me and my girlfriend broken up help

Me and my girlfriend or ex now I guess broken up last night we've been together for 4 years both virgins and Christians, we was planning to get married soon we always breakup get back together, haven't talked all day, we broken up cause she told me she wants to lose weight and be in shape and have abs , being Christians I told her you shouldn't be so focus on your body you should be focus more on God i supported her weight loss goal, but why do she want or need abs won't make you healthier, she said it's her body she wants stay in shape. So we broken up and she blocks me from contacting her. Should I talk to her or wait to see if she contacts me first?

@thegerg:

Thanks I guess

everyone knows if you want control over a womans body you should become a legislator.

Think both of you should get over the tittle "Christians" and live life as people. Maybe labeling is your relationships main issue. Stop labeling things and her and start letting her be and do as she wants. Whether those things sit inside your comfort zone doesn't really matter, as it's her life not yours. And from the short bit you wrote it sounds like she needs to break out of the her shell and live a little.

what? you cant spot a fake troll story thread when you see one?

We have been getting alot of attention fake story troll threads lately. And I get modded for not showing the TC of those threads sympathy for there "trouble times".

zing!

I doubt it as well....but FYI it's break up.

I really hope you're a troll because if you threw away a relationship because your girlfriend wanted to be in shape then you need to sit down and reevaluate your life.

pics of your ex

How old are you, 12? Your girlfriend wants to be healthier and you shoot her down and somehow relate that to not focusing enough on God? What a juvenile way to handle that situation.

@davillain-: You want me to **** you so badly you even intercepted my message to somebody else? That's very flattering but I'm married =P

What a terrible troll and a terrible thread.

@davillain-: Haha, I know you were joking, I don't really take anything serious in this place anymore XD As for eyematter, I was mistaken, this time it wasn't an eyematter thread, but you'll have to forgive my mistake, "abs are not christian" seems the kind of thread he'd make =P

Fixed^

You two were set to get married, be a man and go find her then proceed to talk to her. On the other hand you seemed to mention that you guys break up a lot. Seeing as how it's hard to do that while married you may want to reevaluate whether you two are right for each other.

Either way though that shit's difficult, so whatever you do I suggest two or three whiskey sours.

yes yes this! You want to go home and rethink your life.

Title is wrong!

my girlfriend and I!

Wow, this is really fucking stupid. Religion oppresses right down to staying in shape, I see.

You are leaving out important details between 'I (being the TC) don't want her to get in shape' and 'then we broke up'. I'm paraphrasing but you should be more clear if you want good advice.