I'm confused about this girl...

Ok OT! I need your expertise on girls for this! But i'm actually serious about this.

Ok, this story begins about a month ago. This girl, we will call her jane for the story, and i are good friends and have been for awhile. So on MSN she asks me who do I like (as in a relationship). But the problem is Jane was the girl i like and i didn't want to tell her over the internet, so i told her i will tomorrow at school. Then she gets all mad because she would rather know it over MSN and wondered what the big deal was. I told her that i would tell her tomorrow and we changed the subject.

The next day she didn't come to school. So later that day I log on to MSN and oh joy, she's on. She starts a conversation with me and asks who i like again. I told her i refused to tell her. She got mad and told me that she wasn't going to ask again.

So today i decided to try to ask her out. So as we are walking to school together i start to tell her, feeling nervous. I said, "You know how you have been wondering who i like? Well the girl i like is..." Then she interrupted, "I don't want to hear it!" I then start telling her i want to tell her now. She refused to listen.

So i can't tell what she is thinking now. A couple of my friends say that i make it obvious that i like her. So i'm thinking it's either...

a) She knows i like her but she doesn't like me back. She doesn't want to say no to me, so she is trying to avoid the question.

or

b) She is completely clueless to the situation and thinks its a harmless answer she can live with or without.

So what should i do here? I really want a relationship but i'm not sure about her.

I've had two situations that make up that situation. The first was where the girl kept asking me who I liked because she liked me, the second was where the girl asked me because she already knew the answer because it was, apprantly, obvious that I liked her, even though up until that point I hadn't actually realised I liked her (in "that" way) myself.

In short, tell her you didn't tell her because you wanted to tell her you liked her in person.

she doesnt like you back!, she is using man as a cover, if you say something she finds ackward she can hide behind msn, if you tell her in real life she will have to say dace to face she doesnt like you.

wich will be bad for both of you

she doesnt like you back!, she is using man as a cover, if you say something she finds ackward she can hide behind msn, if you tell her in real life she will have to say dace to face she doesnt like you.

wich will be bad for both of you

sAndroid17

she doesnt like you back!, she is using man as a cover, if you say something she finds ackward she can hide behind msn, if you tell her in real life she will have to say dace to face she doesnt like you.

wich will be bad for both of you

You should have told her that second time on MSN, because now she probably doesn't care.Parandrus

this. if shes "mad at you" or whatever, make like it doesn't bother you. that drives chicks NUTS!!! not in a bad way necessarily, chicks like guys who are jerks but not incredible jerks. don't talk ridiculous smack or egg her house or whatever, just be enough of a jerk to make her interested in you again (ignore a couple phone calls cuz you were "busy" or feel free to express that you disagree with her opinion on something that you genuinely disagree on) don't ask my why it works, it just does.

well you could just tell her you like her, the worst thing that could happen is that she friend zones you. Hypochondria9

sounds like shes mad cause it wont be her. How old are you?blazinpuertoroc

[QUOTE="sAndroid17"]

she doesnt like you back!, she is using man as a cover, if you say something she finds ackward she can hide behind msn, if you tell her in real life she will have to say dace to face she doesnt like you.

wich will be bad for both of you

nintendoman562

Okay, let's review the story...

Ok OT! I need your expertise on girls for this! But i'm actually serious about this.

Ok, this story begins about a month ago. This girl, we will call her jane for the story, and i are good friends and have been for awhile. So on MSN she asks me who do I like (as in a relationship). But the problem is Jane was the girl i like and i didn't want to tell her over the internet, so i told her i will tomorrow at school...nintendoman562

Aaaaaaaaaaand we can stop here, pretty much.

Most girls hate mind games (or, at least, hate when people play mind games with them). Sounds like Jane hates minds games. You were playing a mind game, although you might not call it that...she probably would, and it infuriated her.

Also, I'd give you good odds that she's reasoned out who you like, figured out that it's her, and would rather not discuss the matter with you because of the aforementioned mind games (that, and maybe she's just not into you).

So...um...(a)?

Basically, you should have just told her when she asked. Or, failing that, stepped away from the keyboard and called her then and there. Putting it off like you did pretty much killed any chance you had.

Okay, let's review the story...

[QUOTE="nintendoman562"]

Ok OT! I need your expertise on girls for this! But i'm actually serious about this.

Ok, this story begins about a month ago. This girl, we will call her jane for the story, and i are good friends and have been for awhile. So on MSN she asks me who do I like (as in a relationship). But the problem is Jane was the girl i like and i didn't want to tell her over the internet, so i told her i will tomorrow at school...WtFDragon

Aaaaaaaaaaand we can stop here, pretty much.

Most girls hate mind games (or, at least, hate when people play mind games with them). Sounds like Jane hates minds games. You were playing a mind game, although you might not call it that...she probably would, and it infuriated her.

Also, I'd give you good odds that she's reasoned out who you like, figured out that it's her, and would rather not discuss the matter with you because of the aforementioned mind games (that, and maybe she's just not into you).

So...um...(a)?

[QUOTE="WtFDragon"]

Okay, let's review the story...

[QUOTE="nintendoman562"]

Ok OT! I need your expertise on girls for this! But i'm actually serious about this.

Ok, this story begins about a month ago. This girl, we will call her jane for the story, and i are good friends and have been for awhile. So on MSN she asks me who do I like (as in a relationship). But the problem is Jane was the girl i like and i didn't want to tell her over the internet, so i told her i will tomorrow at school...DigitalExile

Aaaaaaaaaaand we can stop here, pretty much.

Most girls hate mind games (or, at least, hate when people play mind games with them). Sounds like Jane hates minds games. You were playing a mind game, although you might not call it that...she probably would, and it infuriated her.

Also, I'd give you good odds that she's reasoned out who you like, figured out that it's her, and would rather not discuss the matter with you because of the aforementioned mind games (that, and maybe she's just not into you).

So...um...(a)?

Wow, you fail.

You should have just told her over MSN.

Wow, you fail.

You should have just told her over MSN.

Niff_T

^^^ What this guy said right here. ^^^

You should tell her, its never good to leave things like that unresolved and possibly regrettable. microsoft4life

She wants to steal your cookies. Punch her in the face and run.rockon1215

I had a girl do this to me before...I knew right away she was talking about me...and I turned out to be right.

Odds are she knows its her or one of her friends.

You should tell her, its never good to leave things like that unresolved and possibly regrettable. microsoft4life