Girl problem NO 1.618

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#51 Posted by themajormayor (25675 posts) -
[QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="themajormayor"][QUOTE="GazaAli"] Get me to Sweden and I will give you all of my Middle Eastern secrets.

Well next time you're in Belgium we get married and you're set! Seriously if you know how I'll help you

Job offer, university admission, scholarship, hot willing Swedish woman. Pick one.

How about hot willing Swedish man?
#52 Posted by GazaAli (22492 posts) -
[QUOTE="themajormayor"][QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="themajormayor"] Well next time you're in Belgium we get married and you're set! Seriously if you know how I'll help you

Job offer, university admission, scholarship, hot willing Swedish woman. Pick one.

How about hot willing Swedish man?

:(
#53 Posted by themajormayor (25675 posts) -
Maybe I can ask someone on my university
#54 Posted by GazaAli (22492 posts) -
Maybe I can ask someone on my university themajormayor
That would be great actually, since admission for master programs is commencing.
#55 Posted by themajormayor (25675 posts) -
[QUOTE="themajormayor"]Maybe I can ask someone on my university GazaAli
That would be great actually, since admission for master programs is commencing.

What do you have a bachelor in?
#56 Posted by GazaAli (22492 posts) -
[QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="themajormayor"]Maybe I can ask someone on my university themajormayor
That would be great actually, since admission for master programs is commencing.

What do you have a bachelor in?

Well, I have a BA in computer engineering, but is looking for a master in something else.
#57 Posted by themajormayor (25675 posts) -
[QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="themajormayor"][QUOTE="GazaAli"] That would be great actually, since admission for master programs is commencing.

What do you have a bachelor in?

Well, I have a BA in computer engineering, but is looking for a master in something else.

Ok cool. I'll ask the guy who answers questions like this.
#58 Posted by GazaAli (22492 posts) -
[QUOTE="themajormayor"][QUOTE="GazaAli"][QUOTE="themajormayor"] What do you have a bachelor in?

Well, I have a BA in computer engineering, but is looking for a master in something else.

Ok cool. I'll ask the guy who answers questions like this.

Thanks a bunch :)
#59 Posted by PiscesChick93 (10687 posts) -

It's good if you can accept that all it will be is friendship. It may develop into more but you don't want to get your hopes up.

Anyway, good luck =]

#60 Posted by Darthkaiser (12443 posts) -
Yeah it's alright, it's the mature thing to do Though if you don't want, you can just stop talking to her and start whining about how nobody loves me
#61 Posted by GazaAli (22492 posts) -

Yeah it's alright, it's the mature thing to do Though if you don't want, you can just stop talking to her and start whining about how nobody loves me Darthkaiser

Best thing ever.

#62 Posted by VaguelyTagged (10072 posts) -

i love how most of posts on my threads are totally irrelevant to the actual subject.this should get me a nomination on the next OTcars;TC of the most derailed topics maybe?

#63 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -

yes it is totally alright. maybe she'll develop something against her will,who knows?FMAB_GTO

hahahahahahaha
How eloquent

#64 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -

[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]yes it is totally alright. maybe she'll develop something against her will,who knows?chaoscougar1

hahahahahahaha
How eloquent

no need to be sarcastic.
#65 Posted by GazaAli (22492 posts) -

i love how most of posts on my threads are totally irrelevant to the actual subject.this should get me a nomination on the next OTcars;TC of the most derailed topics maybe?

VaguelyTagged
sorry bro :(
#66 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -
[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"]

[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]yes it is totally alright. maybe she'll develop something against her will,who knows?FMAB_GTO

hahahahahahaha
How eloquent

no need to be sarcastic.

No need to be a d*ck BUT IF that was sincere, work on your phrasing
#67 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
I will,I'm not really good an English...not THAT good at least,it is why I'm taking some remedy classes ;[
#68 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -
I will,I'm not really good an English...not THAT good at least,it is why I'm taking some remedy classes ;[FMAB_GTO
Yeah, don't really buy that Not much grey area in what you said But good luck never the less
#69 Posted by johnd13 (7917 posts) -

Listen TC. If you' re fine with just being friends you can keep seeing her and who knows-maybe one day she' ll come to have romantic feelings for you (but keeping your hopes up could hurt you in the end so be careful and don' t count on it). If you think things will be weird then stay away from her. Simple as that.

