Good Or Horrible Parenting?

[QUOTE="airshocker"]I don't think I want to know.bort_hurs

Does it matter?

[QUOTE="bort_hurs"][QUOTE="airshocker"]I don't think I want to know.airshocker

Does it matter?

I don't know, does anything you say matter? I was just asking the significance of the post.bort_hurs

Only sometimes.

Too harsh I think, while their screams were exaggerated, I feel like that sort of whipping will lead the girl to do things such as move out with a guy ASAP to get away from her father. But there definitely should be a strong punishment, idk about whipping just because i think that will create bad things within their father daughter relationshipmingmao3046

Great parenting. Father of the year. Sometimes kids need a good smack. mems_1224

im in favour of hitting kids but that was clear overreacting,a slap or two would have made a point.he is creating 2 future sluts

Could have went about it differently, but I don't know those girls or this man to comment on how to discipline his kids, I don't feed, clothe, or house them. I understand how a father wouldn't want want his daughters looking like sluts, especially on camera. Can't really say if this was a bad or good thing for them because I'm on the outside looking in. If he didn't care for the girls he wouldn't be there spanking them. Personally, I believe communication is key, but some people are more gifted in getting their point across in a different manner. Hopefully they grow up to be respectable women, this spanking will pass but life remains.

[QUOTE="deuce4eva"]

Father catches his daughter doing a twerk video on facebook. Guess what happens next. Thoughts? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ScttbQGw6BY

GummiRaccoon

That type of parenting style directly leads to children that will make a twerk video.

EDIT: since everyone in here has never even interacted with a black person before, twerking is booty shaking

Yeah that's terrible parenting.  Also, I'm surprised so many people here don't know what twerking is.  It really isn't just a black thing anymore.  So many white girls at my school are super into the whole thing.

Just to point it out to all you genious future parents: physical discipline will in almost all cases lead to severe developmental issues in a child. So please, lay off the idea that hitting a kid once or twice is good practice. You're just begging the guy to have problems later on.

[QUOTE="mems_1224"]Great parenting. Father of the year. Sometimes kids need a good smack. Hate_Squad

im in favour of hitting kids but that was clear overreacting,a slap or two would have made a point.he is creating 2 future sluts

Well he got arrested which is bs,can't even whoop your kids these daysBucked20

Wow im suprised by that i don't think he did any crimes. They deserved to be spanked.

Well he got arrested which is bs,can't even whoop your kids these daysBucked20

Jesus whoref*cking Christ, this thread is making me angrier than the last one.  There are a few misconceptions that need to be cleared up.

1. Spanking is different than beating.  If you spank a child hard enough to develop an aversion but not hard enough to severely hurt them it can be useful IF you do it in a stern but loving manner, tell them why they're being punished, and act consistently.  That being said, there's no evidence to show that kids who aren't spanked but are punished in non-physical ways misbehave more often.

2. Spanking a child is different than spanking an adolescent.  Honestly, if they're in grade school spanking probably isn't effective any more.  They're at a different developmental stage, they don't respond to it any more.

3. That your parents beat you and you made it through RELATIVELY alright is no justification for it.  Congratulations, your parents are f*cking assh*les, doesn't mean everyone else's should be.  Besides, we have to focus on the word relatively.  Not everyone who is beat is going to kill themselves or rob convienence stores or turn into a serial killer or torture animals or whatever else you think the worst possible scenario is.  Humans are not that easy, not even Skinnerians believe that it's as simple as A+B=C.  There's this really important word in psychology called "predispose."  Beatings make it more likely that soemthing like that might happen, but by no means guarantee it.  There's also the possibility that beatings can leave psychological scars that are repressed that one might not be aware of.  Beatings can affect people in different ways and there's really no way to know exactly how because there's no baseline for comparison.  There's no control, there's no version of you that wasn't beat but was otherwise raised in exactly the same conditions that we can compare you to in order to determine exactly how beatings affected you.  However, there are psychological studies that use controls to account for those variables and they all say that beatings affect children negatively.  Trust me, I'm overjoyed if you were beat as a child and made it through that relatively well, but that doesn't mean you weren't adversely affected and if you weren't that means you were lucky, not that your parents were right to beat you.

