i need help, i cant motivate me.

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Im have a low autostime in real life, in classroom i am always daydreaming about weeknend, or thinking about others things, sometimes i am daydreaming about a future where i can buy the games that i want and im not have to wait for buy it. But reality is different, im like daydreaming because i cando the things but this isnt reality.

Im studying for a work, but this last year is becoming difficult for me, i have to study a lot for finish it but i dont have forces enough for study, i feel how if i are going to study for nothing. I feel how if i cant do it.

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You should talk to a doctor. It sounds like you have depression.

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@Storm_Marine: im dont have depression, im not sad all time, when i am playing or with friends or in my house i am happy, i only become sad when i think about studies.

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Sounds like you're in the wrong field of study then. I don't know.

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#5  Edited By deactivated-5b797108c254e
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@chimchargirl said:

@Storm_Marine: im dont have depression, im not sad all time, when i am playing or with friends or in my house i am happy, i only become sad when i think about studies.

Sadness is not even a prerequisite to depression, only one of the most common symptoms so you can have a depression without being sad all the time. I wasn't sad all the time when I was depressed...only when I was alone, thinking about the future or being forced to do something I felt I didn't have the energy to do.

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Either you manage your time better (use a calendar, agenda, set daily task and time duration) or ask a doctor for adderall

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@playmynutz said:

Either you manage your time better (use a calendar, agenda, set daily task and time duration) or ask a doctor for adderall

Isn't that for ADD?

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@chimchargirl said:

@Storm_Marine: im dont have depression, im not sad all time, when i am playing or with friends or in my house i am happy, i only become sad when i think about studies.

Sadness is not even a prerequisite to depression, only one of the most common symptoms so you can have a depression without being sad all the time. I wasn't sad all the time when I was depressed...only when I was alone, thinking about the future or being forced to do something I felt I didn't have the energy to do.

yeah this

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@Storm_Marine said:

@playmynutz said:

Either you manage your time better (use a calendar, agenda, set daily task and time duration) or ask a doctor for adderall

Isn't that for ADD?

I would say that's the issue TC is having, doubt it's depression

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@playmynutz said:

@Storm_Marine said:

@playmynutz said:

Either you manage your time better (use a calendar, agenda, set daily task and time duration) or ask a doctor for adderall

Isn't that for ADD?

I would say that's the issue TC is having, doubt it's depression

TC said nothing about having trouble focusing on what he's doing, he only said he doesn't have energy to do what he needs to do.

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@korvus said:

@playmynutz said:

@Storm_Marine said:

@playmynutz said:

Either you manage your time better (use a calendar, agenda, set daily task and time duration) or ask a doctor for adderall

Isn't that for ADD?

I would say that's the issue TC is having, doubt it's depression

TC said nothing about having trouble focusing on what he's doing, he only said he doesn't have energy to do what he needs to do.

He is daydreaming, that's a lack of focus. TC said nothing about energy. He did say that he doesn't have the 'force' which could be from being distracted.

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@playmynutz: I took daydreaming as him saying that he wishes he could get things done but can't. Guess we'll just have to wait for clarification. I used to do that a lot too. I felt like I didn't have motivation or strength to do the things I should be doing so I would alleviate that bad feeling by imagining how great it would be if I was doing something else or things were different.

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@korvus: I still day dream different outcomes of the past, maybe we have ADD

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I cannot learn in a classroom setting. Can't do it, and for the same reasons you mention: my mind wanders. Many people, myself and perhaps you included, learn by doing.

It's a damn shame the school system is set up for one type of learner, because some of the smartest people I know don't learn that way.

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#15  Edited By foxhound_fox
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You should probably stay in school, your grasp of the English language is atrocious.

Also, see a doctor about the other symptoms you are experiencing. They can give you prescriptions that can change your body's chemistry and possibly fix your issues.

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@foxhound_fox said:

You should probably stay in school, you're grasp of the English language is atrocious.

HAHA snort

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@br0kenrabbit said:

@foxhound_fox said:

You should probably stay in school, you're grasp of the English language is atrocious.

HAHA snort

Blame my phone.

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What are the weather conditions like in your area? Where I live Winter can really drain motivation with dark clouds, little daylight, and too much snow/rain, and then on sunny days, still cold temperatures.

Are you like this year-round? Because if its just one season it can be seasonal affect disorder.

Not sure what else I can give for advice, but daydreaming in school I'd say is common, I know I did it a lot. Still managed to get work done though.

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@foxhound_fox said:

You should probably stay in school, your grasp of the English language is atrocious.

Be nice. :( OP even apologized for it.

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I don't think you're depressed and I don't think you need medicine. I think you need to get off your behind and get to work. This country offers tons of opportunities for those who will go out and get it. If you want to be one of those people buckle down concentrate and become successful. If not burgers will always need to be flipped at the local fast food joint. This may sound tough but speaking as a middle aged man who has seen what you're going through several times trust me when I say tough love is the best in this instance very often.

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I am lucky, i think that my life is good but i feel useless, i think that my life is great but i am useless, i dont want to feel bad, i have been happy a lot of time but now i see that i was happy thanks to others, i was happy thanks to the good luck. I dont have do anything for me or for the others.

I want to work but i havent work in my life, i feel that i cant, i feel that this last year i am not going to pass. If i pass the theory i wont pass the practice. I never have worked and i only have studied in my life.

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@chimchargirl said:

i think that my life is good but i feel useless, i think that my life is great but i am useless,

what's next? that you feel your life is awesome but you're useless?

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@VaguelyTagged: the problem is that all things that i have are gifted by my parents or somebody, the problem is that i feel how if i dont do anything for me or for other people.

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@chimchargirl said:

@VaguelyTagged: the problem is that all things that i have are gifted by my parents or somebody, the problem is that i feel how if i dont do anything for me or for other people.

as someone mentioned above you sound like someone who is not in the right field of study.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/INTP you could be an INTP too.