#70 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
*shrugs* thanks. @chaos
#71 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]*shrugs* thanks. @chaos

Sarcasm all round! My pleasure :3
#72 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
Do you remember those 99% of your posts? they are still 99% ;/
#73 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]Do you remember those 99% of your posts? they are still 99% ;/

hahahahaha I do #OccupyFMAB
#74 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
fml loool
#75 Posted by mahlasor (1278 posts) -

Best thing to do now... Is super ignore her.

#76 Posted by Nengo_Flow (9376 posts) -

soryy it's a rather lame one,nothing fancy here; i asked this girl out today and she said she'd go out with me but only as friends,she also added that she hadn't been dating anyone for the past 2 years and that she wanted to keep it that way.then she asked whether she made me upset or something and i responded that yes she kinda did but i understand and some other crap only to sugarcoat it.so does it mean it's over? is it a good idea to go out with her as just friends?
btw she's still talking to me and is being really nice so at least i didn't freak her out right?

VaguelyTagged
that girl you descibe sounds really familiar. Where do you live? And where did you meet this girl?
#77 Posted by themajormayor (25675 posts) -
So anyway as I said you can never know what a girl thinks. She says something but thinks something else. So I'm pretty sure she wants you bro. Is she hot? If so then go for it. So anyway. You should take her out "as friends" and then you look her deep into the eyes the whole night and make her melt. Or you look away all the time playing hard to get. Anything will work really.
#78 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]fml loool

Sorry FMAB, already taken ;3
#79 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]fml loool

Sorry FMAB, already taken ;3

I UNDERSTOOD THAT! And i don't like it =[ hehe
#80 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]fml loool

Sorry FMAB, already taken ;3

I UNDERSTOOD THAT! And i don't like it =[ hehe

hahahaha The 1% ;3
#81 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] Sorry FMAB, already taken ;3

I UNDERSTOOD THAT! And i don't like it =[ hehe

hahahaha The 1% ;3

It is soooo sad that the 1% is only stuff that breaks my heart ;[
#82 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] I UNDERSTOOD THAT! And i don't like it =[ heheFMAB_GTO
hahahaha The 1% ;3

It is soooo sad that the 1% is only stuff that breaks my heart ;[

:(
Why it heart your break?
THERES ENOUGH OF ME TO GO AROUND

Ohhhhhhh
The Mrs is not going to be happy about that

#83 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] hahahaha The 1% ;3

It is soooo sad that the 1% is only stuff that breaks my heart ;[

:( Why it heart your break?

because are occupied you ;[
#84 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] It is soooo sad that the 1% is only stuff that breaks my heart ;[

:( Why it heart your break?

because are occupied you ;[

See edit ;3
#85 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] :( Why it heart your break?

because are occupied you ;[

See edit ;3

Oh. You know I'm talking with you while my sister,the girl that was in my life for 19 years,is celebrating her birthday,DO YOU UNDERSTAND HOW SPECIAL IS THAT??!
#86 Posted by megam (457 posts) -
I think you're just setting yourself up for heartbreak and an emotional roller coaster. Girls are crafty critters, and she now understands she's basically in control of this relationship. If she needs something done, you'll be her go-to guy because you figure eventually she'll change her mind. I wouldn't count on that.
#87 Posted by chaoscougar1 (36753 posts) -
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] because are occupied you ;[

See edit ;3

Oh. You know I'm talking with you while my sister,the girl that was in my life for 19 years,is celebrating her birthday,DO YOU UNDERSTAND HOW SPECIAL IS THAT??!

Not very if you're still talking to me ^.^
#88 Posted by FMAB_GTO (14385 posts) -
oh makes sense bye chaos! ^.^
#89 Posted by ShadowMoses900 (17081 posts) -

You should let your intentions be known, that you are looking for a relationship and that you like her. Ask her to give you a chance, and that while you understand how she feels you would like to give it a shot. Just give it some time and see where it goes, if it doesn't work out oh well, go find another girl.

Personally I have been in similar situations, but the girl always comes around. The trick is not to make it awkward, just toss out lables like "friends" or "dates", just hang out together and be yourself and be confident. Eventually what usually happens is you grow closer togther and it does become a serious relationship.

This may be a little harder in your case because you said she has not dated seriously in 2 years, it sounds like she had a very bad break up with someone she cared a lot about. Though on the plus side this also means she is more suspectable to intimacy as she has been out of the "game" for so long if you understand.

Though OT, and GS in general is not a very good place to ask for realtionship advice. Most of the people on here don't seem like they understand women and to be honest, I doubt the vast majority of them have had any experience with women to begin with.

