I don't have friends OT :( and this makes me sad

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#1 Chicken453
Member since 2011 • 2038 Posts

What do i do ?

 

Realised today just broswering through facebook, seeing all the people having fun in the park with their mates or people just doing things :( and there's me forever alone at home, i haven't done something with anyone since christmas and all i did then was go to someones house for the night. 


How do i friend OT?

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#2 Canuck3000
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Just start talking to people again, hang out after work / school. That kinda thing. It's not hard, but you also can't force friendship on people.
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#3 KiIIyou
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We'll be your friend =)
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#4 HyperWarlock
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Heres a pic of me and my buddies, maybe it will inspire you to find your own buddies.

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#5 Laihendi
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What do i do ?

 

Realised today just broswering through facebook, seeing all the people having fun in the park with their mates or people just doing things :( and there's me forever alone at home, i haven't done something with anyone since christmas and all i did then was go to someones house for the night. 


How do i friend OT?

Chicken453
It looks like the type of friendship you are referring to is just exhibitionism by fools acting as they do because they feel they are supposed to. A life of showing off to everyone on your friends list what you did today is not a life to envy. The only rational reasons to desire interaction with others are trade, cooperation on some creative project of interest to all parties involved, and education. The phenomenon of people doing nothing of particular interest and then posting pictures of it in order to receive "likes" and comments is highly immoral.
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#6 Capitan_Kid
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Talk to people at school, join clubs, find a community sport to join!
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#7 Chicken453
Member since 2011 • 2038 Posts

Heres a pic of me and my buddies, maybe it will inspire you to find your own buddies.

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HyperWarlock
You all look so happy. :)
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#8 Dogswithguns
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Sometimes friends can get you into trouble.. better off without friends.
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#9 Chicken453
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[QUOTE="Chicken453"]

What do i do ?

 

Realised today just broswering through facebook, seeing all the people having fun in the park with their mates or people just doing things :( and there's me forever alone at home, i haven't done something with anyone since christmas and all i did then was go to someones house for the night. 


How do i friend OT?

Laihendi
It looks like the type of friendship you are referring to is just exhibitionism by fools acting as they do because they feel they are supposed to. A life of showing off to everyone on your friends list what you did today is not a life to envy. The only rational reasons to desire interaction with others are trade, cooperation on some creative project of interest to all parties involved, and education. The phenomenon of people doing nothing of particular interest and then posting pictures of it in order to receive "likes" and comments is highly immoral.

I'm just looking for friends to do things with, whether that be doing a sport or going to some event. I haven't actually done things with people in ages.
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Get a dog. Best friend you'll ever need.
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#11 HyperWarlock
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If you're still in school and have no friends, it's ok. Quite a lot of people haven't found themselves yet so don't fit in anywhere. That's ok. Once you find out who you really are you will find people who are similar. 

Just keep your head down until you leave school (or college) and friends and girls will come naturally.

 

*edit* Possibly my corniest post ever.

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#12 mattykovax
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I have too many friends(that I did not ask for) I have to treat them like weeds.
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#13 michael_1234576
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just keep being yourself, the friends will come eventually
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#14 michaelP4
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No need to feel bad about it. Just find something you're interested in and you'll easily make friends. Oh, and facebook and reality are two separate things - always remind yourself of that.
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#15 sune_Gem
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Talk to people at school, join clubs, find a community sport to join! Capitan_Kid

Pretty much things like this. If you don't naturally make friends, you're either really unlucky with the people you come in contact with, or you're just destined to be a shy loner forever if you don't manually put the effort in.

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I struggle to make friends in university, but I do have a couple dozen high school friends I still talk to.

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#17 branketra
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Join a club or event group. You can even find friends online.
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#18 Nengo_Flow
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stop being bisexual
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#19 speedfreak48t5p
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I'm lonely too. Wanna be friends? :D

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#21 RedCore119
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I struggle to make friends in university, but I do have a couple dozen high school friends I still talk to.

super600

It's always easy to make friends in High school

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#22 THE_DRUGGIE
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It'll be okay.

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#23 Bloodseeker23
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OT is here for you~
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#24 LAN7ERN
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Go out and be social.
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#25 jun_aka_pekto
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Start doing volunteer work. You'll find friends in no time.

