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#1 Solid_Snake325
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Hi guys, normally I don't ask for girl advice, but I'm honestly stumped on this one. I've been talking to this cute girl the past few days, she's a cashier at a grocery store. On Wednesday morning, I was talking to her, making her laugh and smile, then I asked for her Facebook, and she said ok and gave me her last name, which checked out. I added her Wednesday at noon and she still hasn't accepted the invite. I really like this girl, I'm 24, she's 21. It doesn't appear that she has a boyfriend but I can't see her full profile. What should I do? Maybe I'm being impatient but it seems a bit extreme that she hasn't gotten on Facebook once in 2 days. She is a young American woman after all.

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#2 ultimate-k
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Stalk her! Follow her home!

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#3  Edited By johnd13
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Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

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#4  Edited By tofu-lion91
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There could be a number of reasons why she hasn't accepted yet. I added a load of people on my course and a couple of them have only just accepted my request weeks later. Don't know why but it's not bothered me. I'd just carry on as normal and eventually she'll either accept and you can start talking or you'll forget about her. Hope it works out well :)

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#5  Edited By MirkoS77
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Don't come off as clingy or desperate, and don't revolve your time around what she's doing. Just relax and let things go like normal. Pestering her is the worst thing you could do.

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#6  Edited By Nengo_Flow
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@johnd13 said:

Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

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#7 Master_Live
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@Nengo_Flow said:

@johnd13 said:

Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

+2

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#9  Edited By k2theswiss
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everyone doesn't check their facebook every minute.... If it wasn't declined then deal with it for the moment and next time you go to the store and say "get my invite? maybe i sent it to the wrong "bla bla"".

facebook is annoying, it's pretty much turned into a vine video collection pile for me

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#10  Edited By Mercenary848
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@johnd13: yes thank you, dont use the internet if you do not have too

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#11 -ParaNormaN-
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@Master_Live said:

@Nengo_Flow said:

@johnd13 said:

Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

+2

+3

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#12  Edited By Netret0120
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Facebook?

Dude ask for the number. That way you can call when you want.

If you are afraid of being rejected say it this way "Is there a number I can reach you on?" If she says no say " 2014 and you don't have a number? Get with the times girl:-P

But in your case i am sure she will say yes

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#13 Sword-Demon
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Really? She didn't accept your friend request after only 2 days and you're panicking?

Just chill out. Next time you see her, get her number.. not her facebook profile. and don't pester her if you do get her number.

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#14 always_explicit
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Its been Christmas and new year etc etc, I have barely touched my facebook. No time. If she is cute and nice and fun theres a good chance she doesnt use facebook all that often because she is out and about with friends.

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#15  Edited By lostrib
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you are in the wrong place for good advice

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#16 deactivated-5acbb9993d0bd
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Lostrib is right.

But may i ask, why the hell would you ask for her facebook firsT? I am 25 so 1 year older than you.... and I social network more than most. but cmon mate? anyone who has a clue knows facebook is just a stalking tool.

Why didn't you just as her out or for her number? (to ask her out).

She now knows you want to look at her profile. if she has any sort of brain.

you need to get information directly not stalker-book.

this coming from a shy person myself (but in a long term relationship now), talking at a house party one night, got her number. asked her out.

I know the setting is hard (behind a counter) but you don't really have a choice.

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#17 Shottayouth13-
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You should have asked for her number, not her facebook.

In any event, girls usually have a long list of friend requests to attend to, so give it some time.

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#18 plageus900
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@Nengo_Flow said:

@johnd13 said:

Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

This. I don't know why people resort to the internet for dating these days. Just fucking call her.

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#19  Edited By deactivated-5d6bb9cb2ee20
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@johnd13 said:

Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

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#20 Brain_Duster
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@johnd13 said:

Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

How can you be friends irl if you're not even friends on fb?

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@johnd13 said:

Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

Thread should have ended right here....

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#23  Edited By Solid_Snake325
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@MBirdy88: Some of you guys are just dicks....Facebook isn't a stalking tool, speak for yourself. I asked for her Facebook because there were people around her including customers and the bagger so I'd rather not ask her number in front of everyone. Normally I would ask for the number.

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#24 4myAmuzumament
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add her on instagram and twitter too to make sure she knows you really want to be more than friends with her.

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#25 Nengo_Flow
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@4myAmuzumament said:

add her on instagram and twitter too to make sure she knows you really want to be more than friends with her.

and do forget to daily send her tons of selfies on snap-chap

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#26  Edited By elkoldo
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@-paranorman- said:

@Master_Live said:

@Nengo_Flow said:

@johnd13 said:

Ask her out and forget about the stupid facebook.

+2

+3

+4 Though asking out doesn't always work out that easily, as I've been seeking to ask out the girl I've been fancying for weeks and haven't found the appropriate opportunity. :(

@Solid_Snake325 said:

@MBirdy88: Some of you guys are just dicks....Facebook isn't a stalking tool, speak for yourself. I asked for her Facebook because there were people around her including customers and the bagger so I'd rather not ask her number in front of everyone. Normally I would ask for the number.

At least,be polite and respectful to those who spent time answering your question , if not planning to return appreciations.

Facebook really IS a home to jerk-offs.

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#27 Cynical_Buzzard
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You need to just give up on her, she is not worth your time.

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#28 AmazonTreeBoa
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@Solid_Snake325: Sit back and chill. It could be something as simple as she hasn't checked her Facebook to have even seen your invite. You are thinking too much into it. Two days is nothing. You don't know her well enough to just assume she gets on Facebook all the time. She could for all you know be the type that doesn't get on very often, maybe once a week. Seems to me like you are getting all worked up over nothing.

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#29 chaoscougar1
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@MirkoS77 said:

Don't come off as clingy or desperate, and don't revolve your time around what she's doing. Just relax and let things go like normal. Pestering her is the worst thing you could do.

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#30  Edited By betamaxx83
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You should have asked her for her phone number. Than as you chat and flirt, you can slip in and ask her if she had a Facebook. Take it down a notch, you sound desperate. It's pretty easy to get woman, men think it's some kind of scientific formula to get girls, when in reality it's pretty simple.

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#31 GTA_dude
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Why'd you ask for her facebook? You should have asked for her number...

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#32 nigellalawson30
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dont be impatient and let the things go normally.....

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#33 darkmark91
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Did she ever respond back?