I'm a guy in high school, and so far, I've only "liked" all the girlfriends I've ever had, meaning I'm attracted to them and think they're fun to be around. However, I've never felt as if any girl was the only girl in the world. I still find plenty of other girls attractive and talk to them. That's not me saying that I've ever cheated on a girlfriend or ever will, because that's extremely disrespectful. I'm just finding that I usually like more than one girl at once, which I've given you my definition of before (attractive to me + fun to hang out with). If one of them likes me back, that's cool, and that's enough for a relationship to me. I mean, in high school, I don't think anyone's actively looking for marriage material. I just want someone who I can enjoy spending time with. However, I see so many other people my age saying they "love" their boyfriends/girlfriends and all these other ridiculous things. Anyway, my way of thinking has led to a few breakups because some girls thought I was "leading them on" or playing them. I've talked to other girls a lot while I've had girlfriends before, just because I enjoy talking to them. I don't actively try to flirt with other girls if I already have a girlfriend, but if I start talking to a girl and we click and I feel like I enjoy her company more than I do my current girlfriend, I would honestly consider breaking up with the current girlfriend for the new one. Basically, I'm not a cheater and again, I never will, but at the same time, I'm not going to completely dedicate myself to a girl as if she's the only one in the world (at least in high school). Is this wrong?
Is it immoral to be in a relationship with someone you like but not love?
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