4. When you say something like "those whores deserved it" you're clearly coming from a place of anger and frustration and thinking of your own emotions over the well-being of the child.  If you were a parent and you actually acted out what you're saying then you'd be a sh*tty parent, congratulations.

5. Adolescents are horny and they're influenced by the media.  Dirty dancing is a part of growing up, f*cking period, f*cking get used to it.  Dancing like that does not make a woman a slut, it means she's figuring out what it means to be a woman.  If she's going about it wrong then she needs help and advice, not a f*cking extension cord in her back.

6. That was f*cking brutal.  That man was twice their size, he ambushed them, and then he whipped them with a f*cking cord.  That's not acceptable behavior  for anyone, ever.  Not only is that not an effective form of discipline, but it's f*cking traumatic for those girls.  It's f*cking sick to watch and if you can honestly watch it and not be disturbed then you're a f*cking sicko, congratulations, I hope to god you never have children.

Jesus whoref*cking Christ, this thread is making me angrier than the last one.  There are a few misconceptions that need to be cleared up.

1. Spanking is different than beating.  If you spank a child hard enough to develop an aversion but not hard enough to severely hurt them it can be useful IF you do it in a stern but loving manner, tell them why they're being punished, and act consistently.  That being said, there's no evidence to show that kids who aren't spanked but are punished in non-physical ways misbehave more often.

2. Spanking a child is different than spanking an adolescent.  Honestly, if they're in grade school spanking probably isn't effective any more.  They're at a different developmental stage, they don't respond to it any more.

3. That your parents beat you and you made it through RELATIVELY alright is no justification for it.  Congratulations, your parents are f*cking assh*les, doesn't mean everyone else's should be.  Besides, we have to focus on the word relatively.  Not everyone who is beat is going to kill themselves or rob convienence stores or turn into a serial killer or torture animals or whatever else you think the worst possible scenario is.  Humans are not that easy, not even Skinnerians believe that it's as simple as A+B=C.  There's this really important word in psychology called "predispose."  Beatings make it more likely that soemthing like that might happen, but by no means guarantee it.  There's also the possibility that beatings can leave psychological scars that are repressed that one might not be aware of.  Beatings can affect people in different ways and there's really no way to know exactly how because there's no baseline for comparison.  There's no control, there's no version of you that wasn't beat but was otherwise raised in exactly the same conditions that we can compare you to in order to determine exactly how beatings affected you.  However, there are psychological studies that use controls to account for those variables and they all say that beatings affect children negatively.  Trust me, I'm overjoyed if you were beat as a child and made it through that relatively well, but that doesn't mean you weren't adversely affected and if you weren't that means you were lucky, not that your parents were right to beat you.

4. When you say something like "those whores deserved it" you're clearly coming from a place of anger and frustration and thinking of your own emotions over the well-being of the child.  If you were a parent and you actually acted out what you're saying then you'd be a sh*tty parent, congratulations.

5. Adolescents are horny and they're influenced by the media.  Dirty dancing is a part of growing up, f*cking period, f*cking get used to it.  Dancing like that does not make a woman a slut, it means she's figuring out what it means to be a woman.  If she's going about it wrong then she needs help and advice, not a f*cking extension cord in her back.

6. That was f*cking brutal.  That man was twice their size, he ambushed them, and then he whipped them with a f*cking cord.  That's not acceptable behavior  for anyone, ever.  Not only is that not an effective form of discipline, but it's f*cking traumatic for those girls.  It's f*cking sick to watch and if you can honestly watch it and not be disturbed then you're a f*cking sicko, congratulations, I hope to god you never have children.

theone86

Pretty much agree with this.  The bottomline really is that if you have to resort to physical discipline you're probably a sh*tty parent, or you have really sh*tty kids, which is probably because of the fact that you're a sh*tty parent.

[QUOTE="Hate_Squad"]

[QUOTE="mems_1224"]Great parenting. Father of the year. Sometimes kids need a good smack. tocool340

im in favour of hitting kids but that was clear overreacting,a slap or two would have made a point.he is creating 2 future sluts

Jesus whoref*cking Christ, this thread is making me angrier than the last one. There are a few misconceptions that need to be cleared up.

