My love story and searching for help.

If you like to hear an interesting story and want to help at the same time, you should read this thing out. This is the story about me and my behavior in the last six months.

My name is Ognen, I'm 15 years old, and this is my love story that you can change...

It all started in February, when a friend of mine (we were in the same grade at school) Eva, became a really close friend to me. When she had problems with boyfriends or stuff I was always helping her. He helped me with everything too. She actually met me with my first girlfriend (who I don't go out with anymore), and she made me go out with few more girls. But as out friendship was getting closer and closer I thought I started to love her. I was really nice to her, and I think I'm sure she didn't love me. I was the brother she never had to her, she always used to say I love you, she was kissing me friendly so much, so I think that there was no way that I couldn't get to love her (or whatever that was).

My friends used to tell me that she is a **** and that I can get hurt if I really fall in love with her. She really was something like that maybe. She had like a new guy on every third day or so. Recently, on some kind of a birthday party, I told her that I love her. The next morning she called me and told me the exact words: "Why didn't you tell me earlier. You've made so much things for me, and that is the least I can do for you"...

Yesterday, she asked me if I want to go out with her but just for one night. So she doesn't want a relationship with me (as well as with any guy) but she still agrees to be with me for one night. But, will that be enough for me. We were really good friends and I want that to stay that way no matter what happens between us.

So should I chose to go out with her on one night or not? Will it change something to me or...?

Thanks in advance for the help, here is a picture of me and her.

I'm not sure I understand based on your language.

'Be with me for one night'? In what way?

'That is the least I can do for you' What is the least she can do? Give you a pity date?

You think you know that she didn't love you...then she 'kisses you friendly' and then you become sure that there is no way that you couldn't make her love you? You shouldn't have to make someone love you.

My advice...stay friends and find someone else for a relationship. She seems a bit flakey.

If you don't you will regret it. Even if this doesn't turn out as you expected, your love for you and your friend will still be strong and you shall remain friends.

There, that's what I got.

do it. even if it messes stuff up between you and her afterwards at least you won't be always wondering what if.

Do it. You have nothing to lose and much to gain.

Sounds stupid if you ask me. ONE NIGHT? That's like, she just wants to do it, then leave.DarkR34p3r

In my country, it's all based on one night, and yeah, it's a pity..

[QUOTE="DarkR34p3r"]Sounds stupid if you ask me. ONE NIGHT? That's like, she just wants to do it, then leave.ognen

In my country, it's all based on one night, and yeah, it's a pity..

Sounds stupid if you ask me. ONE NIGHT? That's like, she just wants to do it, then leave.DarkR34p3r

I say he should do it, he is only 15 and you are only young once. If it doesn't go well then just shrug your shoulders and move on, you probably won't be with her forever anyway. Have your young fun love and when it is all said and done be happy that you had so much fun with her when you did.

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[QUOTE="DarkR34p3r"]Sounds stupid if you ask me. ONE NIGHT? That's like, she just wants to do it, then leave.needled24-7

In my country, it's all based on one night, and yeah, it's a pity..

People here don't really get into serious relationships. I'm not saying that a 15 year old kid like me should have a hard relationship, but there are more people who like to have "party" with someone for one night, instead of getting in to something serious...

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[QUOTE="DarkR34p3r"]Sounds stupid if you ask me. ONE NIGHT? That's like, she just wants to do it, then leave.ognen

In my country, it's all based on one night, and yeah, it's a pity..

People here don't really get into serious relationships. I'm not saying that a 15 year old kid like me should have a hard relationship, but there are more people who like to have "party" with someone for one night, instead of getting in to something serious...

[QUOTE="ognen"][QUOTE="needled24-7"][QUOTE="ognen"]

[QUOTE="DarkR34p3r"]Sounds stupid if you ask me. ONE NIGHT? That's like, she just wants to do it, then leave.swizz-the-gamer

In my country, it's all based on one night, and yeah, it's a pity..

People here don't really get into serious relationships. I'm not saying that a 15 year old kid like me should have a hard relationship, but there are more people who like to have "party" with someone for one night, instead of getting in to something serious...

Macedonia personally :D

I'm not sure I understand based on your language.

'Be with me for one night'? In what way?

FragStains

yeh i dont fully get what you mean bye one night either?

if yous are really close friends like you say, then whatever you say yes or n, yous will still be friends, maybe i would say yes, because you might regret not and ask yourself what if!

I'd hit it.

She doesn't look too bad either.

Nah, JK.

In all seriousness though, I would most definitely NOT do it.

First, it won't make it better. Only worse, you'll have that one stinkin' night replaying in your head again and again. It'll drive you crazy.

Second, I don't see how you could reasonably consider it 'real' on the level that you want it to be when it is clear that it doesn't mean the same to her.

Third, it is, in fact, a pity date. Have some self respect, man. I don't know you but I know you are better than that.

Did I just give girl advice on OT?? I never do that. I am starting to hang out here way too much.

*shudders*