So I'm asking this here because someone might have some advice.
Been dating my gf for a year now. We've had our ups and downs. But tonight she says I'm smothering her, and she feels like she can't be the GF in the relationship. Yet I feel like she won't let me be the BF. She controls a lot of things, which makes me kind of... insecure, and I guess I act too needy.
My question is... how can I be more of an *** without really being mean. I want to kind of seem more independant and in control, without being a jerk. So she feels like I'm in control.
Thanks for any help guys.