#90 Posted by VaguelyTagged (10072 posts) -

Listen TC. If you' re fine with just being friends you can keep seeing her and who knows-maybe one day she' ll come to have romantic feelings for you (but keeping your hopes up could hurt you in the end so be careful and don' t count on it). If you think things will be weird then stay away from her. Simple as that.

johnd13
i think i'll manage to get over her eventually.thankfully i'm not all that emotional,and yeah gonna stay away from her as much as possible,i just haven't decided yet whether it will be rude not to go there for the book or not.
#91 Posted by VaguelyTagged (10072 posts) -

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

i love how most of posts on my threads are totally irrelevant to the actual subject.this should get me a nomination on the next OTcars;TC of the most derailed topics maybe?

GazaAli

sorry bro :(

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#92 Posted by johnd13 (7917 posts) -

[QUOTE="johnd13"]

Listen TC. If you' re fine with just being friends you can keep seeing her and who knows-maybe one day she' ll come to have romantic feelings for you (but keeping your hopes up could hurt you in the end so be careful and don' t count on it). If you think things will be weird then stay away from her. Simple as that.

VaguelyTagged

i think i'll manage to get over her eventually.thankfully i'm not all that emotional,and yeah gonna stay away from her as much as possible,i just haven't decided yet whether it will be rude not to go there for the book or not.

Do what you feel is right. IMHO you could go for the book just to show that everything' s fine (even if it' s not) and dispel all feelings of awkwardness-like you have moved on and you' re cool with it. But again you know her so you can probably understand what' s the best thing to do.

#93 Posted by VaguelyTagged (10072 posts) -
[QUOTE="themajormayor"]So anyway as I said you can never know what a girl thinks. She says something but thinks something else. So I'm pretty sure she wants you bro. Is she hot? If so then go for it. So anyway. You should take her out "as friends" and then you look her deep into the eyes the whole night and make her melt. Or you look away all the time playing hard to get. Anything will work really.

she is. not stereotypically hot though.actually i like here more for her personality which rarely happens to me. lol at the second part btw.
#94 Posted by johnd13 (7917 posts) -

So anyway as I said you can never know what a girl thinks. She says something but thinks something else. So I'm pretty sure she wants you bro. Is she hot? If so then go for it. So anyway. You should take her out "as friends" and then you look her deep into the eyes the whole night and make her melt. Or you look away all the time playing hard to get. Anything will work really. themajormayor

So themajormayor is a romantic fella. :P

#95 Posted by kuraimen (28078 posts) -
Tell her you don't want to be his bf you just want sex. Friendzone is not so bad when you can fvck your friend.
#96 Posted by VaguelyTagged (10072 posts) -

You should let your intentions be known, that you are looking for a relationship and that you like her. Ask her to give you a chance, and that while you understand how she feels you would like to give it a shot. Just give it some time and see where it goes, if it doesn't work out oh well, go find another girl.

Personally I have been in similar situations, but the girl always comes around. The trick is not to make it awkward, just toss out lables like "friends" or "dates", just hang out together and be yourself and be confident. Eventually what usually happens is you grow closer togther and it does become a serious relationship.

This may be a little harder in your case because you said she has not dated seriously in 2 years, it sounds like she had a very bad break up with someone she cared a lot about. Though on the plus side this also means she is more suspectable to intimacy as she has been out of the "game" for so long if you understand.

Though OT, and GS in general is not a very good place to ask for realtionship advice. Most of the people on here don't seem like they understand women and to be honest, I doubt the vast majority of them have had any experience with women to begin with.

ShadowMoses900
good advices thank you sir and yeah i'm one the ones who usually throws friendship advices in OT and as you can see i suck at it as you mentioned.lol
#97 Posted by michael_1234576 (8620 posts) -
stay friends but talk to other girls, don't dwell on this and spend your time waiting for something to happen...Trust me nothing good comes from trying to force something.
#98 Posted by VaguelyTagged (10072 posts) -
Tell her you don't want to be his bf you just want sex. Friendzone is not so bad when you can fvck your friend.kuraimen
even if she was ok with it i don't see myself telling that to anyone ever.
#99 Posted by VaguelyTagged (10072 posts) -
stay friends but talk to other girls, don't dwell on this and spend your time waiting for something to happen...Trust me nothing good comes from trying to force something.michael_1234576
i know,if someone doesn't like you that way there is usually zero chances to convince them to feel otherwise and vice versa.
#100 Posted by kuraimen (28078 posts) -
[QUOTE="kuraimen"]Tell her you don't want to be his bf you just want sex. Friendzone is not so bad when you can fvck your friend.VaguelyTagged
even if she was ok with it i don't see myself telling that to anyone ever.

Really? you don't have to tell her like that just get drunk and things will happen.