How many BFs/ GFs have you had?

^ that thinking right there is why you don't get laid.

Im 21 and Ive had more girlfriends than I care to remember. Over 10. How has my understanding progressed? Well enough that Ive been with the same girl for over 3 years now and we've been engaged for a year now.

It's not just about the money. A marriage is a partnership. I wouldn't feel like like my wife was a partner if she was wholly financially dependent on me. I am a big supporter of women's rights. But with equal rights come equal responsibilities. We equally share chores, child responsibilities, and financial decisions. If she wasn't working I'd think she had no damn business telling me how to spend the money, but that's just my view.

yeah but she does other work, its not like raising kids and keeping a house are the simplest of tasks. She may be financially dependent but she does her share of the work as well. at the end of the day i would rather have her there to raise kids while they're little crawling suicide bags.

what about when they get older and can take care of themselves?

Like I said, we share the responsibility of raising the kids. I've been at home with the kids all day when she's out of town or she happens to be working on a day that I'm not. It isn't rocket science and isn't nearly as taxing or difficult as either of our jobs. You're trying to correct me on information in which I am in a much better position to actually know something about.

Then do whatever pleases here i guess, travel, take up a hobby, anything

i can see why you think that, my wording may have been off. I actually didn't try to correct you just share my view. And i don't mind doing all of the dog work as long as the wife is happy and in relative easy mode.

Luke you dawg :P I'm 22 and had 8 boyfriends. Most relationships lasted 6 months, 2 lasted for over a year and one lasted 2 years. I've never had short flings.

I hear ya' brother.

Man, there have been some sad things said in this thread. I mean, being over 25 and never having kissed someone? Damn.

I'm 22 and currently have a gf. Have dated a couple girls previously.

Also, I'm not sure your belief in reptilian overlords helps much when meeting women.

Haha, damn it, Emma. :P My short relationships weren't flings - they just didn't work out pretty quickly!

I'm 20 and I've only had 3 relationships (2 if we're not counting middle school stuff). They were all pretty short and ungainly.

I'm not a very interesting person, and I have a hard time interacting with people IRL. Especially with people I don't know. There's always this awkwardness when socializing. Usually because there's nothing to talk about. Doesn't help I have some personal issues affecting my confidence either. I've definitely missed out on a lot of opportunities, some being regretful ones.

To be honest, I wasn't very talkative throughout grade school. So how I manged to be in any relationship is beyond me. Hell, I was even voted "Most Quiet" in my class's high school graduation mock election. heh...

Were all a bunch of fucking loser.

@br0kenrabbit said:

@-Renegade said:

social anxiety

Cure:

The idea is not to get drunk, but just to loosen up. Thus the term 'social lubricant'.

this guy has the answers. seriously, pre 21 I had only had 1 gf and kissed two girls. i increased it drastically by just going out to bars from 21 to 22.5. even my friend who is very awkward around girls picked up girls. i would suggest staying away from sloppy girls but if you are 21 and have never done anything like that, what are you waiting for lol.

just go to the bar and do this when you bring the girl home. and you will be set for life lol

Seems like a lot of you have gotten a lot of poon.

Anyone can get laid. It's all about attitude and presentation.

As long as a man keeps himself looking clean and respectable he doesn't really have to worry about looks...women are all over the map on what they find attractive.

But nothing is going to happen if you don't sally up and ride that damn horse.

0 at the age of 24, but I gave up on ever being in a relationship.

I guess 4-5 guys I'd consider boyfriends.

Well I saw her on Tuesday (Jan 7) , the day of the final exam, also the last day of the semester.

We crossed paths minutes before the beginning of the exam, in the corridor leading to the classroom.It was pretty obvious that she wasn't at all glad to see me, as she was tossing her look on the floor, ceiling and walls instead of me.Knowing this, I said hello and stopped, but she walked past me lightning-fast and, reluctantly and bitterly as hell, she replied like : h.....e......llo.

When the exam was finished, outside, on the stairs I saw her again, this time her back was to me.I called her twice, as she preferred to act like she hadn't heard me the first time.Then she stopped ( I was expecting her to walk with me down the stairs) asked me what this is about.I then asked her if she had time for a cup of coffee, and she responded , rapidly, furiously , violently, in ferocity and almost shouting at me : "NO ,I DON'T. "

Now, even a blind and deaf newborn baby could tell what all this means, nevertheless, I'd love to hear your thoughts upon it.

threads like these fuel my inferiority complex.

20, 1 three year relationship, not in the market for another round soon though heh

bro, you're loaded.

a big fat zer0, and i'm 28.

I have dated quite a few girls but I have only had four serious relationships.

0. Every girl I have ever had an crush on has rejected me. :(