Now, i'm not the sort of person who is very open about their emotions, nor am i soppy, but recently i met a girl who i feel is really nice. For some reason i can't stop thinking about her. Whenever i see her i feel funny inside. I have liked girls in the past but never like this. It's just that she is the shy type and her friends are really protective of her because she isn't the kind of person who could hold her own. Because of this everything has gone lop sided including the fact that i just don't have the guts to speak to her, mainly because she is always with her friends, and i'd feel uncomfortable when i speak to her whenever they are there. All i want to do is tell her how i feel. This raises another problem. All she apparently wants to be is friendly with people whereas i want be be more of a friend to her. Â Â Â Â Â HEEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPPP
Anyone else been a position similar to this, prefrebily boys.
now wait, and bind your time till the moment when your love is gone and you are left to wallow in a pit of grief and loss. Thats always the fun part of love. :lol:
Lurk outside her house at night, steal her panties and sift through her garbage to learn more about her so you have a topic to talk about with her. Oh, and eventually you'll have to kill her friends.
If she doesn't want more, there's nothing you can forcibly do to change her mind.
However.... You can just be friends with her. Chat to her and stuff, even if her friends are around. Once they get to know you, they might cease to be so protective of her around you.
Dont take it so seriously. Just hit it for as long you can until you cant stand her. Then find another girl. 99% of women are like tennis shoes; you can only wear them for so long before they become old and useless.:wink:
I dunno how to help you. I have been in this position before, and it never works out. Also, I have yet to get a girlfriend. No, it isn't because I'm ugly or anything.
First of all don’t be so dramatic. Don’t take it so seriously. She sounds insecure so don’t put her in the position where she may think a rejection will destroy your universe. You want her to feel comfortable around you, not anxiety. Try to be light hearted and positive about it. If you can’t find the courage to talk to her try the occasional flirt. There is nothing holding you back but your state of mind.
BTW: Game Spot isn’t exactly the best place to ask for this kind of advice so... forget everything I just said lol.
Well she is a human, not a locust, so you should be able to talk to her without problems.Flaming_Ape
This man speaks the truth. My advice is to quit being a panzy and talk to her like a man! If you have feelings for her, get to know her more...great things could happen :)
Lurk outside her house at night, steal her panties and sift through her garbage to learn more about her so you have a topic to talk about with her. Oh, and eventually you'll have to kill her friends.BDM666
I'm in love with somebody but I know we are not the right match. But I can help to fall in love with blank. I hope God would make a miracle so that we can be together until the rest of our lifes. :(
so you're in love with a girl that you havn't talked to? I think you're in lust. Work up the courage, and talk to her, the worst she can do is say no.andyxm
Yeah, if you don't even know her (really, come on, you've never spoke?) then you sound infatuated to me. But, that could grow to something real...
Do I believe in love at first sight? No, I'm a big fan of lust at first sight though :twisted:
Lurk outside her house at night, steal her panties and sift through her garbage to learn more about her so you have a topic to talk about with her. Oh, and eventually you'll have to kill her friends.BDM666
thats a nice plan ryo, i am in one sided love situation myself, and i think i could dropped the ball when i said its fine i will bear the pain when she told me to stop about my feelings towards her, well after my comment she replied 'fine as you said you will bear the pain right? you will be ok right' and told me not to talk to her. darn damn it i want to go to her house and get the real vision with but i am gutless. anyways i believe in god and there is no way i am going to live without her, we are destined to marry each other.
[QUOTE="GrandSlasher26"]thats a nice plan ryo, i am in one sided love situation myself, and i think i could dropped the ball when i said its fine i will bear the pain when she told me to stop about my feelings towards her, well after my comment she replied 'fine as you said you will bear the pain right? you will be ok right' and told me not to talk to her. darn damn it i want to go to her house and get the real vision with but i am gutless. anyways i believe in god and there is no way i am going to live without her, we are destined to marry each other. Wow...wake up eh? She doesn't want you. People make their own destinies and she didn't choose you. Get over it.
Now, i'm not the sort of person who is very open about their emotions, nor am i soppy, but recently i met a girl who i feel is really nice. For some reason i can't stop thinking about her. Whenever i see her i feel funny inside. I have liked girls in the past but never like this. It's just that she is the shy type and her friends are really protective of her because she isn't the kind of person who could hold her own. Because of this everything has gone lop sided including the fact that i just don't have the guts to speak to her, mainly because she is always with her friends, and i'd feel uncomfortable when i speak to her whenever they are there. All i want to do is tell her how i feel. This raises another problem. All she apparently wants to be is friendly with people whereas i want be be more of a friend to her. HEEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPPP
Anyone else been a position similar to this, prefrebily boys. toma91
sunsha yes its pretty much the fact that just what you said, but i am not giving up nor can i afford to, i cannot expect myself o adjust without her, no way, she is the only person i love, and i do not see myself falling for any other girl, heck even if girls from all over the world comes running towards me i will neglect them all, every girl except her is my sister and i have told this to her. there is a lot more thing which i was unable to say to her during our little chat that day. and its personal so i will not write my feelings each and every that is, she might atleast like me when she really gets to know all my true feelings about her. there were slight bright moments in our meetings, overall it could be generous behaviour which i have taken the other way, but whatever, i know that i am in pure love and not affection, simple. i want her at all the cost or else i do not wish to remain alive, i ain't taking the pain no way.
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