How do you respond if a girl asks you this question in a text?

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#1 Nickelback4Life
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"Is there a difference between loving someone and being in love?"
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#2 Takutsugusuppuq
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You say yes.

You're welcome :]

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#3 MrHappyBizzar
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You say yes.

You're welcome :]

Takutsugusuppuq

Agreed, don't bother explaining it to her. She won't understand.

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#4 super_mario_128
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[QUOTE="Takutsugusuppuq"]

You say yes.

You're welcome :]

Couldn't have made it more simple. :P
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"Google it" may or may not be appropriate depending on your relation with that person, but it's still an option. lol.
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#6 MrLions
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"Google it" may or may not be appropriate depending on your relation with that person, but it's still an option. lol.Shad0ki11
:lol:
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#7 Mudcake_Mad
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If you think abou the question it dosent make sense:| its asking the same question, so the answer is no:P
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it's not about you, don't get your hopes up.
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#9 Fandangle
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A: Yes there is - let me show you
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#10 Takutsugusuppuq
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If you think abou the question it dosent make sense:| its asking the same question, so the answer is no:PMudcake_Mad

I will argue your opinion and say there are multiple types of love. For example, I love my mother, but I'm not in love with her. (that would be creepy) Where as I could be in love with my girlfriend. Both are different types of love.

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#11 Mudcake_Mad
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[QUOTE="Mudcake_Mad"]If you think abou the question it dosent make sense:| its asking the same question, so the answer is no:PTakutsugusuppuq

I will argue your opinion and say there are multiple types of love. For example, I love my mother, but I'm not in love with her. (that would be creepy) Where as I could be in love with my girlfriend. Both are different types of love.

I see your point, my friend, you are a genius :P

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#12 heyfunboi
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I wouldn't respond since I don't ******* text.
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#13 Takutsugusuppuq
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I wouldn't respond since I don't ******* text.heyfunboi

Same here. What's your reason?

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#14 UNHOLY_basic
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"Is there a difference between loving someone and being in love?"Nickelback4Life
I would say: Wanna rock the casbah?
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#15 heyfunboi
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[QUOTE="heyfunboi"]I wouldn't respond since I don't ******* text.Takutsugusuppuq

Same here. What's your reason?

It's just stupid and it takes me forever to text back, I've tried. I just call them back.
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#16 sinistergoggles
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Just answer with a Yes. Make sure you add a period!
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#17 TSNAKE617
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[QUOTE="Takutsugusuppuq"]

[QUOTE="heyfunboi"]I wouldn't respond since I don't ******* text.heyfunboi

Same here. What's your reason?

It's just stupid and it takes me forever to text back, I've tried. I just call them back.


Me too if only I could connect my phone to a keyboard...
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#18 GTA_dude
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I'd say "Lol, why you ask that?"
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#19 DrSponge
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"Girls aren't meant to think"
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#20 Takutsugusuppuq
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[QUOTE="Takutsugusuppuq"]

[QUOTE="heyfunboi"]I wouldn't respond since I don't ******* text.heyfunboi

Same here. What's your reason?

It's just stupid and it takes me forever to text back, I've tried. I just call them back.

Ha :] Fair enough. I'd probably get a phone with a full keyboard if I wanted to text. Pushing the "x" button multiple times just for one letter is time consuming.

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#21 GTA_dude
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If you answer with just a "Yes.", you dont have much of a chance for her to text you back something. The best thing to do is ask her a bunch of questions, and dont start your convo off with any answers...
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#22 rcignoni
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"Is there a difference between loving someone and being in love?"Nickelback4Life

I say, "Keep your sentimental thoughts to yourself."

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#23 hiphops_savior
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Ask her this: Ever been in love?
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#24 3eyedrazorback
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If she's asking that question, then obviously she's confused out of her mind. Let her know, that loving someone is intertwined with being in love with someone.
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#25 AmidstTheLight
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If you answer with just a "Yes.", you dont have much of a chance for her to text you back something. The best thing to do is ask her a bunch of questions, and dont start your convo off with any answers...GTA_dude

This is the best answer so far. Although, I think "being in love" is more relating to a sexual love and "loving" is more of a general love, which the former needs to have as well. Like the different greek names for love like Agape, which means unconditional. There are like five different ones. Even though they are saying basicly the same thing, they have different conatations as english phrases.

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#26 jd7-03
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If someone asks you "Is there a difference between loving someone and being in love?" you say YES!!!!!
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#27 BPoole96
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Say no so then there is not discussion or reasoning
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#28 NearTheEnd
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Quote her some nickelback lyrics bro.
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#30 freshgman
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i wouldnt respond
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#31 69ANT69
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"Just say yes, why do you ask?" :)
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#32 lilasianwonder
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I would say there is but wouldn't bother explaining it.
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#33 aliblabla2007
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Assuming the girl's attractive in a way, I might respond with a "You have to experience it to know the difference... wanna come find out?" Or something along those lines.
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#34 kingdre
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You say yes.

You're welcome :]

Takutsugusuppuq
No better answer. :lol:
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A/S/L
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[QUOTE="GTA_dude"]If you answer with just a "Yes.", you dont have much of a chance for her to text you back something. The best thing to do is ask her a bunch of questions, and dont start your convo off with any answers...AmidstTheLight

This is the best answer so far. Although, I think "being in love" is more relating to a sexual love and "loving" is more of a general love, which the former needs to have as well. Like the different greek names for love like Agape, which means unconditional. There are like five different ones. Even though they are saying basicly the same thing, they have different conatations as english phrases.

I like how you agreed with me, but I dont understand the rest of what you said. Dont tell her something like that in a text, unless she is really smart. If you keep talking in a smart way and saying a bunch of facts, your probably end up boring her before she can finish reading your text. Then she just wont care what your answer is. Best to keep your answers short and simple, unless she is really deep.....
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#37 domatron23
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Oh **** man that's a loaded question if I ever heard one. My gf harps on about the same stuff all the time without realizing that as a male I don't think about emotions / care about them in the same way as her. My advice is to say yes. As inane as it might be to you it is very important to her in all likelihood. I forsee drama in the near future of your relationship. God I hate talking about love.
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#38 vlin1108
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I don't get it. There's not, right? What a dumb question.

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#39 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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"Yes, I think so"
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#40 Buffalo_Soulja
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Let me guess... someone used the old "I love you, but I am not in love with you" line on her.
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#41 wigginender
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Yes, which is the difference between getting frakked and being made love to....
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#42 lonewolf604
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answer: either way, it ends up with a wee wee in a minge
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#43 char1968
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[QUOTE="Shad0ki11"]"Google it" may or may not be appropriate depending on your relation with that person, but it's still an option. lol.MrLions
:lol:

http://tinyurl.com/9fvvuc there i even did all the work lol
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#44 clembo1990
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Say: "Being in love is an allegory for loving someone, so no there is no difference~AQA"
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#45 Planeforger
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Let me guess... someone used the old "I love you, but I am not in love with you" line on her.Buffalo_Soulja

Yeah, I'm thinking the same thing - it sounds like she's asking for advice about some other guy.

Still, the answer is 'yes', in any case. :P