Is your dad a weirdo, and you mom sensible?

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#1 DazedDarkness
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It's seems like me and my friends all have these weird fathers, but our moms are all the counter balances to them. Like my dad is wild, but my mom constantly has to add the sense and always has to fuss at him for being weird. He blast old 80's hip-hop, and 80's rock, while my mom is quiet and always has to tell him to shut up, he's also lazy lazy lazy! And watches westerns all day, which drives my mom to come kick me out of my room for she can watch Lifetime or the soap network.

I notice this as a trend amongst my 5 main friends also. He also has these weird stories and morals that never go with anything. Dads=Jokers, Moms=Serious?

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#2 CyleM
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I think that is how it is suppose to work, the woman are always suppose to fill in for the mens weaknesses
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#3 EMOEVOLUTION
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No, I don't think you can reach that conclusion based on your own personal perceptions of you and your friends expirences.

My dad is far from weird. And my mom is far from sensible. From my expirence it's the opposite. You just happen to have a nerdy dad.. hopefully you win the loto in your next life and get a manly father figure.

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#4 BiancaDK
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If by weirdo or joker; you mean a crazed chainsmoking, alcoholic wife-beating, knife-throwing, child-abusing protestant fundamentalist, then yes, my dad is a total weirdo, and a joker at that. ^O^

My mom doesen´t counterbalance anything, i´m way more mature and collected in behaviour than she is, even now. She practices escapism like there´s no tommorrow, and cannot, by her own mind, be held accountable for anything.

Cool theory, though. :3 Maybe it holds partial truths, just under different circumstances than what was given to me, but i wouldn´t know that.

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#5 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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If anything the complete opposite is true in my situation.
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#6 Teenaged
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Well no my dad isnt a weirdo. He is very sensible. So is my mum.

Both are counterparts to each other in other aspects though.

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#7 WarEagle1357
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Both my parents are sensible and smart, but my dad is more outgoing than my mom.
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#8 DazedDarkness
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No, I don't think you can reach that conclusion based on your own personal perceptions of you and your friends expirences.

My dad is far from weird. And my mom is far from sensible. From my expirence it's the opposite. You just happen to have a nerdy dad.. hopefully you win the loto in your next life and get a manly father figure.

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He's manly ... I love his zany antics around here. I always wanted to be like my dad, but after a bunch of emotional b.s. I really don't think I'd ever match his coolness, or his happiness.
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#9 DazedDarkness
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If by weirdo or joker; you mean a crazed chainsmoking, alcoholic wife-beating, knife-throwing, child-abusing protestant fundamentalist, then yes, my dad is a total weirdo, and a joker at that. ^O^

My mom doesen´t counterbalance anything, i´m way more mature and collected in behaviour than she is, even now. She practices escapism like there´s no tommorrow, and cannot, by her own mind, be held accountable for anything.

Cool theory, though. :3 Maybe it holds partial truths, just under different circumstances than what was given to me, but i wouldn´t know that.

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You should find your dads balls, and kick them in. That stops any man, when he's sleeps throw cold Ice water in his face, and put salt in his food and drinks, he'll calm the heck down. One of my friends dad got the treatment, once his mom systematically took him down a notch, now he's a loser. She hit the man with a frying pan(big thick, dark skillet) and kick in the sacred area, and played other mind games with him. He's not a drunk, women beating, child abusing fool anymore.
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If by weirdo or joker; you mean a crazed chainsmoking, alcoholic wife-beating, knife-throwing, child-abusing protestant fundamentalist, then yes, my dad is a total weirdo, and a joker at that. ^O^

My mom doesen´t counterbalance anything, i´m way more mature and collected in behaviour than she is, even now. She practices escapism like there´s no tommorrow, and cannot, by her own mind, be held accountable for anything.

Cool theory, though. :3 Maybe it holds partial truths, just under different circumstances than what was given to me, but i wouldn´t know that.

BiancaDK

ummmmmmm are you serious? Maybe its time to call the police...

anyway, I think parents definately need to balance eachother out, or at least be different enough so the kids get a concept of both sides. My mom is a former hippie, and laughs at all kinds of stuff. She watches crap reality TV, works, and loves to travel.

My dad is retired, but was a government employee for like 38 years. He watches the history channel and serious stuff. Whereas my mom is lighthearted and fun loving, my dad is an idealistic romantic. That said, ever since I stopped being a mama's boy I have found myself enjoying my time with my dad a lot. His ideals are different and not practical, but outside of that he is a good mix of fun and seriousness.

So no, my dad is not a weirdo, but my mom is sensible (mostly).

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Actually my dad is a really nice guy but my mom is an alcoholic,child-abusing,whore.
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#12 GazaAli
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its true, but not in the exact way you put it. i mean my father is a great hard working man, but he is boring as hell, strict, very patient to the point i dont think its normal whatsoever. my mom on the other hand is way more like me, she is impatient, fun, understands me and my feelings better, and communicate better. i feel more close to my mom, despite i admire my father alot, but its really boring.
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#13 needled24-7
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nah more like the other way around with me. whenever i go to a different room in the house, my mom's always asking me what i'm doing, where i'm going, so many questions, and my dad doesn't really care, he plays a lot of online poker :P

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#14 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="DazedDarkness"]

It's seems like me and my friends all have these weird fathers, but our moms are all the counter balances to them. Like my dad is wild, but my mom constantly has to add the sense and always has to fuss at him for being weird. He blast old 80's hip-hop, and 80's rock, while my mom is quiet and always has to tell him to shut up, he's also lazy lazy lazy! And watches westerns all day, which drives my mom to come kick me out of my room for she can watch Lifetime or the soap network.

I notice this as a trend amongst my 5 main friends also. He also has these weird stories and morals that never go with anything. Dads=Jokers, Moms=Serious?

you think I'm lazy son?
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I never met my father :(
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#16 Serraph105
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If by weirdo or joker; you mean a crazed chainsmoking, alcoholic wife-beating, knife-throwing, child-abusing protestant fundamentalist, then yes, my dad is a total weirdo, and a joker at that. ^O^

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#17 XileLord
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My dad is more sensible then my mom will ever be simply because he is laid back, optimistic, doesn't ever really get mad and is all around a very nice guy unlike my mom who yells and screams but i respect them both simply because without them i wouldn't be alive.

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#18 trust_nobody
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Actually, my mom is the one who is mentally imbalanced where my dad is the more level headed one. The bad thing about that is I haven't seen my dad in years, I couldn't even tell you what state he lives in.

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#19 rawsavon
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My entire family is...hmm..."off" My dad went from a verbally abusive dictator to a born again Bible beater My mom has endured a lifetime of abuse and neglect...subsequently, she overcompensates with her children as has no life of her own...but she also has fits of rage, where abuse comes out in the same ways she took it in My sister is a drug addict, not so virtuous, clinically insane genius that has squandered her intelligence by "using" it away and beating the female members of my family into submission As for myself...well...another story for another day But to answer the TC, crazy attracts crazy IMO...although there is usually a giver and a taker, so to speak
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#20 BiancaDK
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ummmmmmm are you serious? Maybe its time to call the police...mrbojangles25

i´m 24, i´m good.

These things happened in my childhood, so i totally dodged the collateral mental damage by being unable to understand what exactly was going on ^_^