My best friend and I are a step away from having a fight...

I have my own diagnosis because I just had an experience with a girl like that. I will not say what it is because I do not know enough details.

Long story short, stop making plans with him and let him find out about her on his own.

I have my own diagnosis because I just had an experience with a girl like that. I will not say what it is because I do not know enough details.

Long story short, stop making plans with him and let him find out about her on his own.

quadraleap

not only that but if he calls or IMs me just once. i'll give him hell, i'll bring up everything call him names, cuss at him. i dont care if he hates me

Steal her girlfriend, get him jealous, then break up with her. Simple.-Jombo-

you know thats not a bad idea

Didn't you type this before?

You can pick and choose your friends. My suggestion to him is to be pleasant and to suggest him not to continue the relationship with her. If he continues following her downward spiral, then tell him pleasantly that you'll have no other choice but to abandon the friendship you two have.

I stopped reading when I saw "girl". Guys, FIGHTING FOR A GIL IS JUST STUPID!

*continue reading*

Wait... what? Did you REALLY thought that you can turn "bi" a REALLY lesbian? Too much p0rn, eh? ;)

Ok, ok... Srly... He'll forget this slut someday, don't worry. You must talk to him and say you wouldn't like to see him becoming an ****

I'll try to keep it as short as possible. Lately he met this girl who is 25, he's 18 and so am i. The girl is a lesbian who wants to turn bi or something not sure. My friend loves her and she doesn't love him back, she doesn't even really like him. She's been using him to buy her stuff and take her to the movies where he pays for her and her friend. I been telling my frd that she's USING you and he wouldn't listen. So last last week we had this plan to go bowling, when the time came he canceled on me and said he must go meet her. Then 2 days later we were suppose to goto the park and play some handball.....samething happens. Last week it got even worse, he told me to come over and had me waiting on him for an hour and a half because he canceled again and had me waiting. Day before yesterday after the sleep over he told me to go home cause she called or something. This was the first time i showed that i was mad as hell i left without saying bye and said what is your problem? My friend is a high school drop out and so is she, she used to do drugs and to me she's weird. My frd is a drop out with no job, he didn't even make it to junior year. I'm thinking....next time he calls i cuss at him and scream at him for all the BS he has pulled. What do you guys think i should do and about this?AirBorneLove

Your 18 and sleeping over at your friends house?

[QUOTE="AirBorneLove"]I'll try to keep it as short as possible. Lately he met this girl who is 25, he's 18 and so am i. The girl is a lesbian who wants to turn bi or something not sure. My friend loves her and she doesn't love him back, she doesn't even really like him. She's been using him to buy her stuff and take her to the movies where he pays for her and her friend. I been telling my frd that she's USING you and he wouldn't listen. So last last week we had this plan to go bowling, when the time came he canceled on me and said he must go meet her. Then 2 days later we were suppose to goto the park and play some handball.....samething happens. Last week it got even worse, he told me to come over and had me waiting on him for an hour and a half because he canceled again and had me waiting. Day before yesterday after the sleep over he told me to go home cause she called or something. This was the first time i showed that i was mad as hell i left without saying bye and said what is your problem? My friend is a high school drop out and so is she, she used to do drugs and to me she's weird. My frd is a drop out with no job, he didn't even make it to junior year. I'm thinking....next time he calls i cuss at him and scream at him for all the BS he has pulled. What do you guys think i should do and about this?L8erSquare

Your 18 and sleeping over at your friends house?

I was going to ask the same thing, surprised it wasn't mentioned first page. Was there Gummies and Sarah Jessica Parker involved?

Just leave him be. Also, you sound like a reasonably smart fella'...is this guy really a good friend to have? I understand if you've known him for years, but he sort of sounds like a loser, idiot, and drama queen with the whol girl situation. Sometimes it is just easier to move on, especially if you have plans of going to college.

And quit worrying about this damn girl and tell your friend to get back to school otherwise the rest of his life will be s*** without a high school degree.

[QUOTE="AirBorneLove"]I'll try to keep it as short as possible. Lately he met this girl who is 25, he's 18 and so am i. The girl is a lesbian who wants to turn bi or something not sure. My friend loves her and she doesn't love him back, she doesn't even really like him. She's been using him to buy her stuff and take her to the movies where he pays for her and her friend. I been telling my frd that she's USING you and he wouldn't listen. So last last week we had this plan to go bowling, when the time came he canceled on me and said he must go meet her. Then 2 days later we were suppose to goto the park and play some handball.....samething happens. Last week it got even worse, he told me to come over and had me waiting on him for an hour and a half because he canceled again and had me waiting. Day before yesterday after the sleep over he told me to go home cause she called or something. This was the first time i showed that i was mad as hell i left without saying bye and said what is your problem? My friend is a high school drop out and so is she, she used to do drugs and to me she's weird. My frd is a drop out with no job, he didn't even make it to junior year. I'm thinking....next time he calls i cuss at him and scream at him for all the BS he has pulled. What do you guys think i should do and about this?L8erSquare

Your 18 and sleeping over at your friends house?

You've never slept at a mates house because you got so drunk that walking home would present a serious threat to bystanders?

