Question About Male Intentions

This topic is locked from further discussion.

Avatar image for kakkarott23
kakkarott23

2134

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 3

User Lists: 0

#1 kakkarott23
Member since 2003 • 2134 Posts

What does it mean when a guy asks a girl out for a cup of coffee?

Avatar image for Theokhoth
Theokhoth

36799

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#2 Theokhoth
Member since 2008 • 36799 Posts
He wants to kidnap her and take her to a faraway land where she will defeat a Dark Lord to assume her rightful place as queen.
Avatar image for cybrcatter
cybrcatter

16210

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#4 cybrcatter
Member since 2003 • 16210 Posts
Don't worry, TC. I'll take good care of your girlfriend after we've had coffee.
Avatar image for Oleg_Huzwog
Oleg_Huzwog

21885

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#5 Oleg_Huzwog
Member since 2007 • 21885 Posts

Don't worry, TC.

I'll take good care of your girlfriend after we've had coffee. cybrcatter

I was going to say you should be cautious, but this cybrcatter seems like a trustworthy fellow.

Avatar image for Yama
Yama

34151

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#6 Yama
Member since 2002 • 34151 Posts

Is this what OT has turned into?

It's a public place, yeah? Go and see? ...

Avatar image for Pirate700
Pirate700

46465

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#7 Pirate700
Member since 2008 • 46465 Posts

He wants to lock you up in a shed.

Avatar image for Atmanix
Atmanix

6927

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#8 Atmanix
Member since 2009 • 6927 Posts

I'd say it probably means he's interested in you. I would think that'd be obvious though unless you hang out all the time normally.

Avatar image for Sheena321
Sheena321

7489

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#9 Sheena321
Member since 2006 • 7489 Posts
look for body language , ....an ... other signs, youll get the meaning :P
Avatar image for 000000000111
000000000111

406

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#10 000000000111
Member since 2009 • 406 Posts

What does it mean when a guy asks a girl out for a cup of coffee?

kakkarott23

Well it's kind of like a dinner-date but easier to leave. For example, if guy is into girl, he slowly sips coffee and maybe even order a second round. If guy is not into girl he hurries through coffee and is alowwed an easy get-away with an excuse like he has to get back to the office or something. With dinner you are stuck whether you like it or not, and have to be pretty crafty to ditch.

Edit: Sometimes I just can't spell.

Avatar image for Pirate700
Pirate700

46465

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#11 Pirate700
Member since 2008 • 46465 Posts

[QUOTE="kakkarott23"]

What does it mean when a guy asks a girl out for a cup of coffee?

000000000111

Well it's kind of like a dinner-date but easier to leave. For example, if guy is into girl, he slowly sips coffee and maybe even order a second round. If guy is not into girl he hurries through coffee and is aloud an easy get-away with an excuse like he has to get back to the office or something. With dinner you are stuck whether you like it or not, and have to be pretty crafty to ditch.

Pretty much. It's about all a first date should be. Quick, cheap and just there to get to know each other.

Avatar image for kittensRjerks
kittensRjerks

3802

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#12 kittensRjerks
Member since 2010 • 3802 Posts

He wants to pump you full of caffine so you can stay up all night for sex that is to follow.

Avatar image for rawsavon
rawsavon

40001

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#13 rawsavon
Member since 2004 • 40001 Posts
Just be careful what you take in your coffee...don't want to send the wrong message...or do you >_>
Avatar image for TACFARINAS
TACFARINAS

234

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 2

User Lists: 0

#14 TACFARINAS
Member since 2008 • 234 Posts
What are You trying to accomplish with such a question? There is literally and infinite amount of answers. However I have chosen this one: To show her a good time.
Avatar image for weezyfb
weezyfb

14703

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#15 weezyfb
Member since 2009 • 14703 Posts
to drink coffee with company
Avatar image for entropyecho
entropyecho

22053

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#16 entropyecho
Member since 2005 • 22053 Posts

The guy is going to propose.

Avatar image for Chris_Williams
Chris_Williams

14882

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#17 Chris_Williams
Member since 2009 • 14882 Posts

you mean when a guy invites a girl inside for a cup of coffee? it means alot of things, some of those things would get me banned if i were to say them, horrible things

Avatar image for THE_DRUGGIE
THE_DRUGGIE

25107

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 140

User Lists: 0

#18 THE_DRUGGIE
Member since 2006 • 25107 Posts

It all depends on the temperature of the coffee he wants to have.

If he wants iced coffee, he's alright. If he wants hot coffee, run! If he wants lukewarm coffee, he probably just wants to drink some coffee.

Avatar image for ariz3260
ariz3260

4209

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#19 ariz3260
Member since 2006 • 4209 Posts

The guy must dislike her a great deal to invite a girl out to coffee he'll give her a coffee rage

Avatar image for VisigothSaxon
VisigothSaxon

3789

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#20 VisigothSaxon
Member since 2008 • 3789 Posts

Just be careful what you take in your coffee...don't want to send the wrong message...or do you >_>rawsavon

Bahahahaha

Avatar image for Melpoe
Melpoe

3635

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 26

User Lists: 0

#21 Melpoe
Member since 2009 • 3635 Posts

He want's to just go on a date, in a more stylish way.

Avatar image for BiancaDK
BiancaDK

19092

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 35

User Lists: 0

#22 BiancaDK
Member since 2008 • 19092 Posts
It means he's offering her the future services of his penis
Avatar image for VisigothSaxon
VisigothSaxon

3789

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#23 VisigothSaxon
Member since 2008 • 3789 Posts

It means he's offering her the future services of his penisBiancaDK

Ha ha

Avatar image for mitu123
mitu123

155290

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 32

User Lists: 0

#24 mitu123
Member since 2006 • 155290 Posts

It only means good things can come from it...