1. Spanking is different than beating. If you spank a child hard enough to develop an aversion but not hard enough to severely hurt them it can be useful IF you do it in a stern but loving manner, tell them why they're being punished, and act consistently. That being said, there's no evidence to show that kids who aren't spanked but are punished in non-physical ways misbehave more often.

2. Spanking a child is different than spanking an adolescent. Honestly, if they're in grade school spanking probably isn't effective any more. They're at a different developmental stage, they don't respond to it any more.

3. That your parents beat you and you made it through RELATIVELY alright is no justification for it. Congratulations, your parents are f*cking assh*les, doesn't mean everyone else's should be. Besides, we have to focus on the word relatively. Not everyone who is beat is going to kill themselves or rob convienence stores or turn into a serial killer or torture animals or whatever else you think the worst possible scenario is. Humans are not that easy, not even Skinnerians believe that it's as simple as A+B=C. There's this really important word in psychology called "predispose." Beatings make it more likely that soemthing like that might happen, but by no means guarantee it. There's also the possibility that beatings can leave psychological scars that are repressed that one might not be aware of. Beatings can affect people in different ways and there's really no way to know exactly how because there's no baseline for comparison. There's no control, there's no version of you that wasn't beat but was otherwise raised in exactly the same conditions that we can compare you to in order to determine exactly how beatings affected you. However, there are psychological studies that use controls to account for those variables and they all say that beatings affect children negatively. Trust me, I'm overjoyed if you were beat as a child and made it through that relatively well, but that doesn't mean you weren't adversely affected and if you weren't that means you were lucky, not that your parents were right to beat you.

4. When you say something like "those whores deserved it" you're clearly coming from a place of anger and frustration and thinking of your own emotions over the well-being of the child. If you were a parent and you actually acted out what you're saying then you'd be a sh*tty parent, congratulations.

5. Adolescents are horny and they're influenced by the media. Dirty dancing is a part of growing up, f*cking period, f*cking get used to it. Dancing like that does not make a woman a slut, it means she's figuring out what it means to be a woman. If she's going about it wrong then she needs help and advice, not a f*cking extension cord in her back.

6. That was f*cking brutal. That man was twice their size, he ambushed them, and then he whipped them with a f*cking cord. That's not acceptable behavior for anyone, ever. Not only is that not an effective form of discipline, but it's f*cking traumatic for those girls. It's f*cking sick to watch and if you can honestly watch it and not be disturbed then you're a f*cking sicko, congratulations, I hope to god you never have children.

theone86

THANK YOU.

Well he got arrested which is bs,can't even whoop your kids these daysBucked20

[QUOTE="Hate_Squad"]

[QUOTE="mems_1224"]Great parenting. Father of the year. Sometimes kids need a good smack. tocool340

im in favour of hitting kids but that was clear overreacting,a slap or two would have made a point.he is creating 2 future sluts

Now that you are an adult, you should let your father know that abuse is unacceptable.

Had a feeling it was gonna be this video lol. Anyway theres no problem with parents hitting their kids. Although, I don't agree with putting it up online. Awhile ago some kid got killed after his uncle embarassed him on Facebook.

Uh.. I don't know.. As I never plan on being a parent, this is not a topic I think about much.

The_Lipscomb

Jesus whoref*cking Christ, this thread is making me angrier than the last one.  There are a few misconceptions that need to be cleared up.

1. Spanking is different than beating.  If you spank a child hard enough to develop an aversion but not hard enough to severely hurt them it can be useful IF you do it in a stern but loving manner, tell them why they're being punished, and act consistently.  That being said, there's no evidence to show that kids who aren't spanked but are punished in non-physical ways misbehave more often.

2. Spanking a child is different than spanking an adolescent.  Honestly, if they're in grade school spanking probably isn't effective any more.  They're at a different developmental stage, they don't respond to it any more.

