, If I had the power.
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#44 CecilChups
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[QUOTE="AmazonTreeBoa"]I was never the bully. I was the one always putting the bully in his place. Had to beat a few bullies up for messing with my friends when my words to them weren't enough to stop them. Never saw a reason to bully somebody. If you had problems out of me in school, it was because you deserved it. Was never the one to start a fight just to be an ass and start a fight. EDIT: Been with my girl 20 years this August 10th and we have a 17 year old daughter and a 14 year old daughter.

Glad you and your lady are pretty happy with each other. I hope I am as lucky someday.
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#45 The_Gaming_Baby
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Someone tried bullying me once, so I punched him in the nose. Turns out violence was the answer

I don't have a girlfriend right now, my last relationship ended 2 years ago

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#46 CecilChups
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Someone tried bullying me once, so I punched him in the nose. Turns out violence was the answer

I don't have a girlfriend right now, my last relationship ended 2 years ago

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Agreed. Sometimes, violence does solve something. It solves a prick trying to make your life miserable. Lol
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#47 MrsSolidSnake
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I was bullied and managed to get myself an attractive, kind boyfriend while still at high school. We're still together 2 years after we graduated so I count that as a success.

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#48 Angie7F
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I was not bullied but I experienced a few racist remarks here and there.

I have a handsome, successful boyfriend it dont hurt to flash my hug diamond ring on FB everyone in a while.

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#49 deactivated-5a9b3f32ef4e9
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Nah.

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#50 Planeforger
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I wasn't really bullied by anyone back in high school, although there were a couple of guys who used to tease me about not having a girlfriend. I see them every so often nowadays, since they coincidentally frequent the same coffee place I go to with my girlfriend.