Avatar image for BiancaDK
BiancaDK

19092

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 35

User Lists: 0

#25 BiancaDK
Member since 2008 • 19092 Posts

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]It means he's offering her the future services of his penisVisigothSaxon

Ha ha

In your heart you know it to be true
Avatar image for Omni-Slash
Omni-Slash

54450

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 7

User Lists: 0

#26 Omni-Slash
Member since 2003 • 54450 Posts
It means he's offering her the future services of his penisBiancaDK
future as in 30 seconds later if desired.....
Avatar image for VisigothSaxon
VisigothSaxon

3789

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#27 VisigothSaxon
Member since 2008 • 3789 Posts

[QUOTE="VisigothSaxon"]

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]It means he's offering her the future services of his penisBiancaDK

Ha ha

In your heart you know it to be true

Damn, how did you know.

Avatar image for VendettaRed07
VendettaRed07

14012

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 3

User Lists: 0

#28 VendettaRed07
Member since 2007 • 14012 Posts

He wants to pump you full of caffine so you can stay up all night for sex that is to follow.

kittensRjerks

maybe not caffine but he wants to pump you full of something

Avatar image for VisigothSaxon
VisigothSaxon

3789

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#29 VisigothSaxon
Member since 2008 • 3789 Posts

[QUOTE="kittensRjerks"]

He wants to pump you full of caffine so you can stay up all night for sex that is to follow.

VendettaRed07

maybe not caffine but he wants to pump you full of something

Yeah, maybe get your coffee without cream...

Avatar image for LostProphetFLCL
LostProphetFLCL

18526

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#30 LostProphetFLCL
Member since 2006 • 18526 Posts

[QUOTE="VisigothSaxon"]

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]It means he's offering her the future services of his penisBiancaDK

Ha ha

In your heart you know it to be true

lol I don't think it is much of a secret that whenever a guy wants to date a girl it means that he wants in her pants at some point (besides some exceptions).

The question instead should be is ALL the guy wants is to get in her pants? Tis a very important question to answer right there.

Avatar image for incred_davis
incred_davis

1166

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#31 incred_davis
Member since 2005 • 1166 Posts

of course, if a guy could get sex without dating her he would (most do actually)... getting married is for ppl who no longer want sex.

Avatar image for Immortal--
Immortal--

1415

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#32 Immortal--
Member since 2010 • 1415 Posts
He wants to touch her shoulder.
Avatar image for LostProphetFLCL
LostProphetFLCL

18526

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#33 LostProphetFLCL
Member since 2006 • 18526 Posts

of course, if a guy could get sex without dating her he would (most do actually)... getting married is for ppl who no longer want sex.

incred_davis

I am a virgin but had every chance to have sex with a girl.

Thing is, I didn't want a relationship with her so I turned her down. Admitingly, she wasn't like some bombshell or anything, but she wasn't horrid looking.

I truthfully just didn't want to play with her emotions like that, because she had been used by quite a few people before and I know she truely wanted a real relationship, even if she tried to push them too fast/hard...

As for the marriage thing, what do you have to say to people who wait till marriage to have sex? Not to mention the married couples who pop out kid after kid?

Avatar image for deactivated-587633796662c
deactivated-587633796662c

6979

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 5

User Lists: 0

#34 deactivated-587633796662c
Member since 2009 • 6979 Posts
It means that guy offers a coffee to take the girl out :| :| :|
Avatar image for Rckstrchik
Rckstrchik

1271

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 6

User Lists: 0

#35 Rckstrchik
Member since 2010 • 1271 Posts

It means he is going to put roofies in that coffee

Avatar image for blackngold29
blackngold29

14137

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 1

User Lists: 0

#36 blackngold29
Member since 2004 • 14137 Posts
Lol, nobody has said: He wants to drink coffee with her.
Avatar image for KingOfAsia
KingOfAsia

1587

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#37 KingOfAsia
Member since 2010 • 1587 Posts

Date rape, definitely. xTheExploited

Avatar image for hartsickdiscipl
hartsickdiscipl

14787

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 10

User Lists: 0

#38 hartsickdiscipl
Member since 2003 • 14787 Posts

It means that he wants to get to know her a bit better in a somewhat informal setting.

Then rape her.

Avatar image for tocklestein2005
tocklestein2005

5532

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#39 tocklestein2005
Member since 2008 • 5532 Posts

copulation.

Avatar image for Fox-Call
Fox-Call

157

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#40 Fox-Call
Member since 2010 • 157 Posts
He wants to put his biscotti in her ladypockets.
Avatar image for agpickle
agpickle

3293

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#41 agpickle
Member since 2006 • 3293 Posts

Thread is full of win.

Avatar image for soren008
soren008

2190

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#42 soren008
Member since 2008 • 2190 Posts

that guy wants to hold her hand - sounds like a player

Avatar image for deactivated-5a79221380856
deactivated-5a79221380856

13125

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#43 deactivated-5a79221380856
Member since 2007 • 13125 Posts
He wants to have sex with her. I wouldn't say they go as far as rape in most instances.
Avatar image for harashawn
harashawn

27620

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

0

Followers

Reviews: 6

User Lists: 0

#44 harashawn
Member since 2008 • 27620 Posts
Despite popular belief, not all guys "only want one thing".