3. That your parents beat you and you made it through RELATIVELY alright is no justification for it.  Congratulations, your parents are f*cking assh*les, doesn't mean everyone else's should be.  Besides, we have to focus on the word relatively.  Not everyone who is beat is going to kill themselves or rob convienence stores or turn into a serial killer or torture animals or whatever else you think the worst possible scenario is.  Humans are not that easy, not even Skinnerians believe that it's as simple as A+B=C.  There's this really important word in psychology called "predispose."  Beatings make it more likely that soemthing like that might happen, but by no means guarantee it.  There's also the possibility that beatings can leave psychological scars that are repressed that one might not be aware of.  Beatings can affect people in different ways and there's really no way to know exactly how because there's no baseline for comparison.  There's no control, there's no version of you that wasn't beat but was otherwise raised in exactly the same conditions that we can compare you to in order to determine exactly how beatings affected you.  However, there are psychological studies that use controls to account for those variables and they all say that beatings affect children negatively.  Trust me, I'm overjoyed if you were beat as a child and made it through that relatively well, but that doesn't mean you weren't adversely affected and if you weren't that means you were lucky, not that your parents were right to beat you.

4. When you say something like "those whores deserved it" you're clearly coming from a place of anger and frustration and thinking of your own emotions over the well-being of the child.  If you were a parent and you actually acted out what you're saying then you'd be a sh*tty parent, congratulations.

5. Adolescents are horny and they're influenced by the media.  Dirty dancing is a part of growing up, f*cking period, f*cking get used to it.  Dancing like that does not make a woman a slut, it means she's figuring out what it means to be a woman.  If she's going about it wrong then she needs help and advice, not a f*cking extension cord in her back.

6. That was f*cking brutal.  That man was twice their size, he ambushed them, and then he whipped them with a f*cking cord.  That's not acceptable behavior  for anyone, ever.  Not only is that not an effective form of discipline, but it's f*cking traumatic for those girls.  It's f*cking sick to watch and if you can honestly watch it and not be disturbed then you're a f*cking sicko, congratulations, I hope to god you never have children.

theone86

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"]

Uh.. I don't know.. As I never plan on being a parent, this is not a topic I think about much.

chrisrooR

[QUOTE="tocool340"]

[QUOTE="Hate_Squad"]

im in favour of hitting kids but that was clear overreacting,a slap or two would have made a point.he is creating 2 future sluts

GummiRaccoon

Now that you are an adult, you should let your father know that abuse is unacceptable.

Jesus whoref*cking Christ, this thread is making me angrier than the last one.  There are a few misconceptions that need to be cleared up.

1. Spanking is different than beating.  If you spank a child hard enough to develop an aversion but not hard enough to severely hurt them it can be useful IF you do it in a stern but loving manner, tell them why they're being punished, and act consistently.  That being said, there's no evidence to show that kids who aren't spanked but are punished in non-physical ways misbehave more often.

2. Spanking a child is different than spanking an adolescent.  Honestly, if they're in grade school spanking probably isn't effective any more.  They're at a different developmental stage, they don't respond to it any more.

3. That your parents beat you and you made it through RELATIVELY alright is no justification for it.  Congratulations, your parents are f*cking assh*les, doesn't mean everyone else's should be.  Besides, we have to focus on the word relatively.  Not everyone who is beat is going to kill themselves or rob convienence stores or turn into a serial killer or torture animals or whatever else you think the worst possible scenario is.  Humans are not that easy, not even Skinnerians believe that it's as simple as A+B=C.  There's this really important word in psychology called "predispose."  Beatings make it more likely that soemthing like that might happen, but by no means guarantee it.  There's also the possibility that beatings can leave psychological scars that are repressed that one might not be aware of.  Beatings can affect people in different ways and there's really no way to know exactly how because there's no baseline for comparison.  There's no control, there's no version of you that wasn't beat but was otherwise raised in exactly the same conditions that we can compare you to in order to determine exactly how beatings affected you.  However, there are psychological studies that use controls to account for those variables and they all say that beatings affect children negatively.  Trust me, I'm overjoyed if you were beat as a child and made it through that relatively well, but that doesn't mean you weren't adversely affected and if you weren't that means you were lucky, not that your parents were right to beat you.

4. When you say something like "those whores deserved it" you're clearly coming from a place of anger and frustration and thinking of your own emotions over the well-being of the child.  If you were a parent and you actually acted out what you're saying then you'd be a sh*tty parent, congratulations.

5. Adolescents are horny and they're influenced by the media.  Dirty dancing is a part of growing up, f*cking period, f*cking get used to it.  Dancing like that does not make a woman a slut, it means she's figuring out what it means to be a woman.  If she's going about it wrong then she needs help and advice, not a f*cking extension cord in her back.

