How do you ensure becoming friends with a cute girl?

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#51 Posted by gotdangit (8149 posts) -

[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]

 I completely agree. It's a very friendly way of asking someone out, and it doesn't sound awkward at all. That's how I'd feel if a guy asked me out that way. Also, you pretty much always seem to have good advice. :Vbr0kenrabbit

I've always been bold around the ladies. I find it comes off better (and less creepy) just putting it out there than trying to be romantic and all touchy-feely (that part belongs in a relationship, not a date). If I get turned down (it happens) I just move on, no big deal.

It's standing around thinking about it that holds most guys back. If I see a cute girl and I'm interested, I just straight-up hit on her. Often times I don't even get their name first.

Seriously, the most sexual tension you'll ever experience with a girl is when you first meet. Play on that.

I bet you get turned down by a lot of the nicer and more pleasant women. That doesn't work for the women I want to date. That works for girls that like jerks. It may have to do with confidence but also because they aren't looking for anything long term either.

Saying hey, let's go eat, right now isn't going to work on 9/10 girls. Especially if you barely know them. Maybe older ladies? I don't know.

#52 Posted by worlock77 (22547 posts) -

[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"]

[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]

 I completely agree. It's a very friendly way of asking someone out, and it doesn't sound awkward at all. That's how I'd feel if a guy asked me out that way. Also, you pretty much always seem to have good advice. :Vgotdangit

I've always been bold around the ladies. I find it comes off better (and less creepy) just putting it out there than trying to be romantic and all touchy-feely (that part belongs in a relationship, not a date). If I get turned down (it happens) I just move on, no big deal.

It's standing around thinking about it that holds most guys back. If I see a cute girl and I'm interested, I just straight-up hit on her. Often times I don't even get their name first.

Seriously, the most sexual tension you'll ever experience with a girl is when you first meet. Play on that.

I bet you get turned down by a lot of the nicer and more pleasant women. That doesn't work for the women I want to date. That works for girls that like jerks. It may have to do with confidence but also because they aren't looking for anything long term either.

Saying hey, let's go eat, right now isn't going to work on 9/10 girls. Especially if you barely know them. Maybe older ladies? I don't know.

So if you have the answers already then why are you on here asking for girl help?

#53 Posted by kuraimen (28078 posts) -
Tell her you like to swallow
#54 Posted by br0kenrabbit (13354 posts) -

I bet you get turned down by a lot of the nicer and more pleasant women. That doesn't work for the women I want to date. That works for girls that like jerks. It may have to do with confidence but also because they aren't looking for anything long term either.

Saying hey, let's go eat, right now isn't going to work on 9/10 girls. Especially if you barely know them. Maybe older ladies? I don't know.

gotdangit

I'm in a current nearly two-year long relationship now with a very nice lady. We're in our 30's, btw.

And you'd be wrong.

It works on all kinds of girls.

#55 Posted by indzman (19309 posts) -

Try pointing a gun at any cute girls you like, they will definately give in :P

#56 Posted by theshadowhunter (2956 posts) -

Be bold and dont be a chicken, and be yourself.

#57 Posted by loco145 (10819 posts) -

You need to establish yourself as an Alpha male. Beat all the other guys who approach her and mark the the volleyball field with your essence.

#58 Posted by Nuck81 (5913 posts) -
If the b!tch give you lip, then slap her with the tip