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No it doesn't matter. Who cares about religion anyway these days. If they are not religious it holds no significance to them, if they say they are then big whoop it's upto you if you want to pursue or not. Better finding out quicker rather than later. Wheather or not she aint got no STDs, that's a bigger issue.
I was with a religious girl once before, and don't really want to be again.No it doesn't matter. Who cares about religion anyway these days. If they are not religious it holds no significance to them, if they say they are then big whoop it's upto you if you want to pursue or not. Better finding out quicker rather than later. Wheather or not she aint got no STDs, that's a bigger issue.
shadowkiller11
[QUOTE="shadowkiller11"]I was with a religious girl once before, and don't really want to be again. Oh I know those threads. There is no reason to be scared in finding out now. You either find out now and if she is religious then stop talking to her and if she isn't then you can continue. You can't just be indirect or avoid the religious topic for ages, start liking her then ask her if she is. Because if she is religious you'd be even more pissed because you'd start falling for her most probably.No it doesn't matter. Who cares about religion anyway these days. If they are not religious it holds no significance to them, if they say they are then big whoop it's upto you if you want to pursue or not. Better finding out quicker rather than later. Wheather or not she aint got no STDs, that's a bigger issue.
Kevlar101
This is so simple: just ask her non-threateningly if she goes to church. Or if you're uncomfortable with that, take advantage of where we are now in the calender and ask her what she's doing for Good Friday, Passover, or Easter. Simple.
I really don't hope if shes religious or not determines if shes relationship material...Foxi911I don't think he's trying to sound like he hates religious people, or that he wouldn't date a religious person ever. I just think he's saying the last relationship he was in was with a religious girl, and they probably had some differences/issues regarding their faith (or lack of), and that may have put stress on the relationship. So this time, someone whose ideas more closely resemble his might prevent that from happening. Not that I agree with him, but it's not like I don't understand either.
[QUOTE="Foxi911"]I really don't hope if shes religious or not determines if shes relationship material...LZ71I don't think he's trying to sound like he hates religious people, or that he wouldn't date a religious person ever. I just think he's saying the last relationship he was in was with a religious girl, and they probably had some differences/issues regarding their faith (or lack of), and that may have put stress on the relationship. So this time, someone whose ideas more closely resemble his might prevent that from happening. Not that I agree with him, but it's not like I don't understand either. This is exactly it. Thank you....
Oh, when is an appropriate time to ask for her number ? We have talked a few times................................................................................................................Kevlar101If you know she's comfortable with you, and you know her decently well, then you might as well ask next time you meet or at least very soon.
[QUOTE="Kevlar101"]Oh, when is an appropriate time to ask for her number ? We have talked a few times................................................................................................................ghoklebutterIf you know she's comfortable with you, and you know her decently well, then you might as well ask next time you meet or at least very soon. Ok, then I think the time is nearing..............................
Just ask her if she's religious or not, no use beating around the bush (unless it's hers :cool: ) when it comes to topics that could ruin a prospective relationship. I know for certain if I couldn't date someone who wasn't an atheist since I have been conditioned into hating religion.Â
If you want to know something about a girl just ask her instead of what you're doing. Most girls don't like it when boys don't show they have the balls to ask something risky without blatently evidential fear.
 Sources: actual female
[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"] huh... I always thought that you were raised in a Muslim household...... I could have sworn that I saw you say it a few timesKevlar101I was, but I'm not religious anymore. Well that clears it up :) Oh, when is an appropriate time to ask for her number ? We have talked a few times................................................................................................................
If you have talked a few times, you probably don't need to wait any longer. Giving that time won't do you any favors in the long run, anyway. Get those digits.
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