6. That was f*cking brutal.  That man was twice their size, he ambushed them, and then he whipped them with a f*cking cord.  That's not acceptable behavior  for anyone, ever.  Not only is that not an effective form of discipline, but it's f*cking traumatic for those girls.  It's f*cking sick to watch and if you can honestly watch it and not be disturbed then you're a f*cking sicko, congratulations, I hope to god you never have children.

theone86

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="tocool340"] Are you joking? That whoopin that guy gave his daughters was nothing compared to how my dad used to whip me and my sister. They even had the benefit of having jogging pants on. And he just swung his belt like a madman, not grab their hands to make sure he got nothing but their ass. Me and my sister turned out ok so that little discipline they got really shouldn't matter a whole lot. In fact, it should motivate them to stay in school to get good grades then get a job and move the hell out....

Ackad

Now that you are an adult, you should let your father know that abuse is unacceptable.

By whose standards is exotic dancing unacceptable and immoral?

You are just another pleb thinking that violence is less harmful than sex.

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="tocool340"] Are you joking? That whoopin that guy gave his daughters was nothing compared to how my dad used to whip me and my sister. They even had the benefit of having jogging pants on. And he just swung his belt like a madman, not grab their hands to make sure he got nothing but their ass. Me and my sister turned out ok so that little discipline they got really shouldn't matter a whole lot. In fact, it should motivate them to stay in school to get good grades then get a job and move the hell out....

tocool340

Now that you are an adult, you should let your father know that abuse is unacceptable.

What is Stockholm syndrome?

Also your grammar sucks, so the whippings didn't help your English skills as much as you claim.

Would he be a bad parent if he didn't do anything about it?

The hell is twerk?

Anyway, he overreacted.................

Chow_Mein_Kampf

me chana no twerk ok innit boss.

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

racism can only be perpetuated by the group that is in power.

GummiRaccoon

lol

Not my fault you don't know the difference between racism and bigotry.

Bigotry encompasses racism...

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

lol

Necrifer

Not my fault you don't know the difference between racism and bigotry.

Bigotry encompasses racism...

Words have meaning, learn what those meanings are then use them properly.

http://newsone.com/2356859/greg-horn-twerking-video-child-abuse-charges/

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

Not my fault you don't know the difference between racism and bigotry.

GummiRaccoon

Bigotry encompasses racism...

Words have meaning, learn what those meanings are then use them properly.

There is no definition of racism that says it is only perpetuated by a group in power.

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

Bigotry encompasses racism...

Necrifer

Words have meaning, learn what those meanings are then use them properly.

There is no definition of racism that says it is only perpetuated by a group in power.

"I have no education" is what you just said to me.

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

Words have meaning, learn what those meanings are then use them properly.

GummiRaccoon

There is no definition of racism that says it is only perpetuated by a group in power.

"I have no education" is what you just said to me.

More like, "I know what a dictionary is."

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

There is no definition of racism that says it is only perpetuated by a group in power.

Necrifer

"I have no education" is what you just said to me.

More like, "I know what a dictionary is."

Look up ignorant as well while you have it open.

Racism

1. The belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability and that a particular race is superior to others.
2. Discrimination or prejudice based on race.

I'm not seeing it.

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

"I have no education" is what you just said to me.

GummiRaccoon

More like, "I know what a dictionary is."

Look up ignorant as well while you have it open.

You could always attempt to enlighten me.

Racism

1. The belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability and that a particular race is superior to others.
2. Discrimination or prejudice based on race.

I'm not seeing it.

Necrifer

I seriously hope you are still in high school.  You are that clueless.

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

More like, "I know what a dictionary is."

Necrifer

Look up ignorant as well while you have it open.

You could always attempt to enlighten me.

...or not.

Douche.

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

[QUOTE="GummiRaccoon"]

Look up ignorant as well while you have it open.

Necrifer

You could always attempt to enlighten me.

...or not.

Douche.

Just google it between classes.

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

[QUOTE="Necrifer"]

You could always attempt to enlighten me.

GummiRaccoon

...or not.

Douche.

Just google it between classes.

Google what?

Guide me.