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#26 cain006
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TC, you're just not cool enough. You gotta be cool like me.

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#28 gamerguru100
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I don't have a girlfriend or any friends for that matter. Yeah, it's depressing when I see lots of people around me who are in relationships and look happy, but it's not like I'm gonna die if I don't get any friends. Being single does have perks. :P

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#29 deactivated-5acfa3a8bc51d
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Really? There are so many smokers that we just are matual friends. I'm sure there are many people that share any of your hobbys. I hate needy and time consuming friends.
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#30 deactivated-61cc564148ef4
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[QUOTE="Chicken453"]

What do i do ?

 

Realised today just broswering through facebook, seeing all the people having fun in the park with their mates or people just doing things :( and there's me forever alone at home, i haven't done something with anyone since christmas and all i did then was go to someones house for the night. 


How do i friend OT?

Laihendi

It looks like the type of friendship you are referring to is just exhibitionism by fools acting as they do because they feel they are supposed to. A life of showing off to everyone on your friends list what you did today is not a life to envy. The only rational reasons to desire interaction with others are trade, cooperation on some creative project of interest to all parties involved, and education. The phenomenon of people doing nothing of particular interest and then posting pictures of it in order to receive "likes" and comments is highly immoral.

translated = justfying being a loner with internet intellectual speak.

op i don't know what it's like to be that lonely, but just go to some events and concerts. 

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#31 sukraj
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I only have a handful of friends.

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#32 junglist101
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It takes a lot of effort to make and maintain friendships and that's exactly why I don't have many friends.

If you want to make friends you have to talk to people and make an effort to to hang out with them.  Usually a place where you see the same people everyday like school or work is a good place to start. 

If you're doing something fun invite people to go with you.

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#33 poptart
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Dalek fluffy cock wipe? I need to get one of those.

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#34 Gaming-Planet
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This oughta make you feel better!

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#35 Chicken453
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I'm lonely too. Wanna be friends? :D

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Ok :D
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#36 Chicken453
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Start doing volunteer work. You'll find friends in no time.

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I do volunteer work at the moment, other than the 2 men in their 40s there is a chinese kid who doesn't speak much english.
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#37 Leejjohno
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[QUOTE="Chicken453"]

What do i do ?

 

Realised today just broswering through facebook, seeing all the people having fun in the park with their mates or people just doing things :( and there's me forever alone at home, i haven't done something with anyone since christmas and all i did then was go to someones house for the night. 


How do i friend OT?

Laihendi

It looks like the type of friendship you are referring to is just exhibitionism by fools acting as they do because they feel they are supposed to. A life of showing off to everyone on your friends list what you did today is not a life to envy. The only rational reasons to desire interaction with others are trade, cooperation on some creative project of interest to all parties involved, and education. The phenomenon of people doing nothing of particular interest and then posting pictures of it in order to receive "likes" and comments is highly immoral.

Although I am not a fan of social networking, it is a pretty well accepted fact that humans are social animals, and believe it or not need social interaction for reasons other than productivity, even if that is the overall purpose by your perception. Furthermore I believe the TC was not envious of posting pictures of himself doing things with people, but actually envious of the "doing things" part...

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#38 johnd13
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This oughta make you feel better!

Gaming-Planet

That was great! Thank you.

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#39 charlesdarwin55
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1)

Wait for death

2)

a) Get reincarnated as someone with a likeable personality

b) Get reincarnated as someone with an unlikable personality. If so go back to step 1) and repeat until you reach step 2) a)

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#40 jun_aka_pekto
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[QUOTE="jun_aka_pekto"]

Start doing volunteer work. You'll find friends in no time.

Chicken453

I do volunteer work at the moment, other than the 2 men in their 40s there is a chinese kid who doesn't speak much english.

I certainly hope you take the time to be friends with them. When I do volunteer work, I take the time to know the people I'm working with, be it picking up trash by a stretch of road or helping out at the local church or college. People are usually tentative the first few times. But, the more we work together, they start opening up. 

It's just like my classes in college. When I first started my classes here, I didn't know anyone. After a semester, I started noticing other students who have the same classes I do. We started getting together at lunch (at the mall) and at the computer lab, exchanging notes and ideas. They're now my core group of friends in college even though I see them less because of my schedule. 

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