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[QUOTE="AirBorneLove"]I'll try to keep it as short as possible. Lately he met this girl who is 25, he's 18 and so am i. The girl is a lesbian who wants to turn bi or something not sure. My friend loves her and she doesn't love him back, she doesn't even really like him. She's been using him to buy her stuff and take her to the movies where he pays for her and her friend. I been telling my frd that she's USING you and he wouldn't listen. So last last week we had this plan to go bowling, when the time came he canceled on me and said he must go meet her. Then 2 days later we were suppose to goto the park and play some handball.....samething happens. Last week it got even worse, he told me to come over and had me waiting on him for an hour and a half because he canceled again and had me waiting. Day before yesterday after the sleep over he told me to go home cause she called or something. This was the first time i showed that i was mad as hell i left without saying bye and said what is your problem? My friend is a high school drop out and so is she, she used to do drugs and to me she's weird. My frd is a drop out with no job, he didn't even make it to junior year. I'm thinking....next time he calls i cuss at him and scream at him for all the BS he has pulled. What do you guys think i should do and about this?RKfromDownunder

Your 18 and sleeping over at your friends house?

You've never slept at a mates house because you got so drunk that walking home would present a serious threat to bystanders?

I don't call that a sleepover, that's just staying the night and it's not a 'big thing' to not say bye

[QUOTE="L8erSquare"]

[QUOTE="AirBorneLove"]I'll try to keep it as short as possible. Lately he met this girl who is 25, he's 18 and so am i. The girl is a lesbian who wants to turn bi or something not sure. My friend loves her and she doesn't love him back, she doesn't even really like him. She's been using him to buy her stuff and take her to the movies where he pays for her and her friend. I been telling my frd that she's USING you and he wouldn't listen. So last last week we had this plan to go bowling, when the time came he canceled on me and said he must go meet her. Then 2 days later we were suppose to goto the park and play some handball.....samething happens. Last week it got even worse, he told me to come over and had me waiting on him for an hour and a half because he canceled again and had me waiting. Day before yesterday after the sleep over he told me to go home cause she called or something. This was the first time i showed that i was mad as hell i left without saying bye and said what is your problem? My friend is a high school drop out and so is she, she used to do drugs and to me she's weird. My frd is a drop out with no job, he didn't even make it to junior year. I'm thinking....next time he calls i cuss at him and scream at him for all the BS he has pulled. What do you guys think i should do and about this?RKfromDownunder

Your 18 and sleeping over at your friends house?

You've never slept at a mates house because you got so drunk that walking home would present a serious threat to bystanders?

haha totally. Some weeks it feels like i sleep on people's couches and floors more than my own bed.

Considering your friend's other decisions about his life I'm not sure there's anything you can do to change his mind. Dude doesn't make good decisions. I suggest finding a new friend for a while.duxup

would u please explain how my post was ..disruptive?

Then 2 days later we were suppose to goto the park and play some handball.....samething happens.AirBorneLove

Hmmm. Threesomes with your GF and her GF, or handball in the park with your mate. It seems the green eyed beast is revealing himself :D

Didn't you type this before?

You can pick and choose your friends. My suggestion to him is to be pleasant and to suggest him not to continue the relationship with her. If he continues following her downward spiral, then tell him pleasantly that you'll have no other choice but to abandon the friendship you two have.

Genetic_Code

I'll try to keep it as short as possible. Lately he met this girl who is 25, he's 18 and so am i. The girl is a lesbian who wants to turn bi or something not sure. My friend loves her and she doesn't love him back, she doesn't even really like him. She's been using him to buy her stuff and take her to the movies where he pays for her and her friend. I been telling my frd that she's USING you and he wouldn't listen. So last last week we had this plan to go bowling, when the time came he canceled on me and said he must go meet her. Then 2 days later we were suppose to goto the park and play some handball.....samething happens. Last week it got even worse, he told me to come over and had me waiting on him for an hour and a half because he canceled again and had me waiting. Day before yesterday after the sleep over he told me to go home cause she called or something. This was the first time i showed that i was mad as hell i left without saying bye and said what is your problem? My friend is a high school drop out and so is she, she used to do drugs and to me she's weird. My frd is a drop out with no job, he didn't even make it to junior year. I'm thinking....next time he calls i cuss at him and scream at him for all the BS he has pulled. What do you guys think i should do and about this?AirBorneLove

Sounds more like you're his boyfriend ranting about how he stood you up.

Awww...how sweet and BFF fight.

Look, just tell it to him straight and leave. Under any no circumstances should men fight over a woman unless: a.) she's Natalie Portman/ Charlize Theron/ my Girlfriend, b.) you and he are both drunk and finally c.) unless you can win or default to d.) escape with a brutal cheap shot.

There's absolutely no reason why you need to be worked up into a flurry.

Har har...that sounded funny, I want a Mc Flurry. Oh look at dog with a poofy tail!

Sounds like sum1s jealous...but seriously, he'll get bummed out and hit rock bottom sooner or later and I guess you could either be there to help him out get over that mistake or nag him with the old, 'HA! I told You SO!!'

Tell him your concerns, if you haven't tried to reason with him then don't get arguing just yet.

Tell him it, sit him down and say it to his face, no half-measures. Make him understand how you see it. If he won't listen, just leave.

A mate leaving you high and dry is failure. I have a mate who does it unintentionally, hes a nice guy but totally clueless when it comes to being reliable. He has too many friends, and tries to stay in contact with EVERY single one of them. Consequently he will bail out in the middle of things to meet up with others, or just arrive hours late to anything.

I swear to god, he'd be late for his own goddam wedding and funeral.

Dude, no point getting in a fight with him.

He'll get dumped eventually. And when he does you can get all up in his case and say "I told you so". :P